Somali women -- how do you express interest in a guy? **serious topic**

[Boqor]

Talking about topics that are of common interest (books, politics, school). If I am really interested in a guy, I will talk to him about something (like going up to him and asking what time salah maghrib is). But if I am NOT interested, I won't even look in a guy's direction; you don't exist to me.

Ukhti fear Allah

 

[Desert Flower]

Ukhti fear Allah

I must've struck a nerve in alot of guys regarding the salah question. Perhaps something deeper is going in, of which I may not be aware of.

 

[Boqor]

I must've struck a nerve in alot of guys regarding the salah question. Perhaps something deeper is going in, of which I may not be aware of.

If you had the confidence to walk up to me and ask me that question, I would be able to derive that you are a practising ambivert and thus I would be inclined to procreate with you.

Natural fitrah ukhti

 

[Coulombs law]

Are you guys kidding me?

If a somali girl came up to me and asked for the Salah time, I'm immediately handing over meher money and removing her from the free market

Ah how amazing laissez-faire is...

 

[Desert Flower]

If you had the confidence to walk up to me and ask me that question, I would be able to derive that you are a practising ambivert and thus I would be inclined to procreate with you.

Natural fitrah ukhti

I don't waste my time on dudes that I ain't interested in. So if you haven't gotten that question thrown at you yet, you ain't the one. And don't underestimate my confidence walaal.

 

[Lsma]

The more $$$ you have, the easier it gets.

 

[0117]

Don't you have a smart phone with the salah times on it? It is an ice breaker, esp for shy, religious girls who may be interested in a guy but don't really know how to go about it.

Anyways, the main point I was making is that if I am personally interested in a guy, I will find a way to talk to him, find something (anything, even if it means asking him for directions for a place that I already know) and basically make my existence known to him. That is the point. If I am not interested, I won't talk to a guy.

Come to think of it, this sort of small talk where a girl would initiate a random convo has happened to me a few times this year.Perhaps I should've taken this as a queue that the person likes me to some extent

Your words are much appreciated

 

[Desert Flower]

Come to think of it, this sort of small talk where a girl would initiate a random convo has happened to me a few times this year.Perhaps I should've taken this as a queue that the person likes me to some extent

Your words are much appreciated

Glad I could give you the Xalimo perspective.

If the girls were making small talk with you, that was a sign that they were interested in you, to some degree.

Girls shoot their shot much differently, and it tends to be more subtle (I can't speak for all women, but I will say a great majority). Especially because, let's be honest, Somali guys talk, so you don't want to come off as too forthcoming or aggressive, or you will be labelled "easy".

 

[jamal9]

some white girls play with their hair or toss it around when they are interested in me. hmmm, how would a hijabi do that?

 

[0117]

Glad I could give you the Xalimo perspective.

If the girls were making small talk with you, that was a sign that they were interested in you, to some degree.

Girls shoot their shot much differently, and it tends to be more subtle (I can't speak for all women, but I will say a great majority). Especially because, let's be honest, Somali guys talk, so you don't want to come off as too forthcoming or aggressive, or you will be labelled "easy".