Somalis and Divorce, Let’s discuss.

[Odious Delirium]

I thought you had crush on @JackieBurkhart her my bad

no I don't have one on anyone here especially if I don't even know what they look like. That doesn't make sense to me and how did you even come to that conclusion

Never marry divorced women. My friend @Javelin

First you call me a blm farax then I got a crush on @JackieBurkhart and now your saying don't get married to a divorce woman. What's with all these assumptions and jumping to conclusions

Naaya you need this you've been constantly d riding with your back up dancer @Fobnimo Till I Dhimo both of you could use some help

 

[Odious Delirium]

I thought you were for Black Power, brother. What happened?

I'm transracial

 

[Waa dhamatay]

I remember my central cee and ahmed said ahmed days. I was a bandage on a hand for like 2 1/2 years
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Mogs me hard with that massive frame and full hairline. It’s over.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Mogs me hard with that massive frame and full hairline. It’s over.

Ain't you the same height?? Simply working out can fix difference in frame

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Ain't you the same height?? Simply working out can fix difference in frame

Nah frame is based on bone structure. I’m returning to gymcelling tho

 

[Odious Delirium]

Nah frame is based on bone structure. I’m returning to gymcelling tho

Your bones grow tho when you gym out and your frame widens plus his frame ain't even that big.
Very easily achievable

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Your bones grow tho when you gym out and your frame widens plus his frame ain't even that big.
Very easily achievable

Now you’re just spouting suugo science.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Now you’re just spouting suugo science.

Before

after

Same guy "frame" doesn't matter

 

[AbdiFreedom]

Divorce is too normalized in our culture.

The only change I see is less marriages in the first place due to higher standards .

Whenever I listen to what xalimos & faraxs expect from their spouse I'm thinking they'll never get married

It's a good thing.

 

[Odious Delirium]

It's a good thing.

Rather that then what goes on in the other communities. The only issue is people who make light of divorce entirely

 

[Qeelbax]

Rather that then what goes on in the other communities. The only issue is people who make light of divorce entirely

What do you have to say for faraxs that want to cosplay as acid throwing timojelec men?

 

[AbdiFreedom]

What do you have to say for faraxs that want to cosplay as acid throwing timojelec men?

Faraxs probably have one of lowest rates of domestic violence in the world. This is a non-issue.

 

[Odious Delirium]

What do you have to say for faraxs that want to cosplay as acid throwing timojelec men?

All I got to say is somali women are lucky to have somali men and I don't speak for divestors

 

[lanochedeanoche]

who said central cee is tall hes like 5'7

 

[TheLastWaryaa]

Divorce is not shamed in the Somali community, which I guess is a good thing in a way.

 

[Angelina]

All I got to say is somali women are lucky to have somali men and I don't speak for divestors

DV happens in every community and I have personally seen cases of Somali women who have been abused and beat up by their spouses. It even happened to a close family members of mine.

What differentiates Somalis from others, is that despite DV happening at times, we don’t normalize it, nor is it seen as acceptable In our culture. The average Somali father, brother and the like would be disgusted to hear if his daughter/sister has getting abused and would demand a divorce straight away. Even the community at larger would help and think the wife should leave. When the close family member of mine was physically beat up, all her uncles and brothers came to have a word with the husband and demanded he divorce her. Other Muslim groups on the other hand, would encourage the wife to stay and fathers and brothers might not do their duty to protect their sister/daughter as the stigma if divorce is more important than the life, health and happiness of their daughter.

That’s the key difference. Saying DV doesn’t happen in the Somali community is false, but saying that Somalis do not tolerate or accept DV it is true. It’s seen as unmanly, abhorrent and nasty. That attitude we have towards DV is something I’ll always cherish and respect.

 

[Odious Delirium]

DV happens in every community and I have personally seen cases of Somali women who have been abused and beat up by their spouses. It even happened to a close family members of mine.

What differentiates Somalis from others, is that despite DV happening at times, we don’t normalize it, nor is it seen as acceptable In our culture. The average Somali father, brother and the like would be disgusted to hear if his daughter/sister has getting abused and would demand a divorce straight away. Even the community at larger would help and think the wife should leave. When the close family member of mine was physically beat up, all her uncles and brothers came to have a word with the husband and demanded he divorce her. Other Muslim groups on the other hand, would encourage the wife to stay and fathers and brothers might not do their duty to protect their sister/daughter as the stigma if divorce is more important than the life, health and happiness of their daughter.

That’s the key difference. Saying DV doesn’t happen in the Somali community is false, but saying that Somalis do not tolerate or accept DV it is true. It’s seen as unmanly, abhorrent and nasty. That attitude we have towards DV is something I’ll always cherish and respect.

the vid was a joke i know dv happens everywhere

 

[Abdalla]

DV happens in every community and I have personally seen cases of Somali women who have been abused and beat up by their spouses. It even happened to a close family members of mine.

What differentiates Somalis from others, is that despite DV happening at times, we don’t normalize it, nor is it seen as acceptable In our culture. The average Somali father, brother and the like would be disgusted to hear if his daughter/sister has getting abused and would demand a divorce straight away. Even the community at larger would help and think the wife should leave. When the close family member of mine was physically beat up, all her uncles and brothers came to have a word with the husband and demanded he divorce her. Other Muslim groups on the other hand, would encourage the wife to stay and fathers and brothers might not do their duty to protect their sister/daughter as the stigma if divorce is more important than the life, health and happiness of their daughter.

That’s the key difference. Saying DV doesn’t happen in the Somali community is false, but saying that Somalis do not tolerate or accept DV it is true. It’s seen as unmanly, abhorrent and nasty. That attitude we have towards DV is something I’ll always cherish and respect.

DV is less than 2% in Somali community which means it is basically negligible.

 

[Angelina]

DV is less than 2% in Somali community which means it is basically negligible.

We don’t have accurate statistics. Most women don’t even report it and Somalis don’t even register their marriages hence when they divorce we don’t even have accurate data as to the reasons as to why they divorced.

You have no idea what happens behind closed doors, but we do know that it isn’t culturally tolerated.

 

[Hotchick12]

He's 24 and 6'2 too. He's causing trouble to my heart right now.

What is in the water in Scandinavia, they have the finest Somali guys over there