Maybe,let me make it to 50 first God willing.
So I am 32 years woman old pushing 33 soon.
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Do you think a lot that panic is due to social pressure? This will make her resent her husband if she only married him sue to pressure she could resent her children too because this.That's interesting. We're always hearing women "panic" once they reach their 30s and are more open to "settling"
I remember coming across someone comparing it to musical chairs; the music stops in your 30s and you hurriedly sit on the nearest chair!
It seems too many people were speaking for single ladies in their 30s. Whilst I believe in encouraging marriage I'm against pressuring people into it and "settling". Keep to your standards, make lot's of du'aa and pray Istikhaarah
Gladiolus
Somali, is a race
Good for you Ma Sha Allah, marriage will happen on Allahs prescribed time, in the mean time enjoy the life Allah blessed you. I know one Somali woman who followed her heart and decided to enjoy her life fully while she worked to get a degree and after achieving her goals found a husband well into her 40s. They may not have kids but they are happy together and enjoying life. Her husband is Somali if you are wondering.
To each their own honestly. I think before 35 is probably the best time to get married if you want children, as it gets harder to conceive 40+.
Personally, I’d love to get married before 25. I’d like to find a life-long companion early on, get to have fun with them, travel and have kids in my late 20s/early 30s.
Personally, I’d love to get married before 25. I’d like to find a life-long companion early on, get to have fun with them, travel and have kids in my late 20s/early 30s.
bidenkulaha
GalYare
Good luck.
I particularly value the time before kids. I want to enjoy my time inshallah with just my spouse.
Having no pressure to get kids early on is also very important in case things don’t plan out. Would suck to have a kid within a year only to find your relationship isn’t sustainable
3LetterzMM
LG gang we gon slide for my nigga 🤐🥷
It’s not a certain age but you’ll know it when ur sex drive rapidly kicks upWhen am I supposed to feel desperate for husband? Lolwhen does it suppose to kick in? The older i get the more I enjoy my freedom
Except I am 32 by that logic something must be really wrong with it
hey too bad y’all can’t find out unless I allow it.
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It is. Like it or not.
Sad is the one being admired and sad is the one admiring.
Why does either party have to be sad?
Alx, for my genetic predisposition toward optimism. You should get your misanthropic self, checked for that.
Why should I get checked for that?
Both are desperate for atttention
You read too into it. Most of what I say on here is in jest.
What's wrong with attention? What makes you think either party is desperate for it?Judging from our few interactions, you don't seem very optimistic.
You say it in jest yet you constantly talk about it, seems like somewhere deep inside of you you would feel validated if that actually was the case. Needing attention is depressing mindset, one should free themselves from the desire for attention so they can have peace of mineYou read too into it. Most of what I say on here is in jest.
I would call myself a realist and an optimist,
people mistake my lack of false hope and sense of security for being pessimistic
No. That's what you think.
Deep inside?
So you can read people's internal states. If your goal is to take a dig at me, kid, it won't work. But since it's getting on your nerves, I will be more hyperbolic and over the top next time. 
If it means you're bothered by it. I'd consider it a pleasure to annoy you and serve as a nice little foil to this austere persona you've crafted.Everyone needs some attention and if you would also like me to read you 'imprecisely' as you have me with your mischaracterization(s), say the word, and I will gladly craft a distorted tale of you.
You're more pessimistic, but perhaps that trait could help you survive in the wilderness.
"Seems"
