Somali boys in the West are easily drawn to ghetto lifestyles

Somali boys in the West need strong Somali oriented after-school programs to distract them from getting caught up in ghetto lifestyles. Since Somalis are naturally gifted at poetry and comedy, many would excel in programs that would encourage the development of these skills. We also need Somali traditional games and martial arts to be taught. The reason why most Somali girls are less drawn to ghetto lifestyles is because they're socialised to spend more time at home and also, they are drawn to Somali music/dance because of the wedding culture.

Somali boys in the West don't even wear Somali traditional clothes at their own weddings, instead they wear a Khamiis and an Omani hat as if they just flew in from Muscat.

We need NGO's that revive Somali traditional culture or we will see more and more Somali boys sagging their pants and preparing to be someone's girlfriend in prison.

Are there organisations in the West that are involved in this?
 
Somalis are poor. what do you expect? we literally come from a wartorn country. The quality of refugee immigrants are not going to be as successful as other immigrants.

on top of that, there's a poverty cycle.

somali mums come here, settle in their government housing then have 7 kids that they can't take care of. Kids growing up in a shitty environment with no supervision are gonna go bad.

kids end up criminals or baby mamas/baby daddys, then those kids grow up poor then it repeats.
 
Somalis are poor. what do you expect? we literally come from a wartorn country. The quality of refugee immigrants are not going to be as successful as other immigrants.

on top of that, there's a poverty cycle.

somali mums come here, settle in their government housing then have 7 kids that they can't take care of. Kids growing up in a shitty environment with no supervision are gonna go bad.

kids end up criminals or baby mamas/baby daddys, then those kids grow up poor then it repeats.
Why Somali "mums", where are the "dads"?

Yes, I do agree that there needs to be family planning and active CO-parenting or 2 parent households.
 
@babooshke

Yes, it's not easy growing up in overcrowded houses in rough neighborhoods but let's be real, most Somali parents ensure their children get fed, clothes and gain an education, even by sending them to mosque.

Somali boys need to be held accountable for their actions. They choose to seek out this lifestyle or don't know how to say "NO" to criminal activity.
 
It's not just the street lifestyle, too many young Somalis are involved in fraud, I even know those who attend university who are prone to stealing "deets" or whatever they call it.

Tuugonimo is considered normal amongst them.

I have even heard of one thief who got married using those haram funds, he probably doesn't know he doomed his marriage and offspring with this haram money. Haram money is known to create cursed bloodlines.
 

Guardafui

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It's not just the street lifestyle, too many young Somalis are involved in fraud, I even know those who attend university who are prone to stealing "deets" or whatever they call it.

Tuugonimo is considered normal amongst them.

I have even heard of one thief who got married using those haram funds, he probably doesn't know he doomed his marriage and offspring with this haram money. Haram money is known to create cursed bloodlines.
Somalis are easily draw to fraud, stealing and corruption even back home. You’ll see a 30 year old politician with 30 millions dollars building businesses with it and yet he nobody knows how he made this much money. Young and the old are the same. The ones here are in gang related activities and the ones back home are in political activities.
 
@Finesse The solution to your problem is pretty easy to solve. Raise young Somali boys to hate everything that is associated with yardie/African American culture. My Sudanese father taught me from a young age that these people are dangerous and everything associated with their culture is toxic and low IQ.
 
@Finesse

Khamis and the Omani styled hat is a traditional Somali clothing, we just have our own way of wearing it. There’s photos from 100 years that shows us wearing one. This is normal because culture’s borrow from one another and put their own spin to it.

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Somalis are easily draw to fraud, stealing and corruption even back home. You’ll see a 30 year old politician with 30 millions dollars building businesses with it and yet he nobody knows how he made this much money. Young and the old are the same. The ones here are in gang related activities and the ones back home are in political activities.

Good point, there are many Somali thieves back home also, maybe those who steal come from corrupt bloodlines, Allah only knows!!
 

Mercury

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It's not just the street lifestyle, too many young Somalis are involved in fraud, I even know those who attend university who are prone to stealing "deets" or whatever they call it.

Tuugonimo is considered normal amongst them.

I have even heard of one thief who got married using those haram funds, he probably doesn't know he doomed his marriage and offspring with this haram money. Haram money is known to create cursed bloodlines.
There's this one Somali guy making millions from khat back home he got angry when they refused to build a mosque with his haram money
 

Sophisticate

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It has a lot more to do with how you parent your children (rules you set for them), along with the individual temperament of the child. Some people are more attracted to high risk taking behaviour, have less impulse control and gravitate to the fast life more so than others.

Sociopaths or psychopaths constitute more of those in prison than in the general population. Those involved as foot soldiers in the drug trade might have more of these traits as well. If these individuals were more high functioning they might be CEOs of companies. They are also more over-represented in politics. And in more disastrous cases could be scamming poor individuals out of their life savings like Bernie Madoff. Let's not forget the Enron catastrophe of the early 2000s and that Theranos lady in the 2010s.
 
There's this one Somali guy making millions from khat back home he got angry when they refused to build a mosque with his haram money
I have heard of things like this, even civil war criminals who went to Umrah with stolen money. Somalis seem very prone to thievery and other criminal activities.
 
It has a lot more to do with how you parent your children (rules you set for them), along with the individual temperament of the child. Some people are more attracted to high risk taking behaviour, have less impulse control and gravitate to the fast life more so than others.

Sociopaths or psychopaths constitute more of those in prison than in the general population. Those involved as foot soldiers in the drug trade might have more of these traits as well. If these individuals were more high functioning they might be CEOs of companies. They are also more over-represented in politics. And in more disastrous cases could be scamming poor individuals out of their life savings like Bernie Madoff. Let's not forget the Enron catastrophe of the early 2000s and that Theranos lady in the 2010s.

I read sociopathy can be hereditary, I'll never forget the hadith about haram income where the prophet SAW spotted an unruly child and said something along the lines of "his father ate a grape and didn't pay for it".

Imagine, one stolen grape= crazy child.
 
Somali boys in the West need strong Somali oriented after-school programs to distract them from getting caught up in ghetto lifestyles. Since Somalis are naturally gifted at poetry and comedy, many would excel in programs that would encourage the development of these skills. We also need Somali traditional games and martial arts to be taught. The reason why most Somali girls are less drawn to ghetto lifestyles is because they're socialised to spend more time at home and also, they are drawn to Somali music/dance because of the wedding culture.

Somali boys in the West don't even wear Somali traditional clothes at their own weddings, instead they wear a Khamiis and an Omani hat as if they just flew in from Muscat.

We need NGO's that revive Somali traditional culture or we will see more and more Somali boys sagging their pants and preparing to be someone's girlfriend in prison.

Are there organisations in the West that are involved in this?
What about Natural Killer Geeljire mentality
 
Somali boys in the West need strong Somali oriented after-school programs to distract them from getting caught up in ghetto lifestyles. Since Somalis are naturally gifted at poetry and comedy, many would excel in programs that would encourage the development of these skills. We also need Somali traditional games and martial arts to be taught. The reason why most Somali girls are less drawn to ghetto lifestyles is because they're socialised to spend more time at home and also, they are drawn to Somali music/dance because of the wedding culture.

Somali boys in the West don't even wear Somali traditional clothes at their own weddings, instead they wear a Khamiis and an Omani hat as if they just flew in from Muscat.

We need NGO's that revive Somali traditional culture or we will see more and more Somali boys sagging their pants and preparing to be someone's girlfriend in prison.

Are there organisations in the West that are involved in this?

sadly huuno the father is usually absent, and very high divorce rates, even when a Somali female marries a foreigner the divorce rate is very very high just something i noticed
 
What about Natural Killer Geeljire mentality

The Geeljirre mentality is an expansionist, brave mentality. In the West, it should translate into being competitive in the market place, not running around with sagging pants showing booty cheeks and stabbing people. They have copied the homosexual prison culture.
 
sadly huuno the father is usually absent, and very high divorce rates, even when a Somali female marries a foreigner the divorce rate is very very high just something i noticed

True, Somali woman + foreign man is a failure 99% of the time.

Absentee Somali fathers should be condemned because boys can only be lead by MEN, not women!
 
I wouldn’t necessarily categorize and label all Somali men as being drawn into “ghetto lifestyles” that’s a bit of a generalization in my opinion. As a person that lived that ghetto lifestyle and was affiliated with a lot of ghetto Somali guys. I will say the reality is it’s a very small minority of Somali men (mostly teenagers and early adults age 14-23) That are like this. it all depends on your age, where you live and who you associate yourself with.

I’ve lived in Minneapolis, Colombus and San Diego (US). I can’t speak for reer Canada or reer UK but in those cities that I lived in you had a very good amount of sucessfull somali men (business owners, teachers, college graduates, very educated men, very cultured etc (ages 20’s-30’s) And then you had the average faarax’s (taxi driver, security guards, retail workers, students, people who are trying to better their life’s) (from teenagers age 16-30s) and then you have a very very small minority of Somali men/youth that are Gang Bangers, lowlifes, drug dealers (ages 14-20’s) when it comes to Somali men theirs a very complex diverse blend when it comes to lifestyles but I would say their is more good somali men then bad somali guys.
 

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