Somali Girls aint Feeling us, Here's Why.

[Bernie Madoff]

Op it aint that deep. Instead of worrying about xalimos so much just do you man. To be honest stop looking for excuses and look into yourself why you aint pulling any girls dont group me into your shit cause your miserable

Im tired of seeing daily threads about xalimos with ajnabis like who gives a shit you cant worry about there lives get your priorities straight fam.



You MRA like faraaxs are something else

 

[Jujuman]

This is not the case at all men are doing better than women in the fields that matter look at stem and see the ratio of male to female know look at people who have an art major and see the ratio of males to females

The ratio isn't because girls aren't 'capable' in STEM but more so to do with society's view on what's deemed 'masculine' or 'feminine' subjects.

This creates a effect where because many boys enrol in say engineering it'll inevitably dissuade girls from embarking in that field (reverse example is nursing and men) Fortunately however that tide is gradually changing.

PS: You and @Codeine appear to confuse academic performance with intelligence. I am not saying males are 'dumber' than females but I'm merely pointing out that the statistics favour the girls when it comes to academic performance across nearly the whole board. People have suggested many opposing reasons for this observation but to deny it even exists is ridiculous.

 

[government]

The ratio isn't because girls aren't 'capable' in STEM but more so to do with society's view on what's deemed 'masculine' or 'feminine' subjects.

This creates a effect where because many boys enrol in say engineering it'll inevitably dissuade girls from embarking in that field (reverse example is nursing and men) Fortunately however that tide is gradually changing.

PS: You and @Codeine appear to confuse academic performance with intelligence. I am not saying males are 'dumber' than females but I'm merely pointing out that the statistics favour the girls when it comes to academic performance across nearly the whole board. People have suggested many opposing reasons for this observation but to deny it even exists is ridiculous.

The stgima of women working in stem has long died off maybe if you told me that 20 or 15 years ago I would've agreed with you but know where women are actively pushed to having a stem career the male to female ratio doesn't make any sense. Women don't like stem
Even in schools men do better at sciences and maths than women

 

[emptyheartsflow]

Op it aint that deep. Instead of worrying about xalimos so much just do you man. To be honest stop looking for excuses and look into yourself why you aint pulling any girls dont group me into your shit cause your miserable

Im tired of seeing daily threads about xalimos with ajnabis like who gives a shit you cant worry about there lives get your priorities straight fam.



You MRA like faraaxs are something else

The only reason I ever entered these men vs women threads is to balance the insults we get.

Somali girls can go their own way, just leave our reputation alone.

 

[Codeine]

No, I don't buy into that self-hater bs. It's just another explain-away line. But I do think your pawg appreciation is made visible on here for a reason ('I-don't-need-you' purposes). Meanwhile, @Siddhartha was royally fucked over by a girl and collective badmouth provides therapy. There's always something.

Yes. I really think most Somali parents don't give their boys the tools to succeed.

I have to ask, who is raising and equipping these girls with the skills to succeed, unlike their own brother who is a year or two older/younger than them?


More importantly, you actually used the term pawg. Idk why, but it gave me a good laugh for a minute. Do you pronounce it as written, abbreviated or do you say the whole thing? These are the important questions.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

The only reason I ever entered these types of threads is to balance the insults we get.

Somali girls can go their own way, just leave us alone.

I get what you mean but for f*ck sakes man this topic has been beat to death

 

[emptyheartsflow]

I get what you mean but for f*ck sakes man this topic has been beat to death

I'm pretty much done with it. I've ruined enough self-esteems.

 

[Ubax45_]

This is the case in UK and canda but most of somali diaspora in Asia and middle East and Africa have really low dropout rates and Even in the US to a certain extent excluding Minnesota

and those are the places where the problems are.

Secondly, "political science" seems to be a popular career choice amongst young Somali men.

 

[Codeine]

PS: You and @Codeine appear to confuse academic performance with intelligence. I am not saying males are 'dumber' than females but I'm merely pointing out that the statistics favour the girls when it comes to academic performance across nearly the whole board. People have suggested many opposing reasons for this observation but to deny it even exists is ridiculous.

I'm not at all confusing academic performance with intelligence. I wholeheartedly agree with you that girls across the board perform better than guys, perhaps even disproportionately so within our community. That much is objective. What I'm saying is that YOU are confusing academic success with real life success. I'd wager that Somali men with the a degree outperform Somali women with a degree.

 

[VixR]

I have to ask, who is raising and equipping these girls with the skills to succeed, unlike their own brother who is a year or two older/younger than them?


More importantly, you actually used the term pawg. Idk why, but it gave me a good laugh for a minute. Do you pronounce it as written, abbreviated or do you say the whole thing? These are the important questions.

The same set of parents through the oddities of life, though not purposefully.

I think self-esteem and the need for so-called street cred is a problem.

Arab boys have the same gendered upbringing, but I feel like where the Arab teenager will generally drink, shisha, party, and f*ck around, they leave it at that, while the Somali boy will get lulled into more questionable, high-risk 'situations'.

 

[Codeine]

The same set of parents by the oddities of life.

I think self-esteem is a problem.

Arab boys have these same gendered upbringing, but I feel like where the Arab teenager will generally drink, shisha, party, and leave it at that, the Somali boy will get lulled into more questionable, high-risk 'situations'.

Why do you think self-esteem is specifically an issue for the men?

 

[Jujuman]

I'm not at all confusing academic performance with intelligence. I wholeheartedly agree with you that girls across the board perform better than guys, perhaps even disproportionately so within our community. What I'm saying is that YOU are confusing academic success with real life success. I'd wager that Somali men with the a degree outperform Somali women with a degree.

Saaxib I never once mentioned career prospects only academic success. What you're positing is a separate (albeit related) discussion.

 

[emptyheartsflow]

I have to ask, who is raising and equipping these girls with the skills to succeed, unlike their own brother who is a year or two older/younger than them?


More importantly, you actually used the term pawg. Idk why, but it gave me a good laugh for a minute. Do you pronounce it as written, abbreviated or do you say the whole thing? These are the important questions.

Don't argue against this notion that Somali girls automatically do better than boys unless they provide some sources, it's purely anecdotal.

 

[Ubax45_]

The same set of parents through the oddities of life.

I think self-esteem and the need for so-called street cred is a problem.

Arab boys have these same gendered upbringing, but I feel like where the Arab teenager will generally drink, shisha, party, and f*ck around, they leave it at that, while the Somali boy will get lulled into more questionable, high-risk 'situations'.

I think it comes down to standards. Arab boys are expected to be doctors..etc. because that's what others in their cultural peer group are doing.

Now for the Somali mother raising a son in a community full of young Somali men who are drug dealers and criminals, she will be happy if he is alive, living in her basement and making minimum wage. I've seen young Somali men being praised for simply not being involved in criminal activities.

 

[VixR]

Why do you think self-esteem is specifically an issue for the men?

If you instill worth and purpose into your boys, they won't so easily throw away their futures and lives for the esteem of other street boys. And if you don't teach them the value of hard work, irrational 'get rich quick' schemes, usually involving crime, will dominate their mindset.

 

[LUCIFER6]

I get what you mean but for f*ck sakes man this topic has been beat to death

It's gone beyond beaten to death bastard thread keeps resurrecting more then that hard headed mummy called imhotep

 

[VixR]

I think it comes down to standards. Arab boys are expected to be doctors..etc. because that's what others in their cultural peer group are doing.

Now for the Somali mother raising a son in a community full of young Somali men who are drug dealers and criminals, she will be happy if he is alive, living in her basement and making minimum wage. I've seen young Somali men being praised for simply not being involved in criminal activities.

Tbh, I think that's a feat. So what if he's making minimum wage? He's embroiled in a criminal community and he's not taking part. I can almost guarantee you he gets shit daily from the rest of them for being clean.

 

[supz]

I'm sorry, but you're the extremely myopic one who doesn't see the full picture. It fucking does discredit them. No matter how much of a piece of shit loser you see yourself as, the fact of the matter is, you're by and large being vested on. Where is this hypergamy you speak of? Bc what I tend to see is no returns on loyalty for an overwhelming number of women who have stood by Somali men, and have nothing to show for it. Traditionally, we do not value loyalty as a concept, certainly not when it comes to marriage. We value expediency. There are well-known pitfalls that come with being involved with Somali men, and yet many young women take these odds. Should you be worried about your wellbeing and success in the West? Abso-fucking-lutely, I sure do hope so. But, poor you, you can't actually discuss your position without ill-contrived pseudo 'biology' and 'tradition' planting delusional, multi-faceted explain aways for a she's-not-that-into-you, whilst pushing the multitude of women who consider you despite your self-professed shit status under the bus. If I believed in curses, I might believe you're actually cursed.

la xawla, wow. where do i start? first of all, I do not see myself as a "piece of shit loser", how good spirited of you to attack my masculinity.. i'm open to go out with or possibly marry a somali woman, given that we share the same beliefs, in the visceral sense, such as the belief that there is a lack of evidence for the existence of a God, the destructive nature of organised religion and the contempt for fairytales that are so revered even in this day and age. hypergamy is a well observed phenomena in nature. here is an excerpt from the book " sexual Market value by Chris cape town- whereas all men have a great urge to copulate with a great variety of fertile women, women have a a biological drive to seek relations with the highest quality man they possibly can, and to gain exclusive commitment from that man." If frequent observations of this are to be made in nature, then we can reasonably conclude that sexual psychology and sexual selection is at play. It makes sense when you think about it, women can have less children than men due to a limited number of eggs and menopause... I understand that you value empiricism, there is actually some quantitative evidence of this. I completely agree with you on that we value expediency in our culture, just look at the number of somali men who marry and divorce somali women, its staggering. My dad married and divorced three times, and unfortunately this is the norm. There is obviously a deep rift in our community, which has been more than likely been proliferated by men, for not being successful. There is a lot of pressure on us to succeed, and good reason too, its simple biology.

 

[nadia]

even though I can't stand UK somali guys that still won't make me marry a mathow cadaan or carab these somali girls clearly have low self esteem to be marrying a deadbeat ajnabi when they can easily marry somali guys from different countries but forreal it's sad seeing somali girls on twitter bash somali guys to get validation from some any ugly mathow guy eww

 

[DuctTape]

even though I can't stand UK somali guys that still won't make me marry a mathow cadaan or carab these somali girls clearly have low self esteem to be marrying a deadbeat ajnabi when they can easily marry somali guys from different countries but forreal it's sad seeing somali girls on twitter bash somali guys to get validation from some any ugly mathow guy eww

UK Somali guys aren't all bad, I am living proof of that :siilaanyosmile: