You’re paranoid walal
YES Alx
These young girls nowadays sharing house bills with their husbands make me sad, where are the women in their lives
Spend his money and save yours
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These young girls nowadays sharing house bills with their husbands make me sad, where are the women in their lives
Being paranoid saves money i guess
Eh don't push it! you females will be lucky to even get mehr in this day and age. I myself have an apple ready at hand.I was talking to co worker about splitting the bills with her partner, these people actually split grocery bills, married couple splitting bills
Alhamdulillah for being Muslim
If I have a job and financially stable then i might as well pay half of the rent, bills and spend my own money on things i want. Why r some people making a big deal out of it. Hooyo and aabo didnt come here for me to be a housewife. I was taught by hooyo to be independent rather than fully depend on a man all the time
You.....your gonna get married. Your mother taught you well.....as for some of these other xalimos. Apples for the lot of you.I will help him if he needs help but nu’uh! He pays rent out of his own pocket.
But I will probably split all of the bills with him because love is blind
But that means he has to buy me Gucci bags every once a year and send me away on holidays
Being independent means going 50/50 on bills? Lol good luck!
And we are talking about women who do work, no one said anything about being housewife.
My Eedo was/is a strong and good woman and wife and a wonderful person and mother.
She used to pay half the rent, back home. Because she worked.
You guys are just spoiled so called princesses.
Come back in reality.
Life is not easy. A single salary is not enough and if you want children,
your man will have to work hard,really hard. And you will leave him because "he works too much".
Be wise and pay your shit. It's not a relationship between a father/and his little daughter, his princess.
You are in relationship with a stranger who happens to be your husband. He doesn't share your DNA.
So you don't expect him too much and he is not there for fixing your finance problems.
I live in reality, i see that many women want the feminist agenda.
I understand why and they should embrace the split system.
50/50.
She used to pay half the rent, back home. Because she worked.
You guys are just spoiled so called princesses.
Come back in reality.
Life is not easy. A single salary is not enough and if you want children,
your man will have to work hard,really hard. And you will leave him because "he works too much".
Be wise and pay your shit. It's not a relationship between a father/and his little daughter, his princess.
You are in relationship with a stranger who happens to be your husband. He doesn't share your DNA.
So you don't expect him too much and he is not there for fixing your finance problems.
I live in reality, i see that many women want the feminist agenda.
I understand why and they should embrace the split system.
50/50.
Girl no! That’s what these broke niggas want you to do! Do you really think they’ll split the chores with you evenly?
And when he leaves you, you won’t have any money saved up to help start a new life. That money you keep for yourself is yours. Men are useless if they ain’t paying the bills, remember that.
Go marry your bestie female and stop with men then if they are only there for your egocentric pleasure.
I hear stories about poor girls who pay the bills, only for the man to come around with a new wife back home or worse spoiling others with his money.
If you tie up all his finances, best believe he won’t have anything left to do extra activities with
Forget my advances you are tooooo old. 24 and unmarried. Your about expired you have 1 left. Naa fadiiga ka kacI’m 24 and should be married asap. I’m getting old!
What’s the point of tolerating a broke nigga? Men are always talking about how they want a traditional wife. Well, I want a traditional husband.
What’s the point of tolerating a broke nigga? Men are always talking about how they want a traditional wife. Well, I want a traditional husband.
Fair enough.
If you are traditional then it's normal ! I hate it when hypocrites who say they believe in gender equality but they expect too much from men lmao
You know even if she works somali men will never spend her money. He doesnt feel manly doing that. As for gaalo culture even your girlfriend pays 50 50.
They are good somali men out there that arent broke and earn a living. Not all are some broke ass niggas
If he is shit and does nothing then u think im keeping him the house lol he can get straight out i dont put up BSExcuse me? You’re not supposed to tell me I’m old. You’re supposed to say I’m young!
Do you have anyone I could marry?
My somali sister needs a husband. I got you. Dont worry. What type of man you looking for? Does qabil matter? Does age matter.Excuse me? You’re not supposed to tell me I’m old. You’re supposed to say I’m young!
Do you have anyone I could marry?
What are your specs.
That may be true, but many men are nice for years before they show their true colors. You just wanna be ready when that happens sis. It’s better to be safe than sorry. You have an Islamic right to keep your money and spend it however you like.They are good somali men out there that arent broke and earn a living. Not all are some broke ass niggas
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