Rorschach
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Don't know why this filled me with rage to be honest. I'm realising that the zealous collective protectionism of ones fellow ethnic 'women-folk' is archaic and brings nothing but calool xanoon and paranoia.
This is a controversial take.
Over the past few years I've been trying to detangle myself from the whole concept of 'naagihiina'. I can understand Somali girls feeling shackled by this but am tired of arguing the male mind state. We humiliate our fellow man through 'his' woman - tale as old as time. The most liberal (read: degenerate) man echoes this sentiment, no matter how much he tries to bury it. Even kids are aware of it when they use it in playground taunts.
All men universally agree that a woman belongs to her ethnicity.
But I think it's high time to relinquish this control (which is non-existent to begin with since we Somali men have no power). In the age of Babylon it's every man and woman for themselves.
Remember that the concept of ghira/protective-jealousy is preserved for your wife and the women in your family ONLY.
That twerking Shukri over there has nothing to do with you - stop seeing your mother/sister/spouse in her. Grit your teeth, disavow her, and move on. All this screeching for a women who's second name you don't even know is very low testosterone.
This is a controversial take.
Over the past few years I've been trying to detangle myself from the whole concept of 'naagihiina'. I can understand Somali girls feeling shackled by this but am tired of arguing the male mind state. We humiliate our fellow man through 'his' woman - tale as old as time. The most liberal (read: degenerate) man echoes this sentiment, no matter how much he tries to bury it. Even kids are aware of it when they use it in playground taunts.
All men universally agree that a woman belongs to her ethnicity.
But I think it's high time to relinquish this control (which is non-existent to begin with since we Somali men have no power). In the age of Babylon it's every man and woman for themselves.
Remember that the concept of ghira/protective-jealousy is preserved for your wife and the women in your family ONLY.
That twerking Shukri over there has nothing to do with you - stop seeing your mother/sister/spouse in her. Grit your teeth, disavow her, and move on. All this screeching for a women who's second name you don't even know is very low testosterone.