Somali men are the most liberal men in the Islamic World

The thing is as long as the state interferes with families, even ones brought up in good families become home wreckers.

The West is a cursed place
Yes your right but the risks are far less, good family is irrelevant, it has to be a family were the Father runs the household with an iron fist unopposed (not to be mistaken for a tyrant)

Female's that grow up in those households have submissiveness inculcated in there psyche, they are naturally soft and feminine craving the same type of husband.

They naturally despise the typical weak spineless Farax's, if you want any shot of surviving in the diaspora and going back home is not an option, these are the types of female's you should court.

They are scared of being single mothers unlike our ones that take pride in it with the majority of them being raised in either broken homes or households were the Fathers are rendered toothless.

These are the type of female's predisposed to homewrecking, conflict and destruction.
 

Odkac WRLD

جندي صومال
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So will you marry somali woman that marry non somali and never wanted somali Man is this what you want and let them marry those Man and when they divorse no somali Man should marry them since they never wanted somali Man to begin with
You simp :dwill:
I swear you’ve got to be delayed in some kind of things
 

Odkac WRLD

جندي صومال
VIP
Female's are a reflection of yourself, if the male's in your community are masculine, strong and dominant they will all tow the line and become feminine and submissive, the impact is generational.

If on the other hand the community is mostly composed of the typical liberal dayuuth spineless males we have in abundance in the west, they become the complete opposites as we find them today, and the effects of this is generational too.

It's no wonder why most of our Xaalimo's have become toxic, masculine, loud and crazed home-wrecking machines.

The shift needs to occur on a societal level in order for it to have a lasting effect on the individual level, you can't do this by yourself.

But the Ajanabi male is in a unique position with the Xaalimo, she knows subconsciously he won't take her crap nor would he show her much tolerance, he displays this FRAME to her from the START.

She also knows if she flips out on him as she would do to a regular farax, a heavy beating with divorce awaits her on the other end and her prospect for remarriage with a farax or another ajanabi is very slim, hence she will tow the line and forcefully submit herself despite her hate for it (due to her upbringing by a dayuuth spineless or absent Father)

The daughter that is raised in a house that has a strong present dominant Father figure who runs the household unopposed, will naturally become submissive by nature and crave that same masculine figure in her husband, this has a generational effect.

It becomes a self-fulling prophecy and this is why these ethnic groups have very feminine submissive females that look after themselves unlike ours that are the polar opposites.

When was the last time you met a Xaalimo in the diaspora that grew up in a stable home, with a strong present dominant Father who runs the affairs of the household unopposed???

The only Somali communities that do this are the reer-xamar ones and those that are mixed with Arab Fathers.

Whichever way you look at this, the fundamental problems lies with the masses of males in that community.

This issue is beyond fixing in this generation, even if you happen to be a dominant masculine figure the risks are simply too much (divorce, broken home, loosing access to your children etc)

The only way around this is to either go back home or find the rare Xaalimo's that grew up in the traditional households were the Father was king of that household.
When the mother is head of the household, everything is gonna be sort of fucked up
 

Odkac WRLD

جندي صومال
VIP
Yes that's true, we let xalimos manage and do everything they want, householding, getting a job, taking of the children, and even take of us. this what we call
WOMEN EMPOWERMENT :sass2:
At the same time we need to show some sort of strength sxb
 
For the last time stop acting like a woman waryaa. You aren't one u weirdo.

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nigga I am not a firefighter
VIP
Methinks it’s a lot closer to the truth and I’ve had enough :westbrookwtf:
yk it’s wrong this is a bad attempt at trying to get a plat anyway
secondly there’s no basis for that cause you probably know like three mali girls that you’ve talked to regularly in your whole life
 
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