I watched this video and it was great made a lot of sense... if we really look into what's going you can see how similar we are to the AA's, no wonder women are bashing the men. AA's had a family structure like somalis did back home but once the war started and in America the crack epidemic happened the men lost the power/ role of being the head of the family because of racial profiling and harsh sentences a lot of the women were left on their own to protect the family, the welfare system came into play giving women a sense of power, same thing with us many women/families fled the country coming to the western world and the welfare system was there to "provide" the women are collecting checks in which the man feels like he doesn't have to provide. Once the men is not providing Anymore he loses the power to be the head of the house. No one can really do it alone children have to see both parents doing their roles, it's a huge responsibility to raise a good family.