Why?
Spend his money and save yours
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Really? Every Jeep owner I know brags about it’s superioty.
you’re trying to compare your sister’s 5 dollar Claire’s ring to a diamond ring? You really are basement dweller whose only interaction with females comes from his mommy and sisters lmaoWow, a ring. What does that suppose to prove?
My sister got plenty of rings for your broke ass but that doesn't mean she's married.
I’m talking about babies and young kids. I don’t think you’ve ever taken care of them if it sounds so easy to you. They can be little monsters.When you have kids, you're automatically a housewife and you have a job to fulfil as the mother. Why do you think the heaven is under the mother's feet? I disagree, the reason why I'm successful is all thanks to my father.
What is soul draining? Getting the kids up and telling them to brush their teeth, put on their clothes and make them a breakfast? When they come back from school you make them a dinner. You sound like a lazy woman right now. This was nothing for my mother and I'm sure it is the same with yours so start acting like one.
What is more soul-draining is working for the whole day. I'm talking about a traditional relationship when you're at home just chilling while the kids are in school and your husband is working.
And I ain’t staying at home with brats all day. Why am I studying in college for then? To stay at home for some ashy Abdi? f*ck outta here.
Good for them my Ayeeyo was the same and guess what when she visited my place she was confused why I was helping my wife despite coming from work and after staying a while she realized there was no stress or worrying about what chores are left to do she wished more somali Households where like that and not like how she was raisedNaaya, you're making it seem like doing chores is a deadly job. My mother, aunties and female relatives who are married were never stressed out in their traditional relationships. This is part of our culture and I don't care how these weak western Xaarlimos with their feminist double standard views think about.
Caraweelo
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no can't outsource it.. it is part of being married to participate at house work
Why are you lying for? Majority of Somali women want Somali men to pay for all their wedding, honeymoon and mehr. They also want us to pay for all their bills. If you want to split the chores then pay half of the wedding and honeymoon. Also, split the bills to 50/50.
Another thing, who is going to look after the kids when both couples of working? Being a housewife is inevitable.
I’m talking about babies and young kids. I don’t think you’ve ever taken care of them if it sounds so easy to you. They can be little monsters.
And I ain’t staying at home with brats all day. Why am I studying in college for then? To stay at home for some ashy Abdi? f*ck outta here.
You mean when you're pregnant and start delivering babies? It's not my fault you're popping Faraxs and Xalimos. Once you become a mother, you're automatically a housewife.
Besides, I'm kidding with the wife taking care of the kids. The father has to obviously be there with them, control them, advice them and make sure they sleep. If they're not listening to mommy, abo is here.
Caraweelo
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husband should be pressured to do the house work since the beginning of the marriage so he will continue to do it later on.
Kids they crave alot of attention and theyre time consuming
My sisters' shoes cost more than your whole salary.
Inquisitive_
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Are you a stay at home wife or working?
If your a housewife that's expected from you, but if your out working, do you split everything 50/50 down the middle or not? and if not! why not?
If your talking about the young generation this is simply not true, they still expect the husband to cover most of the finances while they want to go to work unopposed and contribute very little (if at all)
They want a traditional husband but not be that traditional wife to complete that union, it's this hypocrisy I take issue with not with your personal stance which is free from that.
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Cost of living is too high to become a housewife once you bear children although it is ideal. In most western countries maternity leave is too short.You mean when you're pregnant and start delivering babies? It's not my fault you're popping Faraxs and Xalimos. Once you become a mother, you're automatically a housewife.
Besides, I'm kidding with the wife taking care of the kids. The father has to obviously be there with them, control them, advice them and make sure they sleep. If they're not listening to mommy, abo is here.
Well my mother, aunts and female relatives are also aware about this but they think their culture is better.
I mean men can breatsfeed right?You mean when you're pregnant and start delivering babies? It's not my fault you're popping Faraxs and Xalimos. Once you become a mother, you're automatically a housewife.
Besides, I'm kidding with the wife taking care of the kids. The father has to obviously be there with them, control them, advice them and make sure they sleep. If they're not listening to mommy, abo is here.
Thats what Mercury would have ua beleive
Problem is you can’t change 25 years of Somali mother’s damage, my husband helps around the house. I just don’t think they do a good job of cleaning. And most times you have to remind them to do the chores.
And when babies come no matter how good of a father he is, the mother will end up doing more. She will wake up 20 times a night to check and feed that baby, while he gets up couple of times, it’s just not the same and any man telling you he will split it 50/50 is lying sis.
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SheekoWell that's not my problem. I'm a wealthy man.
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