I can understand meet your friend to catch up over a cup of coffee but hang out with your friends for several hours and come home late is very weird cause your neglecting your obligations as a husband and father and it also shows that you don't take your role as a father serious otherwise you would make sacrifices (spend less time with friends)Why is it that Somali guys love hanging with their homies 24/7? All the time? Itâs not something they grow out of. Theyâll leave their wife to hang with their friends and come home at 3 am. Itâs something Iâve seen married women talk about and have experienced and thatâs pathetic.
Alot of our men lack maturity and an ability to think for themselves. His friends, and family will be doing the thinking for him, and your marriage will be too crowded.
Also, why is it a challenge to find a man whoâs family oriented and is a qawaam? Most Somali families are fragmented, with the dad on one side and the kids and mom on the other. They donât move as a unit and thatâs the problem. This issue spans generations, even though our generation is a *bit* better but we still have a long way to go.