Some men don’t care if you have a past.

[World]

How would you even know ?

Women will always try to minimise their past history with men. This is true for non Muslim women, let alone Muslims.

I’m more anxious about the fact she could say her body count is 1, was in a long term relationship and repented, whilst in reality she was a h0e. You’ll never know.

 

[World]

Exactly you got to do your research especially if she just moves to your city for a “Fresh start” where’s she not known…

After me & her stopped talking She would even talk to my older cousin & try to manipulate him by asking if he can get a bottle from the liquor store for her & weed from the marijuana dispensary's that’s when I realized she had no xishood this one other Somali dude I know smashed her on a one night stand & he shared the story with us & I believe him because I remember seeing her ride as a passenger in his 2020 Audi A5 when I going to Panda Express lol.. Man… & to think I wanted to settle down with her. It is what is tho lol.

If a woman that’s having one night stands, smoking and drinking, tricks you into believing she’s virtuous, then you’re the one to blame. It’s impossible that you won’t notice.

 

[Rasheedosman619]

If a woman that’s having one night stands, smoking and drinking, tricks you into believing she’s virtuous, then you’re the one to blame. It’s impossible that you won’t notice.

While I agree with you some of those types of women are good at hiding it initially but eventually you’ll find out within due time like in my situation.

 

[Shayla]

Why are there so many males in the Women's den???

Let the women have their space to discuss womens issues.

 

[NomadicWarlord]

This is 100% correct.

The good girl, who listened to Hooyo, went to Uni got a professional job. Never went out, never did shisha, never talked to men.....those are the ones who struggle so much. They will be 30,31,33 and will not have any proposals.

The pretty Somali girl, who is out going, had lots of Somali guy friends at Uni, moved out at 21, goes to loads of parties, shisha, dates multiple Somali men. Was the soul of the Somali society group at her Uni....that's the girl who is beating the men off with sticks. She will have so many proposal by the time she is 25. She will get married quickly before 27 to a guy making decent money in finance/tech. They will live in Central London, by the time she is 33, she has two girls. She goes travelling with her hubby and her kids.her career will be going along nicely..

In the meantime the good girl is still living with Hooyo, wondering what happened and worrying about her biological clock. And the sad thing is she didn't even have fun in her 20s....whilst thr other girl got the best of all worlds. Fun in her 20s and settled with a nice family, living a wonderful life in her 30s.

Aint no respectable farax who aint a simp gon be wifin up a xalimo who was known as a in college who dated so many niggas n havin 1 nights stands n smokin hella shisha on the daily

 

[Garaad Awal]

This is 100% correct.

The good girl, who listened to Hooyo, went to Uni got a professional job. Never went out, never did shisha, never talked to men.....those are the ones who struggle so much. They will be 30,31,33 and will not have any proposals.

The pretty Somali girl, who is out going, had lots of Somali guy friends at Uni, moved out at 21, goes to loads of parties, shisha, dates multiple Somali men. Was the soul of the Somali society group at her Uni....that's the girl who is beating the men off with sticks. She will have so many proposal by the time she is 25. She will get married quickly before 27 to a guy making decent money in finance/tech. They will live in Central London, by the time she is 33, she has two girls. She goes travelling with her hubby and her kids.her career will be going along nicely..

In the meantime the good girl is still living with Hooyo, wondering what happened and worrying about her biological clock. And the sad thing is she didn't even have fun in her 20s....whilst thr other girl got the best of all worlds. Fun in her 20s and settled with a nice family, living a wonderful life in her 30s.

There’s no rational Muslim man that would marry and have children with a former hoe. Smoking Shisha and going to parties means she’s 1000% sleeping or doing some kid of sexual activity with men

 

[Gojo Satoru]

Why are there so many males in the Women's den???

Let the women have their space to discuss womens issues.

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[sammira]

This is 100% correct.

The good girl, who listened to Hooyo, went to Uni got a professional job. Never went out, never did shisha, never talked to men.....those are the ones who struggle so much. They will be 30,31,33 and will not have any proposals.

The pretty Somali girl, who is out going, had lots of Somali guy friends at Uni, moved out at 21, goes to loads of parties, shisha, dates multiple Somali men. Was the soul of the Somali society group at her Uni....that's the girl who is beating the men off with sticks. She will have so many proposal by the time she is 25. She will get married quickly before 27 to a guy making decent money in finance/tech. They will live in Central London, by the time she is 33, she has two girls. She goes travelling with her hubby and her kids.her career will be going along nicely..

In the meantime the good girl is still living with Hooyo, wondering what happened and worrying about her biological clock. And the sad thing is she didn't even have fun in her 20s....whilst thr other girl got the best of all worlds. Fun in her 20s and settled with a nice family, living a wonderful life in her 30s.

This is 100% true. I posted something similar last year about how I wasted my 20s being a "good girl". Somali guys are by and large not interested in an actual "good girl" that stays at home just the idea of it. The only like these girls when the need a step mom or are divorced. They also have no understanding or empathy towards those girls.

 

[sammira]

There’s no rational Muslim man that would marry and have children with a former hoe. Smoking Shisha and going to parties means she’s 1000% sleeping or doing some kid of sexual activity with men

Those girls are all getting married young to successful and attractive somali guys. There was one who was a singer on tiktok who got married recently in the summer.

 

[attash]

This is 100% correct.

The good girl, who listened to Hooyo, went to Uni got a professional job. Never went out, never did shisha, never talked to men.....those are the ones who struggle so much. They will be 30,31,33 and will not have any proposals.

The pretty Somali girl, who is out going, had lots of Somali guy friends at Uni, moved out at 21, goes to loads of parties, shisha, dates multiple Somali men. Was the soul of the Somali society group at her Uni....that's the girl who is beating the men off with sticks. She will have so many proposal by the time she is 25. She will get married quickly before 27 to a guy making decent money in finance/tech. They will live in Central London, by the time she is 33, she has two girls. She goes travelling with her hubby and her kids.her career will be going along nicely..

In the meantime the good girl is still living with Hooyo, wondering what happened and worrying about her biological clock. And the sad thing is she didn't even have fun in her 20s....whilst thr other girl got the best of all worlds. Fun in her 20s and settled with a nice family, living a wonderful life in her 30s.

Promiscuity has consequences. If you spend your youth living a volatile and promiscuous lifestyle, you will develop negative habits that will make your marriages unstable. The longest, most stable, and most happy marriages are marriages that involve two virgins. The shortest and most fraught marriages are marriages where one or both partners have a long past.

Of course a person that shuts themselves in their house all day will have trouble finding a spouse because nobody knows them (unless they are in a culture where arranged marriages are common). There are many ways to be outgoing and known without going down the zina/partying/drugs route, which is a very dangerous route to follow.

 

[attash]

Why are there so many males in the Women's den???

Let the women have their space to discuss womens issues.

You guys are the ones making (wildly incorrect) claims about male preferences. It is fair for us to intervene and correct the misconceptions.

 

[3LetterzMM]

It's not really a deal breaker for me tbh mandems can deal wit a one two bodies I jus don't wanna deal wit a whole blodclot graveyard

 

[Macawisley]

It's not really a deal breaker for me tbh mandems can deal wit a one two bodies I jus don't wanna deal wit a whole blodclot graveyard

You never know sxb don’t have low standards. It’s best to get yourself a virgin. It’s recommended by the prophet.

 

[Garaad Awal]

Those girls are all getting married young to successful and attractive somali guys. There was one who was a singer on tiktok who got married recently in the summer.

I have never seen Somali guys that I know marry former hoes and knew about it prior to the marriage, I've seen ajanabi men (madow,cadaan,indhoyaar) with less restrictive standards marry those types tho. A Somali Muslim man marrying some party pothead sakhraamad to be the mother of your children is nuts

 

[Gojo Satoru]

I have never seen Somali guys that I know marry former hoes and knew about it prior to the marriage, I've seen ajanabi men (madow,cadaan,indhoyaar) with less restrictive standards marry those types tho. A Somali Muslim man marrying some party pothead sakhraamad to be the mother of your children is nuts

I've seen this happen irl many times usually the man himself isn't innocent either.

 

[Macawisley]

I have never seen Somali guys that I know marry former hoes and knew about it prior to the marriage, I've seen ajanabi men (madow,cadaan,indhoyaar) with less restrictive standards marry those types tho. A Somali Muslim man marrying some party pothead sakhraamad to be the mother of your children is nuts

I know a brother that married that type of girl, they ended up getting divorced & then there was a video online of her getting gangbanged by madows in a car with her young daughter watching.

No respectable Somali would marry those type of girls.

 

[Garaad Awal]

I know a brother that married that type of girl, they ended up getting divorced & then there was a video online of her getting gangbanged by madows in a car with her young daughter watching.

No respectable Somali would marry those type of girls.

No respectable Muslim man would marry those type of girls. People especially Western women on this forum shit on guys like me for going back to the Islamic World for marriage but it's better to get married to a woman from a very conservative society in the Islamic World then a woman who grew up in the West or secular countries (like Turkey,Albania,Kazakhstan etc) if you are looking for a woman with traditional values. In those societies the number of hoes are vastly outnumbered by women with proper values unlike the West where it's a complete inverse with pressure from the Western society which encourages degeneracy

 

[rayxn3]

I know a brother that married that type of girl, they ended up getting divorced & then there was a video online of her getting gangbanged by madows in a car with her young daughter watching.

No respectable Somali would marry those type of girls.

You made that up. That is a wet dream you had

 

[Ladylike]

If you don’t want someone with a past what do you want? An embryo?

 

[Macawisley]

You made that up. That is a wet dream you had

Should I DM you the video?