how dare an ashy abdi talk about whether or not you're perfect, especially in regard to your virginity? His opinions became irrelevant the day he opened his mouth to talk about you.
He is probably a ran through hoe and doesn't even care to begin with, yet he wants to speak on others
It hurts me when girls with hearts of gold make mistakes and then are open about them.
Meanwhile another xalimo will pretend she's the perfect muslimah do 2x the amount of the shit you did and act as if she's better than you.
Islamically you're not even supposed to tell people.
And never lower your standards abayo macaan, make tawba and move on.
It's between you and God.
I can understand you might be more understandable when it comes to non virgin guys but don't limit yourself like that.
Keep up your appearances just like every other xalimo