Some men don’t care if you have a past.

[Kane]

I haven’t approached a somali girl since sxb. I’m still young early 20s just saving up money. I don’t mind Yemen they got some beautiful women over there.

You have to admit to the role you played in all of this.

You imagined her to be something that she wasn’t, you forced your expectations on to her after finding her extremely attractive.

She did a decent thing by telling you exactly who she was, so your disappointment didn’t come from her honesty but from your own expectations.

and now you are holding all somali girls accountable for the actions of a ho, who kept it real with you.

Come on bro, btw I’m saying this to you as a certified Somalispot misogynist.

 

[Khaemwaset]

You have to admit to the role you played in all of this.

You imagined her to be something that she wasn’t, you forced your expectations on to her after finding her extremely attractive.

She did a decent thing by telling you exactly who she was, so your disappointment didn’t come from her honesty but from your own expectations.

and now you are holding all somali girls accountable for the actions of a ho, who kept it real with you.

Come on bro, btw I’m saying this to you as a certified Somalispot misogynist.

What did he do? How is he a mysogynist?

He saw what appeared to be a pious somali woman and judged her as so. But her background said otherwise. And bro was left so traumatised he didn't dare make the same mistake with another pious xalimo. Sure it's wrong to generalise all somali women but bro got done dirty.

 

[mrlog]

What did he do? How is he a mysogynist?

He saw what appeared to be a pious somali woman and judged her as so. But her background said otherwise. And bro was left so traumatised he didn't dare make the same mistake with another pious xalimo. Sure it's wrong to generalise all somali women but bro got done dirty.

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[Macawisley]

You have to admit to the role you played in all of this.

You imagined her to be something that she wasn’t, you forced your expectations on to her after finding her extremely attractive.

She did a decent thing by telling you exactly who she was, so your disappointment didn’t come from her honesty but from your own expectations.

and now you are holding all somali girls accountable for the actions of a ho, who kept it real with you.

Come on bro, btw I’m saying this to you as a certified Somalispot misogynist.

Bruh, I almost got bamboozled. I’m telling you sxb she dressed so modestly and had akhlaaq and xishood that You wouldn’t even think that she had a “past” or could be capable of such actions. You know there’s girls that you just know just by how they dress and how they act that they were up to no good in their past and also by asking around.

Bro I’m telling you I had no clue, I was shocked sxb. If her as a 10/10 xaliimo with all the beauty and everything were up to no good. Then I don’t know what to expect from the average xaliimo.

I don’t know why she opened up to me when she could’ve lied but I’m sure she could tell I was sincere & genuine that she couldn’t risk a friend or someone to drop a bombshell.

 

[Kane]

What did he do? How is he a mysogynist?

He saw what appeared to be a pious somali woman and judged her as so. But her background said otherwise. And bro was left so traumatised he didn't dare make the same mistake with another pious xalimo. Sure it's wrong to generalise all somali women but bro got done dirty.

he misjudged her because of his own perception and what he hoped her to be, at some point we all have.

My point is simply this, he hurt himself by idealizing the woman to be as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside.

and she corrected him on that fact which is honorable, so why judge her for not being who he wanted her to be, and why blame all Somali women when it was just 1 woman.

About the misogyny I was talking about myself lol.

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@empressjamila hello wonderful, my dear friend @mrlog who is a great guy has taken a liking to you.

he is funny and down to earth, frankly a lovable guy.

all ask of you my dear, is you give him a simple interview, so he may present his case in private.

thank you

 

[Macawisley]

Ohh which state? I had a similar experience like 3 years ago in 2020, there was this Somali girl from Atlanta that I met at this East African women community center in my city. She seemed very virtuous & you would never expect her to be a hoe, we started talking for a few months until a friend of mine exposed an old Facebook account of hers from like 2013 & it shows her dressed like a , smoking, drinking , going to clubs & with ghetto looking hood mathow dudes she even has some tattoos all over her body, (That I seen in pictures) I’m glad I dodged that bullet lol but what’s so crazy is how unexpected it was & how some former 304’s are masters at concealing their hoe nature.

Oregon sxb.

 

[Macawisley]

My point here is some men (like me) do care if you have a past no matter how beautiful you are.

This girl was an escort and a cornstar & still got rejected. She’s really beautiful too.

 

[Macawisley]

@Macawisley @Khaemwaset I understand the shock you guys go through when u find out a somali girl that u really like has a past. However, I do find it very unfair on pious somali sisters who have saved themselves for a righteous man to be painted with the same brush. This behaviour some women engaging is found within all muslim communities back home or in diaspora. so plz brothers refrain from these comments it quite disheartening to see especially when comments like this are quite common to on twitter and tiktok.

Im tryna find those girls lol but it’s quite hard at the moment.

 

[Macawisley]

Maybe you aren’t aware but Somali men have this default angelic picture of Somali women in their minds, and place them above all other women on this planet, but the flip side of that positive generalisation is that a couple of these stories, where the girl basically turns the man she is supposed to love into a fool, can turn that default image into a negative generalisation that echoes in their minds like Tinnitus.

Yeah, I was just like that I thought somali girls were angelic pious xaliimos. But that changed recently after the creation of telegram and discord. The amount of filth somali xaliimos are engaged in is insane.

Just today I saw a video going around of a tiktok girl (who dresses so modestly) who is showing her pierced nipples on Telegram.

I’m just trying to find a simple western xaliimo that isn’t engaged in this filth. May Allah grant me one

 

[Kane]

Bruh, I almost got bamboozled. I’m telling you sxb she dressed so modestly and had akhlaaq and xishood that You wouldn’t even think that she had a “past” or could be capable of such actions. You know there’s girls that you just know just by how they dress and how they act that they were up to no good in their past and also by asking around.

Bro I’m telling you I had no clue, I was shocked sxb. If her as a 10/10 xaliimo with all the beauty and everything were up to no good. Then I don’t know what to expect from the average xaliimo.

I don’t know why she opened up to me when she could’ve lied but I’m sure she could tell I was sincere & genuine that she couldn’t risk a friend or someone to drop a bombshell.

That my point bro if she wasn’t that good looking you wouldn’t have allowed yourself to be fooled, btw the physical beauty of a woman has nothing to do with her value as a person. That’s why 9’s and 10’s are for the most part not wifey material, 6’s, 7’s and 8’s are.

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[Rasheedosman619]

Oregon sxb.

I live in San Diego but shit Oregon is probably the last place I’d think a xalimo would mess with mathow but I could understand Atlanta I guess. She was probably the woke liberal Blm social justice warrior type I’m assuming.

 

[Macawisley]

I live in San Diego but shit Oregon is probably the last place I’d think a xalimo would mess with mathow but I could understand Atlanta I guess. She was probably the woke liberal Blm social justice warrior type I’m assuming.

She used to live in Atlanta tho so that explains it kkk

 

[Rasheedosman619]

She used to live in Atlanta tho so that explains it kkk

Atlanta is a city full of degeneracy I’m not surprised that xalimos out there be wilding i traveled there before it’s a wild place.

 

[Bundasliga]

Trust me, men actually don't care how s1utty you are as long as you look good to them. They preach day and night about preferring modest women, but look at all the appreciation threads on here

Lol you have no clue.

There's a difference between wanting to f*ck or wanting to wife.

 

[Unknown89777]

She really liked me too and our chemistry was great. I still have mad respect for her for getting it off her chest.

But I never expected a girl like her to be capable of doing shit like that.. after that I haven’t approached a somali girl since.

It made me think are somali girls in the west finished? I really don’t want to go back home and marry a fob that can’t understand basic English but the girls nowadays idk they really losing control out here. (Escorts, Onlyfans, Tiktok, Snapchat, Telegram etc)

listen, i promise you there is really good Somali girls who are literally gorgeous here in the west mashallah! > i know a probably like hundreds in my state (which has a bad rep lol) but look outside the degenerate areas and you'll find the perfect xalimo for you inshallah walaal.

 

[Unknown89777]

Let me guess… Reer Minneapolis?

not all Minneapolis girls are bad waryaa and a lil tip > look as far away as possible from Minneapolis lol . the farther the better, typically your options get wayyyyyy better!

 

[Unknown89777]

Im tryna find those girls lol but it’s quite hard at the moment.

if your serious ab it then, dm me i gotchu saxiib !

 

[Unbothered]

It’s true , men don’t care about past, specially the innocent/successful ones .

Ambiyo was not ciyaalsuuq. She just fitness model.

 

[Macawisley]

It’s true , men don’t care about past, specially the innocent/successful ones .

That’s not true. I had a family friend reject a beautiful girl because of her past. (He was a virgin)

Some men who have a past themselves don’t mind. But the chaste & pure ones will never settle for a girl that is a zani & vice versa.

 

[hinters]

Men don’t care that much about a woman’s past as long as she’s beautiful, he loves her and she kept her past lowkey (so he won’t be ridiculed for marrying her).

I know of a Somali girl who used to be an escort who got married to a Somali guy in Texas working in tech and making very good money. They seem happy.

After seeing that I don’t care what men say because their actions say very differently. Every man will be a simp for the right woman, lol

A woman sleeping around I can understand, a former prostitute? Nah that brother's starving, subhanallah.