My wife's people, Creoles, are a very nice people. Extremely friendly and welcoming. Who, by physical appearance at times, are identical to Horners. Now, if someone from her side of the family, were to marry a xalimo, I'd be against it.
I've got a younger teenage sister, who has just finished high school. I've told her, she's free to marry any Somali boy, regardless of clan and region his family originates from, but if she ever brought home an ajnabi of any kind: SHE IS NO LONGER MY SISTER, and will be disowned.
Now, you may find that wrong and hypocritical of me, so be it. I'm all about maintaining my race and clan. As should all Somali males. In this world the children follow the father: take the fathers name, and tribe.
My kids, have my name, and are of my clan. If a xalimo, were to marry out: her kids would not have her name, or be of her clan. They'd have foreign names, and be of a foreign tribe.
I was courting this xalimo, couple of years ago. As the relationship was getting serious, she tells me that she is a divorcee, who was married to an Arab, and has a son. She then goes on to tell me, how Somali her boy is, and how good his level of Somali is. When I met the kid, he had no trace of Somali in him whatsoever, and would not look out of place in Doha, San'aa, Damascus, or Cairo. He had an Arab name, and was from a Iraqi Sunni tribe.
With all of that, she had the gall to proclaim, "wiilkay'ga waa Somali"
Yeah......he sure is...............and I'm a billionaire Chinese-Jew.