Some men don’t care if you have a past.

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Men don’t care that much about a woman’s past as long as she’s beautiful, he loves her and she kept her past lowkey (so he won’t be ridiculed for marrying her).

I know of a Somali girl who used to be an escort who got married to a Somali guy in Texas working in tech and making very good money. They seem happy.

After seeing that I don’t care what men say because their actions say very differently. Every man will be a simp for the right woman, lol
Yh 1 in billion and he is a cuck and probably was down bad. But ain't no Somali parent going to allow their son to marry an escort if they found out especially the reputation and the word that will go around and reach Africa.
 
UK or America? Miskeen its kl somethings aren't for you. I just do not get how you can do something that degrading and not just once but few times and just ruin yourself knowing the day will come when you will have to settle down.
America sxb and She was beautiful too as well 10/10 wlhi :jcoleno:
 
I don’t know what she was up to so I wouldn’t say she is a hoe?

Can someone explain what was she known for?
She was one of those girls that would post their gym bods her fuuto mainly but i wasn’t completely up to date with what she used to get up to tho.
 
I stopped talking to a Somali girl after she said to me that she gave a Madow guy in her school head quite a few times and that she had a few boyfriends. I’m glad she was honest. I moved on. She still calls me from time to time to see if I’ve changed my mind but I don’t answer.

she was beautiful and funny we got along so well but I have principals. I got distant with her after she told me and she felt that it bothered me which it did and we mutually ended it.

Sometimes I wish I didn’t know because i really liked her and actually hoped to marry her but at the same time I’m happy she told me.
Sorry to hear walaal but she must have respected u enough to tell u the truth. Inshallah she has repented from those actions.
 

Khaemwaset

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I stopped talking to a Somali girl after she said to me that she gave a Madow guy in her school head quite a few times and that she had a few boyfriends. I’m glad she was honest. I moved on. She still calls me from time to time to see if I’ve changed my mind but I don’t answer.

she was beautiful and funny we got along so well but I have principals. I got distant with her after she told me and she felt that it bothered me which it did and we mutually ended it.

Sometimes I wish I didn’t know because i really liked her and actually hoped to marry her but at the same time I’m happy she told me.
Idk how you do it broski. If I heard that I'll follow my great grandfather's footsteps and just take a wife from yemen and never touch this market again.
 
Sorry to hear walaal but she must have respected u enough to tell u the truth. Inshallah she has repented from those actions.
She really liked me too and our chemistry was great. I still have mad respect for her for getting it off her chest.

But I never expected a girl like her to be capable of doing shit like that.. after that I haven’t approached a somali girl since.

It made me think are somali girls in the west finished? I really don’t want to go back home and marry a fob that can’t understand basic English but the girls nowadays idk they really losing control out here. (Escorts, Onlyfans, Tiktok, Snapchat, Telegram etc)
 

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She really liked me too and our chemistry was great. I still have mad respect for her for getting it off her chest.

But I never expected a girl like her to be capable of doing shit like that.. after that I haven’t approached a somali girl since.

It made me think are somali girls in the west finished? I really don’t want to go back home and marry a fob that can’t understand basic English but the girls nowadays idk they really losing control out here. (Escorts, Onlyfans, Tiktok, Snapchat, Telegram etc)
Ever since you've been traumatised by Somali women. What types are you approaching now? Arabs? South Asian?
 
Idk how you do it broski. If I heard that I'll follow my great grandfather's footsteps and just take a wife from yemen and never touch this market again.
I haven’t approached a somali girl since sxb. I’m still young early 20s just saving up money. I don’t mind Yemen they got some beautiful women over there.
 
Ever since you've been traumatised by Somali women. What types are you approaching now? Arabs? South Asian?
Arabs sxb. I think they can be the closest resemblance to Xaliimos when it comes to dhaqan. But obviously my family prefer me to marry a somali girl but if you can’t find a good one in the west you gotta do what you gotta do. It’s either that or go back home.

How about you sxb?
 

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Arabs sxb. I think they can be the closest resemblance to Xaliimos when it comes to dhaqan. But obviously my family prefer me to marry a somali girl but if you can’t find a good one in the west you gotta do what you gotta do. It’s either that or go back home.

How about you sxb?
I'm not looking yet. Too young for that, In a couple years I will though.

Somalis in my area are fine, but there are some crazy ones that fell through the cracks, both men and women. I'm not too stingy on ethnicity and talk to girls of all ethnics. But that might change when I start to look for marriage.

Going back home isn't too big of an issue if needed. Sure there might be some attrition because of culture but end of the day you're both Somali. But just because they're back home doesn't mean they will automatically be pious. I've heard of some crazy girls activities back in Djibouti. So know the women you are interested in and learn to ask around about them so you don't face the same issue you did before.

There are lots of Wh0res that decide they want to switch sides and cover themselves to look "pious" to unsuspecting Faraxs. The main thing you should do is ask people who know the girl you want so you don't get a bombshell like "I gave madax to some meadow guy in skl a couple times yhyhyh"
 
I'm not looking yet. Too young for that, In a couple years I will though.

Somalis in my area are fine, but there are some crazy ones that fell through the cracks, both men and women. I'm not too stingy on ethnicity and talk to girls of all ethnics. But that might change when I start to look for marriage.

Going back home isn't too big of an issue if needed. Sure there might be some attrition because of culture but end of the day you're both Somali. But just because they're back home doesn't mean they will automatically be pious. I've heard of some crazy girls activities back in Djibouti. So know the women you are interested in and learn to ask around about them so you don't face the same issue you did before.

There are lots of Wh0res that decide they want to switch sides and cover themselves to look "pious" to unsuspecting Faraxs. The main thing you should do is ask people who know the girl you want so you don't get a bombshell like "I gave madax to some meadow guy in skl a couple times yhyhyh"
Couldn’t have said it better sxb. I’m in my early 20s so getting married is an option but not absolutely necessary.

I’m open to any ethnicity really but at the end of the day when it comes to marriage there is nothing better than a somali girl for a lot of good reasons but finding a good somali girl in the west is a challenge itself.

I agree with the back home part. They themselves are not angels/pious I’ve seen telegram leaks Somali girls back home are equally if not worse than the ones in the west.

I just don’t want to end up like the brother that was mentioned here that married a reformed somali escort. That is my absolute worst fear.
 
No she was from another state
Ohh which state? I had a similar experience like 3 years ago in 2020, there was this Somali girl from Atlanta that I met at this East African women community center in my city. She seemed very virtuous & you would never expect her to be a hoe, we started talking for a few months until a friend of mine exposed an old Facebook account of hers from like 2013 & it shows her dressed like a , smoking, drinking , going to clubs & with ghetto looking hood mathow dudes she even has some tattoos all over her body, (That I seen in pictures) I’m glad I dodged that bullet lol but what’s so crazy is how unexpected it was & how some former 304’s are masters at concealing their hoe nature.
 

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Ohh which state? I had a similar experience like 3 years ago in 2020, there was this Somali girl from Atlanta that I met at this East African women community center in my city. She seemed very virtuous & you would never expect her to be a hoe, we started talking for a few months until a friend of mine exposed an old Facebook account of hers from like 2013 & it shows her dressed like a , smoking, drinking , going to clubs & with ghetto looking hood mathow dudes she even has some tattoos all over her body, (That I seen in pictures) I’m glad I dodged that bullet lol but what’s so crazy is how unexpected it was & how some former 304’s are masters at concealing their hoe nature.
That friend is a G
Exactly why I say ask around and do your research on these girls. You can never take them at face value.
 
That friend is a G
Exactly why I say ask around and do your research on these girls. You can never take them at face value.
Exactly you got to do your research especially if she just moves to your city for a “Fresh start” where’s she not known…

After me & her stopped talking She would even talk to my older cousin & try to manipulate him by asking if he can get a bottle from the liquor store for her & weed from the marijuana dispensary's that’s when I realized she had no xishood this one other Somali dude I know smashed her on a one night stand & he shared the story with us & I believe him because I remember seeing her ride as a passenger in his 2020 Audi A5 when I going to Panda Express lol.. Man… & too think I wanted to settle down with her. It is what is tho lol.
 
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Men don’t care that much about a woman’s past as long as she’s beautiful, he loves her and she kept her past lowkey (so he won’t be ridiculed for marrying her).

I know of a Somali girl who used to be an escort who got married to a Somali guy in Texas working in tech and making very good money. They seem happy.

After seeing that I don’t care what men say because their actions say very differently. Every man will be a simp for the right woman, lol

You are delusional. The only reason she trapped that miskeen IT guy is probably because she presented herself as a pious woman and the idiot didn’t do a background check. The moment he or any other male in that situation finds out his wife’s past was one of degeneracy it’s an automatic divorce.

A lot of girls, pre-social media, could just move to another state or country, and restart the game, nobody would ever know, but the thing about that degenerate past is that they made enemies along the way and now they have jealous people from their past commenting in their husband’s socials every time he posts them together, and that would instantly flip a switch in his mind and he could never see her as the same woman he married. GAME OVER;

 
@Macawisley @Khaemwaset I understand the shock you guys go through when u find out a somali girl that u really like has a past. However, I do find it very unfair on pious somali sisters who have saved themselves for a righteous man to be painted with the same brush. This behaviour some women engaging is found within all muslim communities back home or in diaspora. so plz brothers refrain from these comments it quite disheartening to see especially when comments like this are quite common to on twitter and tiktok.
 
@Macawisley @Khaemwaset I understand the shock you guys go through when u find out a somali girl that u really like has a past. However, I do find it very unfair on pious somali sisters who have saved themselves for a righteous man to be painted with the same brush. This behaviour some women engaging is found within all muslim communities back home or in diaspora. so plz brothers refrain from these comments it quite disheartening to see especially when comments like this are quite common to on twitter and tiktok.
I agree with you. Plus guys also do the same.
 

Three Moons

Give Dhul-Suwayqatayn not an inch of the Sea!
@Macawisley @Khaemwaset I understand the shock you guys go through when u find out a somali girl that u really like has a past. However, I do find it very unfair on pious somali sisters who have saved themselves for a righteous man to be painted with the same brush. This behaviour some women engaging is found within all muslim communities back home or in diaspora. so plz brothers refrain from these comments it quite disheartening to see especially when comments like this are quite common to on twitter and tiktok.

Maybe you aren’t aware but Somali men have this default angelic picture of Somali women in their minds, and place them above all other women on this planet, but the flip side of that positive generalisation is that a couple of these stories, where the girl basically turns the man she is supposed to love into a fool, can turn that default image into a negative generalisation that echoes in their minds like Tinnitus.
 

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