Somali women -- how do you express interest in a guy? **serious topic**

[XoosBoos]

if you still can't find a suitable xalimo go settle with the amhara girl

Bbbbb-but. The amhara girl is too arrogant for my liking. I would rather be lonely then knowing one day I would have half amxaara kids.

 

[Saar]

What is a 21 year old doing studying with 17 year olds.

Dutch education system is different and he is on his last year nothing weird about it @Jjero here is your explanation @Zailah tell em

 

[Kingjames]

yes

You out here crushing on some fobs right?


I’m disappointed.

 

[showme7]

I don't how you people do it in the west but in Somalia we ask girls out by physically talking to her or by calling her but do ur thing and good luck wll

That's how it's supposed to be done.

But the West has made us retarded in terms of social interactions.

 

[Saar]

Bbbbb-but. The amhara girl is too arrogant for my liking. I would rather be lonely then knowing one day I would have half amxaara kids.

Move to the uk just don't get shocked when you arrive in london

 

[BrightEyes]

Depends what I want from him. You just tell him. It is not rocket science. If you want something, you go get it. Simples.

 

[showme7]

Depends what I want from him. You just tell him. It is not rocket science. If you want something, you go get it. Simples.

Wait, you are a real life xalimo that tells a guy you like them???

abayooo you deserve a medal.

 

[Saar]

You out here crushing on some fobs right?


I’m disappointed.

i thought he was born here but it doesn't matter we deserve eacht other the heart wants what it wants

 

[Jjero]

Dutch education system is different and he is on his last year nothing weird about it @Jjero here is your explanation @Zailah tell em

Think about it
He was 17 when you were 13

 

[Saar]

Think about it
He was 17 when you were 13

So what if he is 4 years older i have enough problems already with him acting like i am some ciyaal

 

[Mercury]

I like this girl that I see about 1-2 times a month, we are always friendly and smile. I have her number and she knows, however I only have it due to sheer circumstance (basically via doing some errands for a relative).

My question to the halmos on SS is, if you're interested in a guy, how do you express it, if at all? Or do you just wait for a guy to do everything??? I'm really curious, i've never had a somali girl be direct in her interest. In fact I knew this one girl who told her friends she found her husband (me) and I never had a clue she was that into me. Unfortunately I wasn't digging her that much.....she was kinda cute but too loud and chubby.

I'm a 28 year old guy and still haven't got the memo....

ps guys for once no trolls pls. i don't want to hear any mention of "ashy abdi" or "", not this time.

Since you already know her ask her out you Will know she likes you when shes calling in the middle of the night Asking you

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[Zailah]

Dutch education system is different and he is on his last year nothing weird about it @Jjero here is your explanation @Zailah tell em

I’m not sure if you’re doing VWO or something. It’s super confusing tbh but it’s not age. It’s academic performance instead tbh.

Basicallyyy, the Dutch education system cares more about the academic ability of the pupil rather than the academic ability relation to age. Since he came as a teen, he may have been put where his academic ability was. However, it could also mean that @Saar was put into a group where she is smart for age and studies with older people.

When I was in Holland, I was in group 7 I was like 5-6. I was the age where I’d be put in year 1 in the U.K which is like kindergarten grade for Americans. However I was studying with older kids like 11 yo or something but age varies.

It’s a system where people end up happier and achieve good grades.

 

[gurey]

Most Somali girls dont have male somali friends and dont know how to interact with us. Most of them are paranoid and think you will some how stain their name and reputation if you it doesn't go well and a host of other things.

Me personally ive been turned down but then only to find out she werent that serious about turning me down because they gave me poppy eyes a few times I seen her since.

 

[Saar]

Since you already know her ask her out you Will know she likes you when shes calling in the middle of the night Asking you

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sheekada iwad

 

[Kingjames]

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So what if he is 4 years older i have enough problems already with him acting like i am some ciyaal

He’s 4 years older than you in Europe. Have you asked how much he is older than you in Somali? That may answer why he treats you like ciyaal.

 

[Jjero]

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So what if he is 4 years older i have enough problems already with him acting like i am some ciyaal

He doesn't want to end up in jail or karbashed by your brothers
That's why

You should try with a Somali guy your age abaayo

 

[BrightEyes]

Most Somali girls dont have male somali friends and dont know how to interact with us. Most of them are paranoid and think you will some how stain their name and reputation if you it doesn't go well and a host of other things.

Me personally ive been turned down but then only to find out she werent that serious about turning me down because they gave me poppy eyes a few times I seen her since.

I personally avoid Somali guys like the plague not because I can't interact with them but because I don't have time for their double standards.

 

[Saar]

I’m not sure if you’re doing VWO or something. It’s super confusing tbh but it’s not age. It’s academic performance instead tbh.

Basicallyyy, the Dutch education system cares more about the academic ability of the pupil rather than the academic ability relation to age. Since he came as a teen, he may have been put where his academic ability was. However, it could also mean that @Saar was put into a group where she is smart for age and studies with older people.

When I was in Holland, I was in group 7 I was like 5-6. I was the age where I’d be put in year 1 in the U.K which is like kindergarten grade for Americans. However I was studying with older kids like 11 yo or something but age varies.

It’s a system where people end up happier and achieve good grades.

tell em me and one other girl are 17 and one is 16 years old the others are over 19 in my class

 

[Saar]

He doesn't want to end up in jail or karbashed by your brothers
That's why

You should try with a Somali guy your age abaayo

Lol i live alone with my father and noo i want him, him and him

 

[Saar]

He’s 4 years older than you in Europe. Have you asked how much he is older than you in Somali? That may answer why he treats you like ciyaal.

Why would he lie he looks like a 19 year old and he wasn't even born in somalia