Somali men need to realise their women have moved on, you're trying to force a culture on them they either despise and/or see no benefit in continuing, not all, but a significant amount. Your 'ghira' was never needed in the first place, even the religious ones will take their side over yours. Stop protecting people who deem you pathetic & view you as the source of their trauma, move on with your life.
Societies should never accept degeneracy. And since men are entrusted to the position of leadership for societies, there is a bigger responsibility on them not to accept degeneracy.