Spend his money and save yours

[Lostbox]

My sisters' shoes cost more than your whole salary.

Really? What shoes?

Well that's not my problem. I'm a wealthy man.

Make you wonder what demographic people on this site are.

 

[Dalmoor]

I mean men can breatsfeed right?
Thats what Mercury would have ua beleive

Mercury doing his part. 50/50

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[Dalmoor]

What do you know about salary you were raised on ceyr

Says the Minnesotan welfare bum

 

[NotMyL]

Are you a stay at home wife or working?

If your a housewife that's expected from you, but if your out working, do you split everything 50/50 down the middle or not? and if not! why not?

I work 40 hours a week, he works 60 hours a week. I always end up doing more around the house and he pays all the bills. He helps whenever he can, I don’t complain and he doesn’t complain, it works for us.

 

[NotMyL]

Says the Minnesotan welfare bum

That’s rich coming from UK qashin, are you even high school educated?

 

[Suldaanka]

I work 40 hours a week, he works 60 hours a week. I always end up doing more around the house and he pays all the bills. He helps whenever he can, I don’t complain and he doesn’t complain, it works for us.

60hrs a week and you have to work. What is he working at McD's.
Dhiba baa iidin haysta Allah ha iidin la garab gala

 

[Mercury]

Well my mother, aunts and female relatives are also aware about this but they think their culture is better.

You do realize our culture the mother cripples her son from becoming an adult by not teaching him how to Cook,clean and take care of himself instead he Will become entitled and have unrealistic expectations from a wife while he contributes less than her when it comes to Household and childrearing

 

[Inquisitive_]

Problem is you can’t change 25 years of Somali mother’s damage,

That same damage has also been done to our sisters, in fact Somali mothers look after all of them thinking that if she cooks and cleans for all they will focus on their studies and reap the rewards later.

The destruction this has brought on our females is far more catastrophic then what happened to the males in general, they can't cook properly, can't clean after themselves etc. and the list goes on

This idea that Somali male's are pampered by our mothers while they exhaust their daughters in house chores is nothing more then a vicious fictitious myth perpetuated by useless SJW and dhoociloyin from twitter to feel good about themselves.

 

[NotMyL]

60hrs a week and you have to work. What is he working at McD's.
Dhiba baa iidin haysta Allah ha iidin la garab gala

He’s a software engineer, who can work from home anytime with his flexible schedule.

 

[Mercury]

That same damage has also been done to our sisters, in fact Somali mothers look after all of them thinking that if she cooks and cleans for all they will focus on their studies and reap the rewards later.

The destruction this has brought on our females is far more catastrophic then what happened to the males in general, they can't cook properly, can't clean after themselves etc. and the list goes on

This idea that Somali male's are pampered by our mothers while they exhaust their daughters in house chores is nothing more then a vicious fictitious myth perpetuated by useless SJW and dhoociloyin from twitter to feel good about themselves.

Lol 98% of Somali households are very similar girls cooking and cleaning boys playing fifa

 

[Dalmoor]

That’s rich coming from UK qashin, are you even high school educated?

You must be confusing me with another user.

I'm from the states, not from Minnesota where Somali welfare leechers be at like your family.


I bet this is you.

Shinning bright

 

[Caraweelo]

Problem is you can’t change 25 years of Somali mother’s damage, my husband helps around the house. I just don’t think they do a good job of cleaning. And most times you have to remind them to do the chores.
And when babies come no matter how good of a father he is, the mother will end up doing more. She will wake up 20 times a night to check and feed that baby, while he gets up couple of times, it’s just not the same and any man telling you he will split it 50/50 is lying sis.

I think most of somali men are spoiled my their moms and they become lazy husband/father we need to change that and pressure men to take responsibilities or better not marry such lazy men. my brother study abroad and he learned how to cook and clean for himself but after he married he bully his wife to do everything even when she was pregnant she still do the house work and take care of the other child. that is an abuse culture where men are praised for being lazy and useless. somali women are abused in different ways and we sadly normalized it... You are lucky you find a husband who participate sometimes but we should advise single women not accept such hard life on themselves.

 

[The alchemist]

Lol 98% of Somali households are very similar girls cooking and cleaning boys playing fifa

I use my energy accumulating as much wealth as possible, while you need to compensate for the lack of ambition, so your wife doesn't chew you up.

Every household has their own way of dealing with things, with different rules, policies and how they distribute the workload.

A man has no right telling other men what to do in their household. Only women do that.

 

[Inquisitive_]

I work 40 hours a week, he works 60 hours a week. I always end up doing more around the house and he pays all the bills. He helps whenever he can, I don’t complain and he doesn’t complain, it works for us.

Of course you will do more, you work 20 hours less then him and thus spend more time at home, that's expected from you.

So what will your response be when he asks for financial contributions from you? at least a 1/3 towards the bill while he covers the other 2/3 since you also work ? will you accept or refuse?

If you refuse why? and if you accept I would like to know why you refuse to take the initiative in the first place?

If your response is because that's his religious obligation, well he is also the head of the household and he could command you to stop working since xoolahada walagu qasaarey, will you obey him in this?

 

[NotMyL]

That same damage has also been done to our sisters, in fact Somali mothers look after all of them thinking that if she cooks and cleans for all they will focus on their studies and reap the rewards later.

The destruction this has brought on our females is far more catastrophic then what happened to the males in general, they can't cook properly, can't clean after themselves etc. and the list goes on

This idea that Somali male's are pampered by our mothers while they exhaust their daughters in house chores is nothing more then a vicious fictitious myth perpetuated by useless SJW and dhoociloyin from twitter to feel good about themselves.

You obviously biased, everyone knows the hardships girls go through from young age has prepared them far better for life in general.

 

[kickz]

I work 40 hours a week, he works 60 hours a week. I always end up doing more around the house and he pays all the bills. He helps whenever he can, I don’t complain and he doesn’t complain, it works for us.

60hrs? WHat does he do?

 

[NotMyL]

You must be confusing me with another user.

I'm from the states, not from Minnesota where Somali welfare leechers be at like your family.


I bet this is you.

You’re starting to sound like 12 year old now, my offer is still up post your picture with a female besides your sisters and mother to prove you’re not basement dweller who has never interacted with girls and I will post my picture with my husband. I have already disapproved your I’m not driving theory, so what’s the harm.

 

[Caraweelo]

Are you a stay at home wife or working?

If your a housewife that's expected from you, but if your out working, do you split everything 50/50 down the middle or not? and if not! why not?

If your talking about the young generation this is simply not true, they still expect the husband to cover most of the finances while they want to go to work unopposed and contribute very little (if at all)

They want a traditional husband but not be that traditional wife to complete that union, it's this hypocrisy I take issue with not with your personal stance which is free from that.

this why each couple before marriage they should talk about this and how to run the home in a way suits both of them and if they disagree they can cancel the wedding.

 

[NotMyL]

60hrs? WHat does he do?

He works as a software engineer and is working on start up business with his friends on the side.

 

[Lostbox]

I think most of somali men are spoiled my their moms and they become lazy husband/father we need to change that and pressure men to take responsibilities or better not marry such lazy men. my brother study abroad and he learned how to cook and clean for himself but after he married he bully his wife to do everything even when she was pregnant she still do the house work and take care of the other child. that is an abuse culture where men are praised for being lazy and useless. somali women are abused in different ways and we sadly normalized it... You are lucky you find a husband who participate sometimes but we should advise single women not accept such hard life on themselves.

What's wrong with your brother? Was he always like this?