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Mmh I'm not sure if you read my post before the last one, where i quoted you a hadith. This non mahram fearmongering as you're saying. Only a person with Dayouth Tendencies would accept such things, regardless of the religion of the brother in law, it still is unacceptableWhy you flipping it on me now about the Kufar Government which is what I charged on you since you always claim you're a conservative person and on the the deen, I'm not the one who brags "i'm conservative on the deen" like you which is why I say for you Social Welfare is only halal in Muslim countries with a Muslim Government ruling with the Sharia and collecting their revenues from Zakat and other halal Muslim Governemnt revenues.
I believe a Muslim recieving social welfare from a Kufar Government that is currently waging a war on muslims, the same Kufar Government that broke peace 'the covenent' in 2001 between Muslims and Kufar, it's not Islamically acceptable to voluntarily/willfully receive Social Welfare handouts from them. So I suggest you stop advocating for haram, as you said is haram, do not try to lead innocent Muslims astray and it's not more haram than living with your in laws which tame compare to Kufar Government who are killing millions of Muslims
Are you ok in the head ah'uudibillahi minashaaydani rajiim they are a couple the man is there for his wife they are muslims, they are family the brother always respects is in-laws and would never dare go anywhere near her as his parents are there, so all this "non-maharam" fearmongering in a safe environment like a family home.
Most South Asian Muslims who are on the deen use halal mortgage to buy a new house and because of their good family values they have their parents chipping in too to help. Some South Asian Muslims from some small Hanafi intersects claim riba mortgages are not haram and engage in it but they are only a minority. Whichever they buy a house for residential purpose or their first 'buy to let' which will gaurantee generational wealth, you see with the South Asian community only the first and second generation did some struggle and now they mashaallah they are in their 5/6 generation doing very well AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU TRY TO SLANDER THEM AND ALSO DENY THE POOR SOMALIS TO MAKE THE FIRST/SECOND GENERATION STRUGGLE so their children and children's children etc, can live comfortable and have compounding generational wealth, I thiught you are some one value the family wealth building since you are always on about "if he's/they are rich, remeber getting rich is always a process and must delay gratification by trying to live comfortable now.
"Rent is cheap outside of london" kulaha, lol, who wants to live outside London? remember we are talking about Somalis they don' want to get away from London. The rent in London Is astronomical most people are trying to run away from it and get on the property ladder which is why the UK government is trying to make easier for people to do that as we speak politicians are fighting with each about who makes it easier to get people on the property ladder.
I'm not sure about South Asians Muslims having more family issues than Somalis when in the Somali community is basically broken now and it's mostly single mother (Kufar Government) households raising children on her own, why? because they have kick out the husband/father out the house in order comply with the Kufar Governent social welfare rules and this destroys families, this is the reality of the average Somali household yet you want to claim South Asians "have more family issues than us", you are insane if you think that.
When you refer to "In-law abuse and drastic toxic bust ups" in the South Asian community, I don't think would be much of a problem with Somali women since they mostly have (many times) a lot brothers who would shut down torturous abuse.
here lemme quote you the hadith again (IN RED)
It was reported from ‘Uqbah ibn ‘Aamir that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Beware of entering upon women.” A man from among the Ansaar said: “O Messenger of Allaah, what about the brother-in-law?” he said: “The brother-in-law is death.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4934; Muslim, 2172). (source: Islamqa.info Question: 7653)
"The basic principle with regard to accepting this money is the reports narrated by al-Bukhaari (7164) and Muslim (1045) from ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) used to give us things, and I would say: Give it to one who is more in need of it than me. Then on one occasion he gave me something, and I said: Give it to one who is more in need of it than me, and the Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allaah be upon him) said: “Take it. Whatever of this wealth comes to you when you are not hoping for it or asking for it, take it, otherwise do not hanker after it.”
Because it was money that was given voluntarily by the giver, without there being any harm or humiliation connected to taking it, so there was nothing wrong with him accepting it.
It makes no difference in this regard whether the government is Muslim or non-Muslim, so long as that does not result in compromising one’s religious commitment in any way."
Source (Islamqa.info, Question 127193)
So now you know the Fax regarding this, what you claimed was haram, was infact proven not to be. therefore it is most advisable that you seek Allah's forgiveness for you have transgressed
And your premise of your statement is based upon the fact that South Asians have higher rate of property owner ship and generational wealth, This is not something Somalis Give any 2 flying F*@#$% about, on educational level we're competing same levels with them even more so.
It sounds like to me you into South Asians Very much, Why not go for 1 and make her come live with you LMFAO Let's see how it goes
I don't why Somalis are so primitave and put jiggyjiggy above all else. Yet have the cheek to look down on the Black community when we aren't any better. Smh.
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