Spend his money and save yours

[Dalmoor]

Im not a Female I have no reason to makeup shit if youre a grown ass man youre supposed to help around the house and clean dont even matter if youre out working and hustling cause by the time you come home you have a 2nd job which is to take care of the house you live with your wife

First of all doing the chores is not that difficult. It's the wife's job. Me going out working all day and then come home tired is too much. You're a woman so don't know what it feels like. I see how my parents operate and that's the kind of life I want. My mother loves it so the ungrateful Xaarlimos in the west can't twist gender roles. I'm sorry.

 

[NotMyL]

Post your pic

Will do so if that keyboard worrier agrees to do the same

 

[Suldaanka]

Will do so if that keyboard worrier agrees to do the same

Ok. Make a thread. It'll be platinum
@Dalmoor

 

[Lostbox]

@Caraweelo why the qashin rating?

 

[kickz]

Will do so if that keyboard worrier agrees to do the same

Its 'warrior' eedo

 

[NotMyL]

Its 'warrior' eedo

I’m driving

 

[Dalmoor]

Will do so if that keyboard worrier agrees to do the same

Will you post a video? I don't want no fake pics. Post a video with your imaginary xaaji.

What do you want me to prove?

 

[kickz]

I’m driving

Bisiinka, why are you texting
and driving?

 

[Dalmoor]

Why are you texting
and driving?

It was just a lie, just like the made up husband

 

[kickz]

Will you post a video? I don't want no fake pics. Post a video with your imaginary xaaji.

What do you want me to prove?

Sxb this is a trap, dont expose yourself

 

[Mercury]

First of all doing the chores is not that difficult. It's the wife's job. Me going out working all day and then come home tired is too much. You're a woman so don't know what it feels like. I see how my parents operate and that's the kind of life I want. My mother loves it so the ungrateful Xaarlimos in the west can't twist gender roles. I'm sorry.

Chores are easy to do yet you admit youre lazy

 

[Dalmoor]

Chores are easy to do yet you admit youre lazy

I didn't say I was lazy. Are you slow?





More importantly










,go back and prepare the laxoox for the guests.

And yeah, make sure the laxoox is not burned. Best of luck abaayo Mercury!

 

[Emily]

Dang ! Y’all have it good

 

[Mercury]

I didn't say I was lazy. Are you slow?





More importantly










,go back to preparing the laxoox for the guests.



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And yeah, make sure the laxoox is not burned. Best of luck abaayo Mercury!

If youre making up excuses to why you cant do a certain thing you are lazy just man up to it and stop acting like a little primcess

 

[Suldaanka]

Dang ! Y’all have it good

What yall not like that

 

[Inquisitive_]

50/50 is the right way.. paying for everything half / half and evenly sharing the chores cooking and cleaning.

Although I don't agree with this I can at least respect this principled stance, but unfortunately that's not the case with the majority of Muslim feminists who want the best of both worlds.

The freedom to go out to work unopposed, 50/50 chore split, equal say in everything in the household, while contributing absolutely nothing to the house in terms of finance using religion as cover.

 

[AliUK]

I’m 24 and should be married asap. I’m getting old!

Getting married ain't the big deal, it is staying married.

Too many rush into marriage without either getting to know each other at least a bit or without finding out what each expect of each other.

Just continue to work on yourself, enjoy your life and then inshallah when the time comes, you will find someone who exceeds all expectation.

 

[Dalmoor]

If youre making up excuses to why you cant do a certain thing you are lazy just man up to it and stop acting like a little primcess

How does me working 12 hours a day make me lazy? In a traditional relationship, the chores is nothing for the wife and it doesn't take long either so I don't need to do it. She has to contribute in our relationship. I can't do everything for her.

I expect her to make me a breakfast in the morning when I leave for work. I expect her to cook a delicious dinner when I come home and some more meal at night when I sleep. My older brother has a good life because he has a traditional wife and she's happy too because he's a traditional husband. That's the kind of life I want, deal with it.


You're a with feminist views so your opinions don't matter.

 

[Factz]

Yeah, I expect a man who makes decent money, but as I’ve been taught by my mother, I don’t expect a Somali man to clean, cook, or run after children. I’m fine with that, it’s part of our culture.

No, Somali men are there for their kids. I don't know what you mean by running after the kid?

If my kids run away then I'll chase them because I don't want them to get lost.

Besides, I expect my wife to send my kids to school and madrassa and collect them. Doing the chores is not that hard so I see no reason for women to complain. The Somali women I'm around with are strong women and respect their culture. You don't see men complaining about their long day of work or paying the bills.

My belief and the majority of people is if you want a traditional husband. Act as a traditional wife.

 

[CaliSomali]

No, Somali men are there for their kids. I don't know what you mean by running after the kid?

If my kids run away then I'll chase them because I don't want them to get lost.

Besides, I expect my wife to send my kids to school and madrassa and collect them. Doing the chores is not that hard so I see no reason for women to complain. The Somali women I'm around with are strong women and respect their culture. You don't see men complaining about their long day of work or paying the bills.

My belief and the majority of people is if you want a traditional husband. Act as a traditional wife.

Taking care of children is the most soul draining shit ever. And Somali men rarely lift a hand with that, let’s be honest.

And if we’re talking about a scenario where both the man and woman is working, than yes, household chores become an extra burden for a woman to deal with.