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So, I had more suitors when I was struggling with depression and broke.
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Lets get started. You have to provide a bit of detail for us to understand the situation better.
- Age?
- Occupation?
- Salary
- Weight? In KG
- Height In CM
- Children?
- Looks(1-10) (you cant pick 7)
- Religious status
- Political beliefs
Let's just keep it real. Men being intimidated by hot women is not a thing. To any dude here who doesn't believe me, next time you have a hookup peek at her phone and you will be absolutely destroyed mentally by what you find. The average man has no shame and the inhibition of a chimpanzee with standards to match.
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Why you use an ancestor of misogynists
Abayo, i am trying to listen and help but you need to provide some information on the scenario
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Interesting. Are you suggesting that these men might not find me physically attractive? I believe our brain are our biggest sexual organ. They are clearly physically attracted to me because they keep coming back but are hesitant because miss naag nol might not make a "good" wifey imo
It's either that or there are just very few avenues for potential prospects to contact you and your own standards for men. We also have to consider that the standard for a man to sleep with a woman is usually a bit lower than his standard to be with her in a relationship, but men having low standards is pretty much a constant throughout history and the present day.
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Anyone else got a feeling that the proposals during her unstability may have been predatory?
@Hodan from HR now that you' ve leveled up raise your standards
@Hodan from HR now that you' ve leveled up raise your standards
I agree. One of the reasons I was hesitant about getting married when I was at my lowest is because it would have set a tone of me being a clueless innocent damsel who needs to be saved from the big bad world.
I'm grateful to these men for the kindness they showed me, made me feel wanted at time I was finding hard to get out of bed. But I am ambitious and usually very capable being on my own, alhamdillah
I try not to give too much info on my physical appearance but if I must say
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You sound cute i don't understand how you could have problems. Are you obnoxious or a bit too masculine. Men tend to back off when they see those traits.
Odious Delirium
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What are you looking for in a man? I'm asumming that has changed since your transformation. You seem self sufficient. alot of guys may feel that you give off the energy that you don't need them maybe based off your gained confidence or what you may have told them about yourself.
That could be the deterrent. they may feel that they would be purposeless to you. Then again it also depends on the kind of guys your dealing with. You probably had more guys in your depressed state because they felt they could fill the void and have a purpose in your life were you could rely on them but now you rely on yourself so most guys if they can't add to your life or you don't let them add to your life may lose interest or not even approach you in the first place. Since your not broke any more most will also assume you want a guy on your level and up so they might not even approach in the first place or they might jump to the self sufficient conclusions.
I would say act like a damsel in distress if you want results don't disclose how much you make and let them take care of you
That could be the deterrent. they may feel that they would be purposeless to you. Then again it also depends on the kind of guys your dealing with. You probably had more guys in your depressed state because they felt they could fill the void and have a purpose in your life were you could rely on them but now you rely on yourself so most guys if they can't add to your life or you don't let them add to your life may lose interest or not even approach you in the first place. Since your not broke any more most will also assume you want a guy on your level and up so they might not even approach in the first place or they might jump to the self sufficient conclusions.
I would say act like a damsel in distress if you want results don't disclose how much you make and let them take care of you
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Alhamdulillah you got through that rough period in your life. I see a lot of successful women that struggle to find a suitable partner. Maybe it's because men like to be more successful than their women or maybe it's because you are not seen anymore because of you have your life together now and have a job.
Have you tried actively seeking marriage or are you doing it passively? I'm talking marriage apps and matrimonial services.
(Although i heard the mosque services are made up of 90% south asians
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Have you tried actively seeking marriage or are you doing it passively? I'm talking marriage apps and matrimonial services.
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Bless you, Hodan. I'm glad you feel better and stronger now. I always look forward to your tales.
I do not know if this is the case for you, but sometimes we say we are marriage ready but send out subconscious signals that we are hesitant or somewhat unavailable.
The COVID era was a nice time if you wanted to get married. Everyone was trying to hit you up, and proposals were coming out of the woodwork (even good ones).
Perhaps some of these foul-weather prospects who helped during trying times fled when the conditions improved because they fulfilled their mission or preferred that vulnerable feminine energy.
Meanwhile, these men accosting you now may be under the impression that you don't quite need them or may not even be able to fulfil your demands, but they may wish to eat up your time or like your conversation.
I do not know if this is the case for you, but sometimes we say we are marriage ready but send out subconscious signals that we are hesitant or somewhat unavailable.
The COVID era was a nice time if you wanted to get married. Everyone was trying to hit you up, and proposals were coming out of the woodwork (even good ones).
Perhaps some of these foul-weather prospects who helped during trying times fled when the conditions improved because they fulfilled their mission or preferred that vulnerable feminine energy.
Meanwhile, these men accosting you now may be under the impression that you don't quite need them or may not even be able to fulfil your demands, but they may wish to eat up your time or like your conversation.
Yaraye
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You probably not talking to the right guys who are serious and not just using you to boost their ego. Also try not to just limit ur self with Somali guys.
Calaami
Garaadka Guud ee Beesha Calaamka
You’ve leveled up and they’re insecure about it. They can’t see past a xalimo potentially having more qualifications than them to realize what a good mother of their kids you could make.
Allow me to quote the African-American rapper 2Pac…
I say the better read a xalimo, the deeper the roots,
I give a holla to xalimo on a 9-5,
Calaami cares if don’t nobody else care,
And uh, I know Bashir likes to beat you down a lot
,When you come around Karmel, Mahad clowns a lot,
Forgive but don’t forget Xalimo, keep your head up,
And when Jamaac tells you you ain’t nothin’, don’t believe him,
And if Aadan can’t learn to love you, you should leave him,
Cause Hodan you don’t need them,
I just call it how I see ‘em
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