Gambar
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I detect a broke Abdi!it's my money.
come with your own money.
Spend his money and save yours
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Don’t get all high and mighty on me, no one is looking down on a man who earns less just those in this thread who are clearly broke so the thought of a man taking care his affairs is getting their panties in a bunch.
Ferrari
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I can be a billionaire, and I wouldn't do xaliimo the favor of paying for everything.
I'd just hire a maid to do my half of the dishes and pay her loads of money.
my wife would still work and contribute her half.
Inquisitive_
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Good post with the exception of calling minimum wage workers bum, which contradicts the counting your blessings part.
Be grateful that Allah has put you in a position were you don't have to earn minimum wage instead of insulting them.
Your overall message of contribution was missing from your opening post on this thread, good to see this U turn that you have done since.
Im just saying....if you have it good be humble and thank god. Those things can get taken away from you. I dont look down on people who is worse of me financially and call them all sorts of name.
She is displaying fake humility, but the arrogance comes out even when she tries to hide it
There is no turn around done, I haven’t changed my views. if you are only replying to my tittle then of course you are misled.
I still stand by the man paying for the house bills.
Inquisitive_
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She has made a U turn and seen her ugly ways, I have no problem with this, it began with a selfish shameless greedy attitude and it has since morphed into one of "sharing" and "contribution"
This kind of mindset takes months or even years to remove, hence ugly remnants and residues of the ugly pasts will always re-surface here and their at times, it's not a big deal.
I don’t look down on anyone don’t try to make this about that, my post was addressing the bums in this thread
What happens when the man leave you? Who is paying for the bills.
Inquisitive_
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It's not just the title but your opening statement that was very distasteful and callous, you attacked other females for contributing money to their own households which by definition implies that you don't.
Next time, communicate your message in a more concise way, no one is going to read 17 pages to find your clarifications.
The way you clarified yourself now, I see no problems with this.
I have a job
lol ok, except this is so far removed from reality. How many people can afford a good life on a single income in their 20's? 35k pre-tax income puts you at 70th percentile. What do you think will happen if you break it down by men aged 21-65?
Unless you plan or marrying in your 40's. I hear it's the new 20
So you keep your money while i work and pay your bills lol. I refuse to believe there are grownups who think like this.I have a job
They dont live in real world. They think by saying only bums complain their argument is won. Men under 30 on average get about 30k....most below. You cant take care of a family alone with that and have quality life
Of course the thought of splitting grocery bills with your husband is pathetic, what else did you want me to say?
You didn’t have to go that far to read my views if you really wanted to but you get off on attacking women, you’ve made it obvious. If your concerns were genuine you would’ve addressed the problems in our community that are due to the men’s doing.
I had an argument with a Somali girl once wallahi. Completely unrelated to marriage. We were just talking about money. I asked her how much she thought engineers out of school earned and she literally blurted out in my face '70k easy'. I literally left it at that . This chick was a year from graduating her biomed degree
Lool i had similar experience. They are so clueless when it comes to finance. I had to explain to a xalimo about how the average wages have stood still for years while cost of living goes up. How once people finish uni they start at the bottom of their field and work their way up. A white woman knows this....but a xalimo haa been told since childhood a man will take care of you and dont live in real world.
@TheShinning
Where do you live and how much does your husband earn? You probably not gonna answer it because it will expose you two cant livecon his wage hence why you work
Where do you live and how much does your husband earn? You probably not gonna answer it because it will expose you two cant livecon his wage hence why you work
Don't talk like i'm stupid.
I pay my own bills and rent, so don't talk to me like i'm in this bubble when i probably older and more experienced than you. With regards to my situation, all i have to say is Alhamdulliah, therefore ideally i want someone in a similar position or better.
A minority of men do have proper money and they will obviously not complain.
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