Somali Girls aint Feeling us, Here's Why.

[Codeine]

Yes, delusional. You're too fixated for your own good, and expressly on the subset of women who don't want you. You're recruiting some weak minds to your poverty of thought in regards to yourself, compelling young boys to say stuff like, "We're low value males'

Nacala, you're actually poison worse than girls who sound off on Twitter.

@Codeine's mindset is un ironically healthier than your road of self-damnation and insecurity.

I'm genuinely intrigued, what's wrong with my mindset? I'm a nice guy I dindu nuffin

edit: @VixR How are you just going to drop a bomb and then cut on me

 

[xisaabiye]

There are some good girls done wrong but it's mostly bad girls doing bad things lol.

Sxb we're both from Toronto, let's be honest. A lot of what is said is fallacies. Wallahi I never met dudes that lie about smashing Somali girls like I did in Toronto. The girls that are about that life are well known. They drink, smoke etc. Many girls are westernised but don't get around. They'll date, and majority just kiss and touch up but nothing serious. Part of the reason they marry out is dudes are full of shit, and rather destroy an innocent girls rep than take an L.

 

[TekNiKo]

Sxb we're both from Toronto, let's be honest. A lot of what is said is fallacies. Wallahi I never met dudes that lie about smashing Somali girls like I did in Toronto. The girls that are about that life are well known. They drink, smoke etc. Many girls are westernised but don't get around. They'll date, and majority just kiss and touch up but nothing serious. Part of the reason they marry out is dudes are full of shit, and rather destroy an innocent girls rep than take an L.

You serious breh? Im from Tdot too, wait until those "good girls" are with their vices in a secure area they will then definitely "tun up"

 

[VixR]

I'm genuinely intrigued, what's wrong with my mindset? I'm a nice guy I dindu nuffin

Nothing, actually. That was my point.

I'm genuinely intrigued, what's wrong with my mindset? I'm a nice guy I dindu nuffin

edit: @VixR How are you just going to drop a bomb and then cut on me

You're one of those ppl who can't take a passing compliment miya

To ppl sounding off about women who like foreigners and coming up with all sorts of self-serving, multi-faceted narratives on why it's so, maybe it's the foreigners they should go for themselves instead of yapping about random girls' relationship choices since they're clearly fixated on foreigners to the point they discredit themselves wholesale, and make lists on why their own kind don't want them. If not, surely there are Somali women who would date them that actually want Somali men ffs. This list only serves as a slap in the face of any Somali women who has dated, is dating, or is married to a Somali man. You're not reaching the ones dating foreigners, you're digging yourself a ditch. Nacala you're so fucking self-destructive, it would almost be funny if it wasn't sad.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Sxb we're both from Toronto, let's be honest. A lot of what is said is fallacies. Wallahi I never met dudes that lie about smashing Somali girls like I did in Toronto. The girls that are about that life are well known. They drink, smoke etc. Many girls are westernised but don't get around. They'll date, and majority just kiss and touch up but nothing serious. Part of the reason they marry out is dudes are full of shit, and rather destroy an innocent girls rep than take an L.

I was replying to @Codeine who asked me specifically about khasaaro girls, as he termed it, who love the bad boy Somali gangsters. I wasn't talking about Somali girls in Canada in general. There a lot of good girls, but there are also a lot who aren't. Same with the boys. Young Somali men and women in the West deserve each other, waa isku mid.

 

[xisaabiye]

You serious breh? Im from Tdot too, wait until those "good girls" are with their vices in a secure area they will then definitely "tun up"

Bruh wallahi I know countless girls that go to clubs in their teens and dated until early 20s but are virgins. The ones that juice and smoke are known. Would you marry a girl that's a virgin, but was kissing and touched up by a guy she dated. I've seen guys turn down decent girls for as little as that . Meanwhile the dudes are whiling out with becky

 

[supz]

Nothing, actually. That was my point.

You're one of those ppl who can't take a passing compliment miya

To ppl sounding off about women who like foreigners and coming up with all sorts of self-serving, multi-faceted narratives on why it's so, maybe it's the foreigners they should go for themselves instead of yapping about random girls' relationship choices since they're clearly fixated on foreignersto the point they discredit themselves wholesale, and make lists on why their own kind don't want them. If not, surely there are women who would date them that actually want Somali men ffs. This list is a slap in the face of any Somali women who has dated, is dating, or is married to a Somali man. Nacala you're so fucking self-destructive, it would almost be funny if it wasn't sad.

Im sorry, but you are being too myopic. The first step to success as a people is too understand and highlight areas of weakness and shortcomings. i don't think that anyones trying to discredit the somali women who are married to somali men. And I'm also certain that most of the guys here are fairly successful in either the workplace or are attending university to better themselves. But, can you with complete certainty believe that somali men are successful as a collective in the west? traditionalism and biology cannot be discredited in the sexual market, it is an established fact. Women tend to be more hypergamous. Whilst miscegenation is not a problem for people like me and you, it is for people like @jugjugwacwac. Whether we like it or not people are judged as a collective, this does not mean that an individual from a certain background may not be able to succeed in life... This is not about self commiseration but more of a reality check.

 

[VixR]

Im sorry, but you are being too myopic. The first step to success as a people is too understand and highlight areas of weakness and shortcomings. i don't think that anyones trying to discredit the somali women who are married to somali men. And I'm also certain that most of the guys here are fairly successful in either the workplace or are attending university to better themselves. But, can you with complete certainty believe that somali men are successful as a collective in the west? traditionalism and biology cannot be discredited in the sexual market, it is an established fact. Women tend to be more hypergamous. Whilst miscegenation is not a problem for people like me and you, it is for people like @jugjugwacwac. Whether we like it or not people are judged as a collective, this does not mean that an individual from a certain background may not be able to succeed in life... This is not about self commiseration but more of a reality check.

I'm sorry, but you're the extremely myopic one who doesn't see the full picture. It fucking does discredit them. No matter how much of a piece of shit loser you see yourself as, the fact of the matter is, you're by and large being vested on. Where is this hypergamy you speak of? Bc what I tend to see is no returns on loyalty for an overwhelming number of women who have stood by Somali men, and have nothing to show for it. Traditionally, we do not value loyalty as a concept, certainly not when it comes to marriage. We value expediency. There are well-known pitfalls that come with being involved with Somali men, and yet many young women take these odds. Should you be worried about your wellbeing and success in the West? Abso-fucking-lutely, I sure do hope so. But, poor you, you can't actually discuss your position without ill-contrived pseudo 'biology' and 'tradition' planting delusional, multi-faceted explain aways for a she's-not-that-into-you, whilst pushing the multitude of women who consider you despite your self-professed shit status under the bus. If I believed in curses, I might believe you're actually cursed.

 

[Codeine]

Nothing, actually. That was my point.

You're one of those ppl who can't take a passing compliment miya

To ppl sounding off about women who like foreigners and coming up with all sorts of self-serving, multi-faceted narratives on why it's so, maybe it's the foreigners they should go for themselves instead of yapping about random girls' relationship choices since they're clearly fixated on foreigners to the point they discredit themselves wholesale, and make lists on why their own kind don't want them. If not, surely there are Somali women who would date them that actually want Somali men ffs. This list only serves as a slap in the face of any Somali women who has dated, is dating, or is married to a Somali man. You're not reaching the ones dating foreigners, you're digging yourself a ditch. Nacala you're so fucking self-destructive, it would almost be funny if it wasn't sad.

I thought you were going to pull the color-struck and self-hater card on me.

I'm sorry, but you're the extremely myopic one who doesn't see the full picture. It fucking does discredit them. No matter how much of a piece of shit loser you see yourself as, the fact of the matter is, you're by and large being vested on. Where is this hypergamy you speak of? Bc what I tend to see is no returns on loyalty for an overwhelming number of women who have stood by Somali men, and have nothing to show for it. Traditionally, we do not value loyalty as a concept, certainly not when it comes to marriage. We value expediency. There are well-known pitfalls that come with being involved with Somali men, and yet many young women take these odds. Should you be worried about your wellbeing and success in the West? Abso-fucking-lutely, I sure do hope so. But, poor you, you can't actually discuss your position without ill-contrived pseudo 'biology' and 'tradition' planting delusional, multi-faceted explain aways for a she's-not-that-into-you, whilst pushing the multitude of women who consider you despite your self-professed shit status under the bus. If I believed in curses, I might believe you're actually cursed.

Do you believe the women are doing significantly better than their male counterparts in our community?

 

[government]

Do you believe the women are doing significantly better than their male counterparts in our community?

The biggest lie we are told is that women are doing better than men which is wrong in every single way the reason why dropout women are less noticed is because they usually marry a man after they dropout while the men either live with their parents or turn into gangs drugs etc

 

[Aziz]

If Somali girls are not feeling you, you have no right whatsoever to speak on our behalf. We can not - sadly for You op - accompany you on this journey of Somali seal drought. Please speak for yourself. A somali girl is flying from another city to see me as I type this now. I refuse to partake in this misery.

 

[Codeine]

The biggest lie we are told is that women are doing better than men which is wrong in every single way the reason why dropout women are less noticed is because they usually marry a man after they dropout while the men either live with their parents or turn into gangs drugs etc

I mean, I do think the women are doing 'better' by shitty metrics people brainlessly regurgitate. Other than that, I think the whole thing is a meme people took too serious. I only asked her because she said:
"There are well-known pitfalls that come with being involved with Somali men, and yet many young women take these odds." As harsh as it sounds, I think they solely opt for this because they are equally as 'bad' as Somali men. I don't think blind loyalty is the driving force at all.

 

[Jujuman]

Somali women are doing better than their male counterparts that's a fact. This fact extends across ethnic groups and includes cadaans, madows etc.

 

[Aziz]

Somali women are doing better than their male counterparts that's a fact. This fact extends across ethnic groups and includes cadaans, madows etc.

And this is worth mentioning because?

 

[government]

Somali women are doing better than their male counterparts that's a fact. This fact extends across ethnic groups and includes cadaans, madows etc.

This is not the case at all men are doing better than women in the fields that matter look at stem and see the ratio of male to female know look at people who have an art major and see the ratio of males to females

 

[Codeine]

Somali women are doing better than their male counterparts that's a fact. This fact extends across ethnic groups and includes cadaans, madows etc.

Define 'better' because I'm 100% sure White men blow the f*ck of White women when it comes to earnings, employment etc. if you mean the likelihood they're enrolled in school, then sure. I can't say we have the same definition of 'better' however.

 

[VixR]

I thought you were going to pull the color-struck and self-hater card on me.




Do you believe the women are doing significantly better than their male counterparts in our community?

No, I don't buy into that self-hater bs. It's just another explain-away line. But I do think your pawg appreciation is made visible on here for a reason ('I-don't-need-you' purposes). Meanwhile, @Siddhartha was royally fucked over by a girl and collective badmouth provides him therapy. There's always something else. Self-hate is one of those ridiculous buzzwords you shouldn't take seriously when ppl hurl it around.

Yes. I really think most Somali parents don't give their boys the tools to succeed.

 

[Ubax45_]

Even if young Somali women have minimal positive impact in western society, we are not doing HARM.
In Canada, 100 Somali men have been murdered since 2005. Any positive thing that Somali men do is overshadowed by that fact.

 

[Ubax45_]

This is not the case at all men are doing better than women in the fields that matter look at stem and see the ratio of male to female know look at people who have an art major and see the ratio of males to females

Somali boys have one of the highest drop-out rates, someone who dropped out in grade 11 is not doing STEM.
Secondly, we tend to live in shitty area's with bad schools, math and science skills need to built upon from a young age and supported by parents, none of which Somali people do.

 

[government]

Somali boys have one of the highest drop-out rates, someone who dropped out in grade 11 is not doing STEM.
Secondly, we tend to live in shitty area's with bad schools, math and science skills need to built upon from a young age and supported by parents, none of which Somali people do.

This is the case in UK and canda but most of somali diaspora in Asia and middle East and Africa have really low dropout rates and Even in the US to a certain extent excluding Minnesota