Some men don’t care if you have a past.

[Yeri]

I was on tiktok when ambiyo farah came up on my fyp. I didn’t recognise her at first because she was wearing a hijab (mashallah). But looking through her tiktok I see she got married. Then I remembered back when she was popping on insta guys were calling her all sorts and saying she wouldn’t get married. Now fast forward a few years she is on the deen and found a good somali nin. At the end of the day if you had a past and you are truly repentant. There would be a righteous brother who will look past it. But don’t put yourself in a position like that in the first place, most men understandably wouldn’t be able to stomach it.

 

[HIBAQ123]

Trust me, men actually don't care how s1utty you are as long as you look good to them. They preach day and night about preferring modest women, but look at all the appreciation threads on here

 

[Internet Nomad]

Is it obligatory for a woman to reveal her past?

 

[Yeri]

Is it obligatory for a woman to reveal her past?

It isn’t obligatory (I could be wrong) because you shouldn’t expose your sins. However, in her case her past is very accessible online & people remember the things she did.

 

[Internet Nomad]

It isn’t obligatory (I could be wrong) because you shouldn’t expose your sins. However, in her case her past is very accessible online & people remember the things she did.

I mean i don’t really care if my potential spouse was a influencer in the past and had a popular ig page within reason of course like she wasn’t dressing in bikini or other revealing clothing.

I really don’t care if she wasn’t a hijabi in her past either.

Personally the problem i would have is if she had a past with other men. Cause i kept halal my whole life i would want to match up with someone similar.

However people who had a past but repented shouldn’t be push out of the marriage market because I’m sure there is many similar men in the same boat who are eligible.

 

[Internet Nomad]

Trust me, men actually don't care how s1utty you are as long as you look good to them. They preach day and night about preferring modest women, but look at all the appreciation threads on here

Its not the same as people in appreciation threads enjoy the women because of their visual beauty not because they want to marry them.

When it comes to marriage people are more responsible.

Same way men like seeing unmodest women online but would never want to see their female family members to be objectified like that.

It’s hypocritical but most people are some way or another.

 

[Yaraye]

I've learned a long time ago that what these creatures say and do don't match

 

[Dango]

Men do care lol

 

[Yeri]

Men do care lol

I said some not most.

 

[Ronaldo Nazario]

I personally care

In all my 18 years of living I have avoided being alone with the opposite gender and have never entertained the idea of zina and expect the same from my spouse. Just thinking about another man seeing her in her most vulnerable state and having his way with her makes my stomach turn
Tbf my stats are boosted so hopefully ill find the one

 

[techsamatar]

Well what are we talking him here? I doubt if he found out today she been ran through or did clubbing and drinking etc he would stay, she probably did meangliness ciyaal suuq stuff.

 

[MR.𐒈𐒝𐒑𐒛𐒐𐒘]

Only simps and dayooths would marry a woman with a past

 

[Garaad Awal]

Most Muslim men care, western men not so much

 

[mrlog]

Trust me, men actually don't care how s1utty you are as long as you look good to them. They preach day and night about preferring modest women, but look at all the appreciation threads on here

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[mrlog]

I said some not most.

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[Yeri]

Well what are we talking him here? I doubt if he found out today she been ran through or did clubbing and drinking etc he would stay, she probably did meangliness ciyaal suuq stuff.

Don’t remember much of what she used to get up to and post but she was known for having a toned a*s. She gained a huge following for that.

 

[Dango]

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I would say 99.9999

 

[mrlog]

Don’t remember much of what she used to get up to and post but she was known for having a toned a*s. She gained a huge following for that.

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[Yeri]

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You can easily find them on google.

 

[empressjamila]

Men don’t care that much about a woman’s past as long as she’s beautiful, he loves her and she kept her past lowkey (so he won’t be ridiculed for marrying her).

I know of a Somali girl who used to be an escort who got married to a Somali guy in Texas working in tech and making very good money. They seem happy.

After seeing that I don’t care what men say because their actions say very differently. Every man will be a simp for the right woman, lol