The rise of the unmarried late 20s - early 30s Somali diaspora woman

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GeKo

GeKo

Hilaac said:
I don't deny that either. But like the other thread shows, most Somali girls have good head on their shoulders. We don't take the internet sentiments seriously :manny: Somali men on the other hand...

Its not difficult to find a good spouse at that age, some of these girls god bless them are loyal to their race hence the difficulty you describe :ivers:
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I don’t care what internet xalimos have to say about us.
Didnt you just say that the anti female sentiments were putting off Somali girl's now you're saying that they dont care. Stop contradicting yourself. :mjlol:
If you agree with my statement then that cancels out your argument. I just said this to prove how weak your argument is.

Are you Muslim?
And how old are you? If you don't mind me asking
 
Yaquub

Yaquub

GeKo said:
What's going on, I'm hearing of girls who can't find a good Somali guy in the west. The ones left with no options a lot of the times are being arranged with qarabo or someone there families know in Africa/Asia and sometimes in other parts of Europe.

These girls are good girls on the deen, with degrees and are working professional jobs but for whatever reason they just couldn't find a good guy here.


This isn't one case or 2, I know atleast a dozen similar cases. There are some nearing 30s and haven't even found a guy yet.


what do you think is the reason for this?
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Well i would gladly take them if they would like to accept being one of my four wives. Polygamy saves women from dying alone, i think it's time they stopped showing off.
 
Hilaac

Hilaac

GeKo said:
I don’t care what internet xalimos have to say about us.
Didnt you just say that the anti female sentiments were putting off Somali girl's now you're saying that they dont care. Stop contradicting yourself. :mjlol:
If you agree with my statement then that cancels out your argument. I just said this to prove how weak your argument is.

Are you Muslim?
And how old are you? If you don't mind me asking
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You care :heh:. The anti-female sentiments precede the internet. The internet is doing a fine job of showcasing the pack mentality of Somali men. Mysogyny is no surprise believe me. My argument holds true, I was just acknowledging that the women are not all innocent either. The difference is they can move on with or without somali men, we are not disturbed. We can keep it moving. Somali men are crying because they don't want to lose their privileges and because woman and men are now equal and because if they're not shit. We can say they're not shit.
Somali woman do not need Somali men but Somali men need Somali women :denzelnigga:

I was trying to keep it peaceful before but f*ck it, that's my true opinion. ^^
 
GeKo

GeKo

Hilaac said:
You care :heh:. The anti-female sentiments precede the internet. The internet is doing a fine job of showcasing the pack mentality of Somali men. Mysogyny is no surprise believe me. My argument holds true, I was just acknowledging that the women are not all innocent either. The difference is they can move on with or without somali men, we are not disturbed. We can keep it moving. Somali men are crying because they don't want to lose their privileges and because woman and men are now equal and because if they're not shit. We can say they're not shit.
Somali woman do not need Somali men but Somali men need Somali women :denzelnigga:

I was trying to keep it peaceful before but f*ck it, that's my true opinion. ^^
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It's still peaceful. You can have your opinion waa caadi

can you answer this if you dont mind
Are you Muslim?
And how old are you?
 
PhaedrusHunt

PhaedrusHunt

Hilaac said:
You care :heh:. The anti-female sentiments precede the internet. The internet is doing a fine job of showcasing the pack mentality of Somali men. Mysogyny is no surprise believe me. My argument holds true, I was just acknowledging that the women are not all innocent either. The difference is they can move on with or without somali men, we are not disturbed. We can keep it moving. Somali men are crying because they don't want to lose their privileges and because woman and men are now equal and because if they're not shit. We can say they're not shit.
Somali woman do not need Somali men but Somali men need Somali women :denzelnigga:

I was trying to keep it peaceful before but f*ck it, that's my true opinion. ^^
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No, women need men more then the other way around. You guys need comfort, love and stability. Just google “western women are depressed and unhappy even with a career” and it’ll show you the predicament they’re in. How do you think the lonely woman with 8 cats stereotype came about?
 
S

Slickback

PhaedrusHunt said:
No, women need men more then the other way around. You guys need comfort, love and stability. Just google “western women are depressed and unhappy even with a career” and it’ll show you the predicament they’re in. How do you think the lonely woman with 8 cats stereotype came about?
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That's men and women in general, but she's addressing the dynamics between Somali men and women in particular. It's pretty clear that women have the advantage early on, and men later in the game. Denying that is being intentionally silly
 
SumMo

SumMo

very lowkey
PhaedrusHunt said:
No, women need men more then the other way around. You guys need comfort, love and stability. Just google “western women are depressed and unhappy even with a career” and it’ll show you the predicament they’re in. How do you think the lonely woman with 8 cats stereotype came about?
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Why do people on here love attacking me?
:damn:

Single wome with cats have it fun too. Naga qaleey.
 
one

one

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It's not only the diaspora community, I heard it's happening back home in Hargaysa as well. It's not a Somali women only thing, though. Across the globe, the number of single/unmarried women are increasing.

I think it has to with the gender roles, as more women are getting more educated and independent on their own they feel less need to depend on men, their standards are getting higher, it's hard to find someone compatible etc. The reasons are many, really.

I also think a lot of women choose to stay single because we feel happier that way. I say 'we' because I fall into this category.
 
SumMo

SumMo

very lowkey
Slickback said:
How many cats are we talking
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Right now, 2 ..
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PhaedrusHunt

PhaedrusHunt

Slickback said:
That's men and women in general, but she's addressing the dynamics between Somali men and women in particular. It's pretty clear that women have the advantage early on, and men later in the game. Denying that is being intentionally silly
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Where did I deny this when my earliest post on this thread specified this? Lol

Somali women do have the advantage at the beginning, as all women do, but we are not only in a better position in due time, but we have the added benefit of going home and getting married, making things much harder for the xalimos. My post was referring to this time period, hence the confusion?
 
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Slickback

PhaedrusHunt said:
Where did I deny this when my earliest post on this thread specified this? Lol

Somali women do have the advantage at the beginning, as all women do, but we are not only in a better position in due time, but we have the added benefit of going home and getting married, making things much harder for the xalimos. My post was referring to this time period, hence the confusion?
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No I meant she was specifically addressing Somalis not male-female in general. I'm sure she's aware that men do get the upper hand eventually hence denying itt being silly. Not that you denied it. A lot of Somali women feel how she feels. Somali men need them, but not the vice versa which is partly true, but I'd like to know why
 
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