Stop looking at arabs as "brothers"

[Aseer]

Of course I’m being sensitive the topic is triggering. I didn’t ask for or want a debate with you people why can’t I share personal experiences without being attacked? I am unbothered now actually I’ve had a breather

I dont think your a somali since in almost every other thread you praise everything ethiopian, you shit on your countrymen and you spew hate on people considered as allies and yk there are many ajnabis (the ones that are our allies) that lurk this site and they probably getting a bad image of us cause of you spew this bullcrap but whatever you do you just save us the trouble and get together with a ethiopian and rid yourself of our gene pool please.

 

[Yami]

I dont think your a somali since in almost every other thread you praise everything ethiopian, you shit on your countrymen and you spew hate on people considered as allies and yk there are many ajnabis (the ones that are our allies) that lurk this site and they probably getting a bad image of us cause of you spew this bullcrap but whatever you do you just save us the trouble and get together with a ethiopian and rid yourself of our gene pool please.

Bro not every Somali has to think alike.

 

[Aseer]

Bro not every Somali has to think alike.

nah I tolerate many things but praising and showering the enemy with affection is something that I personally have zero tolerance for and it also heavily determines my view of a fellow somali, those that bootyclap for ethiopians should immediately just leave the genepool so as to not pass this aidtopianphile fever onto their children better to be a raw meat eater than a raw meat lover.

 

[DojaKhat]

We arent slaves and were never slaves in history so I dont see how that links to us.

True, but if I may add something...
I think that entirely depends on whether the person using to describe us is a native Arab or a western-born Arab. A western-born Arab will absorb US racial dynamics of black vs white and since we Somalis fall under the black label in the Anglosphere, the cunsuuri Arab-Australians here are more likely to use abeed towards you with the intention of dissing you. The emphasis is on intention.

A native Arab from the Khaleej is almost unlikely to utter that word with racist disrespect towards us Somalis because like people here have already said, we were never victims of mass slavery AND there's a good bunch of Somali communities in the MENA region who are generally respected enough to duck the hate black Africans of other ethnicities would receive.

I don't like looking at things too literally - sometimes its what the other person means to say even if it literally makes no sense since we weren't one of the abeed.

 

[Lais]

I dont think your a somali since in almost every other thread you praise everything ethiopian, you shit on your countrymen and you spew hate on people considered as allies and yk there are many ajnabis (the ones that are our allies) that lurk this site and they probably getting a bad image of us cause of you spew this bullcrap but whatever you do you just save us the trouble and get together with a ethiopian and rid yourself of our gene pool please.

New Ethiopian accusation dropped lmao. You guys care about saving waji, I don’t tbh I’d rather share the hardships the people I know went through to keep a balanced perspective to those who’ve never lived in the Middle East. I legit shared an image of a Somali maid on a kafala app & they still denied her ethnicity.. you guys only care about reputation smh

 

[Aseer]

New Ethiopian accusation dropped lmao. You guys care about saving waji, I don’t tbh I’d rather share the hardships the people I know went through to keep a balanced perspective to those who’ve never lived in the Middle East.

I hope you leave the gene pool or miraculously run out of eggs so you can be deemed infertile and not have to give birth to children cursed to lick the toes of ethiopians.

 

[Lais]

@CurrentlyOnline I do apologize about calling you a weirdo i was being defensive

 

[DojaKhat]

I hope you leave the gene pool or miraculously run out of eggs so you can be deemed infertile and not have to give birth to children cursed to lick the toes of ethiopians.

crazy insult

 

[DojaKhat]

@CurrentlyOnline I do apologize about calling you a weirdo i was being defensive

I accept your apology, sis. I wish you and the maids you know well.

 

[Lais]

I hope you leave the gene pool or miraculously run out of eggs so you can be deemed infertile and not have to give birth to children cursed to lick the toes of ethiopians.

Just out spite I’ll marry somali. I’m not fond of Ethiopians they literally occupy our land.. I said their food is yummy and challenge misogynists & spazed out earlier which I apologize for.. and all of a sudden im a non Somali with an agenda

 

[Aseer]

crazy insult

No I am asking for a favour.

 

[DojaKhat]

No I am asking for a favour.

Even crazier, damn

 

[Lais]

nah I tolerate many things but praising and showering the enemy with affection is something that I personally have zero tolerance for and it also heavily determines my view of a fellow somali, those that bootyclap for ethiopians should immediately just leave the genepool so as to not pass this aidtopianphile fever onto their children better to be a raw meat eater than a raw meat lover.

Proof of me pandering to Ethiopians are you this mad about me saying their food is nutritious

 

[Aseer]

Just out spite I’ll marry somali. I’m not fond of Ethiopians they literally occupy our land.. I said their food is yummy and challenge misogynists & spazed out earlier which I apologize for.. and all of a sudden im a non Somali with an agenda

Ok.

 

[Aseer]

Proof of me pandering to Ethiopians are you this mad about me saying their food is nutritious

Right now. and dont call that slop nutritious that is food poisoning right there.

 

[Yami]

Just out spite I’ll marry somali. I’m not fond of Ethiopians they literally occupy our land.. I said their food is yummy and challenge misogynists & spazed out earlier which I apologize for.. and all of a sudden im a non Somali with an agenda

I'm near waterloo UwU

 

[rayxn3]

For some reason I confuse these two gabdho usernames @Lais @rayxn3 only way I’m able to differentiate them is one is from my qabil and the other isn’t.

What’s your qabil?

 

[Lais]

I'm near waterloo UwU

no way

 

[محمود فارح]

Why are some of you guys acting like it is impossible for a Somali woman living in the Gulf to have ever been a maid? I'm not saying any of you are wrong, I'm not well versed in the topic so it's not like I'm qualified to say so.
It's just your line of reasoning that's a bit weird.

Because most Horn African maids came in with Ethiopian passports, they were all Habesh, Oromo, etc. Ethiopian ethnicities. None of them could have been Somali-Ethiopian from Jigjiga or something? No odd case of a Somali sister from mainland Somalia getting into the maid industry?

Please enlighten me with statistics and not ramblings about how I'm an Arab-hating liberal with gaal tendencies.

It is not impossible, and I know that their financial situation is bad. A small number of Somali women used to go to work there as maids, but the question is: Were there Somali maids in the Gulf in the eighties? Did the government at that time do that? No, for me, and that is why I said that the first term of President Hassan Sheikh is the first time that Somali women have been allowed to work there as maids, but I completely reject the idea of normalizing this idea as if it were a natural matter. Something for us like other communities, because I know that as a tribal community we will not allow our women to go to work. There are no guarantees what will happen to her. The other point is that I don't like the "victim" mentality and the portrayal of Somalis as oppressed and the generalization based on a few of them. Speaking of workers, there was a period when Ethiopians were the most dangerous nationalities in terms of crimes in Saudi Arabia, and this led to the Saudis themselves refusing to bring in Ethiopian maids, and this actually led to a decline in their acceptance and thus there were no jobs. What did they do? They were impersonating Somali nationality at that time, and indeed many of them were accepted to work there. Also, forgery of passports was widespread in Somalia at one time because we were without a government, and for this reason I believe that most of the “Somali” maids are in fact of other nationalities

انتحال الجنسية الصومالية للعمالة الأثيوبية

أدت كثرة الحوادث التي تقع من بعض العمال الإثيوبيين في المملكة إلى عزوف المواطنين عن قبول العاملات الإثيوبيات مما جعل الأخيرات ينتحلن الجنسية الصومالية.

www.sayidaty.net

 

[DojaKhat]

It is not impossible, and I know that their financial situation is bad. A small number of Somali women used to go to work there as maids, but the question is: Were there Somali maids in the Gulf in the eighties? Did the government at that time do that? No, for me, and that is why I said that the first term of President Hassan Sheikh is the first time that Somali women have been allowed to work there as maids, but I completely reject the idea of normalizing this idea as if it were a natural matter. Something for us like other communities, because I know that as a tribal community we will not allow our women to go to work. There are no guarantees what will happen to her. The other point is that I don't like the "victim" mentality and the portrayal of Somalis as oppressed and the generalization based on a few of them. Speaking of workers, there was a period when Ethiopians were the most dangerous nationalities in terms of crimes in Saudi Arabia, and this led to the Saudis themselves refusing to bring in Ethiopian maids, and this actually led to a decline in their acceptance and thus there were no jobs. What did they do? They were impersonating Somali nationality at that time, and indeed many of them were accepted to work there. Also, forgery of passports was widespread in Somalia at one time because we were without a government, and for this reason I believe that most of the “Somali” maids are in fact of other nationalities

انتحال الجنسية الصومالية للعمالة الأثيوبية

أدت كثرة الحوادث التي تقع من بعض العمال الإثيوبيين في المملكة إلى عزوف المواطنين عن قبول العاملات الإثيوبيات مما جعل الأخيرات ينتحلن الجنسية الصومالية.

www.sayidaty.net

Thank you for taking the time to write this down for me, walaal.