What you get a £10000 check for a kid, no wonder there is so many debt on your countries books.Islamically, you should marry the moment u a find a spouse whom both of you agree to be together. Dont think about having NO MONEY or status. Things will work out by itself. In fact, Islam says, the moment u marry halaal u start receiving Baraka like gold rains from heaven. (here in america, it means child credit when filing tax. u can get a 10 thousand check just like tha t lol)But if u wait because of superficial demands like money, u r screwed!