Somali brother complains about lack of marriages and 4b movement

[Mudug_gyal]

We definitely don’t. So many of hooyos and ayeeyos were in unfulfilling, abusive marriages because they had little rights, no education, no prospects so they had to rely on a man, because they didn’t know any better.

Engrave that into abdis big forheads

 

[Angelina]

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[Kisame]

My opinion on this is very simple . duula awoowgiin la gub

miskeen niggas been passport bros for over 20 years now. 4b won't matter to them.

 

[reer]

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[Angelina]

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[Lostbox]

Always surprises me to hear men in are community struggling when they is more women looking to settle then men

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Always surprises me to hear men in are community struggling when they is more women looking to settle then men

Actually, the muslim 4b moving is growing slowly but surely. We already are practicing 4b as unmarried muslim women, why settle for less if men dont want to change? We dont want to end up like our mother’s generation sorry sike I ain’t

 

[Three Moons]

Hey @Moon-

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[Moon-]

Hey @Moon-

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nope

 

[Freudiantard]

What’s the 4B movement

 

[Mudug_gyal]

What’s the 4B movement

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[Freudiantard]

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Oh so it’s femcelinimo

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Oh so it’s femcelinimo

Its by choice so its not really incelnemo, voluntary incelnimo if you will

 

[Gojo Satoru]

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I'm under the opinion that 4b is a very needed movement for somali women. Certian male posters here love asserting that we're not as bad as other muslim ethnicities which is true to an extent but in some ways I find that we've gotten the short end of the stick. We have to deal with the pressures of being a muslima but at the same we have to fend for ourselves because of how useless many somali men are. The way some of them are ok with creating broken homes and not providing for their family would be considered extremely shameful for other muslim ethnicities.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

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[Sophisticate]

Tbh theres a disconnect between young me and women. Men want a miskeen bangmaid and women want to be independent equal humans. This is going to become a more highlighted problem as society progresses. Just look at his charge:
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[Mudug_gyal]

The truth in the comedy

 

[Sophisticate]

The truth in the comedy

I heard it from there.

S*x
Silence
Sandwich

Wow, are some people that basic? Anyone who views women through that lens only sees relationships as predicated entirely on service and transactional. Imagine trying to understand someone who is on the lowest rung of Maslow's hierarchy of needs while you're actually trying to be self-actualized. You are on different wavelengths.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

I heard it from there.

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Wow, are some people that basic? Anyone who views women through that lens only sees relationships as predicated entirely on service and transactional. Imagine trying to understand someone who is on the lowest rung of Maslow's hierarchy of needs while you're actually trying to be self-actualized. You are on different wavelengths.

Ive stopped trying btw. It is what it is. You can’t change their minds. Men just see us as objects. Theres a whole proven study on that.

Research shows brains see men as people, women as body parts | Announce | University of Nebraska-Lincoln

newsroom.unl.edu

 

[Sophisticate]

Ive stopped trying btw. It is what it is. You can’t change their minds. Men just see us as objects. Theres a whole proven study on that.

Research shows brains see men as people, women as body parts | Announce | University of Nebraska-Lincoln

newsroom.unl.edu

I want to think they aren't as one-dimensional.