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NotMyL

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Although I don't agree with this I can at least respect this principled stance, but unfortunately that's not the case with the majority of Muslim feminists who want the best of both worlds.

The freedom to go out to work unopposed, 50/50 chore split, equal say in everything in the household, while contributing absolutely nothing to the house in terms of finance using religion as cover.
50/50 household chores never works, ask anyone who is married. The women will always end up doing more.
 

Factz

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Taking care of children is the most soul draining shit ever. And Somali men rarely lift a hand with that, let’s be honest.

And if we’re talking about a scenario where both the man and woman is working, than yes, household chores become an extra burden for a woman to deal with.

When you have kids, you're automatically a housewife and you have a job to fulfil as the mother. Why do you think the heaven is under the mother's feet? I disagree, the reason why I'm successful is all thanks to my father.

What is soul draining? Getting the kids up and telling them to brush their teeth, put on their clothes and make them a breakfast? When they come back from school you make them a dinner. You sound like a lazy woman right now. This was nothing for my mother and I'm sure it is the same with yours so start acting like one.
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What is more soul-draining is working for the whole day. I'm talking about a traditional relationship when you're at home just chilling while the kids are in school and your husband is working.
 

Mercury

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How does me working 12 hours a day make me lazy? In a traditional relationship, the chores is nothing for the wife and it doesn't take long either so I don't need to do it. She has to contribute in our relationship. I can't do everything for her.

I expect her to make me a breakfast in the morning when I leave for work. I expect her to cook a delicious dinner when I come home and some more meal at night when I sleep. My older brother has a good life because he has a traditional wife and she's happy too because he's a traditional husband. That's the kind of life I want, deal with it.
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You're a with feminist views so your opinions don't matter. :camby:

Dude youre sounding more and more like a little kid than an responsible adult

I can tell you with these expectations down the line youre wife is gonna put on alot of weight and be stressed out
 

Lostbox

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I don’t know I’m thinking of trading, it’s not good with the winter.
Audi, BMW, Mercedes, land rovers are all great cars to buy an even cheaper to lease. I don't get why more people don't get them.
 
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NotMyL

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Audi, BMW, Mercedes, land rovers are all create cars to buy an even vheache to lease. I don't get why more people don't get them.
Mercedes? Shit I don’t have that type of money. My sister has an Audi it’s not all that.. I’m deciding between grand Cherokee and Outback, my brother is a mechanic and he’s pushing me to get Outback. They are both great on the snow.
 
Mercedes? Shit I don’t have that type of money. My sister has an Audi it’s not all that.. I’m deciding between grand Cherokee and Outback, my brother is a mechanic and he’s pushing me to get Outback. They are both great on the snow.
Get a honda pilot.
Plua it isnt about how big the vehicle ia but how you drive.
 

Lostbox

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Mercedes? Shit I don’t have that type of money. My sister has an Audi it’s not all that.. I’m deciding between grand Cherokee and Outback, my brother is a mechanic and he’s pushing me to get Outback. They are both great on the snow.

To be honest, I'm not real sure what to recommend. You should listen to your brother recommendation and I wouldn't recommend a jeep. Not known for their reliability.
 

Caraweelo

President of the Secular Republic of Somalia
Although I don't agree with this I can at least respect this principled stance, but unfortunately that's not the case with the majority of Muslim feminists who want the best of both worlds.

The freedom to go out to work unopposed, 50/50 chore split, equal say in everything in the household, while contributing absolutely nothing to the house in terms of finance using religion as cover.

mostly are men who use religion as cover. Many somali women will want to work outside and split the house work 50/50 but many farax will refuse to participate at doing cleaning and cooking.
 

Dalmoor

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Dude youre sounding more and more like a little kid than an responsible adult

I can tell you with these expectations down the line youre wife is gonna put on alot of weight and be stressed out
Naaya, you're making it seem like doing chores is a deadly job. My mother, aunties and female relatives who are married were never stressed out in their traditional relationships. This is part of our culture and I don't care how these weak western Xaarlimos with their feminist double standard views think about.
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Lostbox

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Why waste all that money. Also reliability isnt their strong suit

Is that buy people don't buy them especially Somalis?

mostly are men who use religion as cover. Many somali women will want to work outside and split the house work 50/50 but many farax will refuse to participate at doing cleaning and cooking.


Can't you outsource cooking and cleaning?
 
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