So guys I was wondering: How long do Somali marriages last?

[Sophisticate]

That would be @sophisticate nightmare. I personally dont think divorce is the worst thing in the world some people just dont work out.

There is zero incentive for me to marry if divorce is the outcome.I'd rather stay forever chaste and single.

 

[Sophisticate]

Where did all this animosity come from, I thought we was walaals

I understand, the youth wants to protect his adoptive hoyo @sophisticate and stay close , I'm not gonna try to push you away, you don't have to call me abo, you can call me abti

Are you afraid of open competition? Laissez-faire free market style in preference for a self-denying communist dictatorship? Is that why @Odkac WRLD intimidates you?

 

[Odkac WRLD]

Are you afraid of open competition? Laissez-faire free market style in preference for a self-denying communist dictatorship? Is that why @Odkac WRLD intimidates you?

I am a lion of a man.
Sometimes I look in the mirror and get intimidated.

 

[Marsh]

There is zero incentive for me to marry if divorce is the outcome.I'd rather stay forever chaste and single.

It is always a possibility unless people are content with unhappiness.

 

[Marcus]

The women on this forum have a certain charm. Even if I resist, I can't help but become fond of them.

 

[Marsh]

The women on this forum have a certain charm. Even if I resist, I can't help but become fond of them.

How popular is football in Europe?

 

[Sophisticate]

I am a lion of a man.
Sometimes I look in the mirror and get intimidated.

So you see something else in your reflection. Interesting.

It is always a possibility unless people are content with unhappiness.

Thats why you marry someone kind, agreeable, compromising, respectful, responsible, emotionally balanced, mature, faithful and financially stable with no pre-existing addictions, personality disorders nor a history of abuse. Who also doesn't rely on a spouse as a sole reservoir of happiness.

 

[Marcus]

How popular is football in Europe?

Not very. It's a fringe sports, me and a couple of my mates watch it though. And there's games in London.

 

[Marsh]

So you see something else in your reflection. Interesting.



Thats why you marry someone kind, agreeable, compromising, respectful, responsible, emotionally balanced, mature, faithful and financially stable with no pre-existing addictions, personality disorders nor a history of abuse. Who also doesn't rely on a spouse as a sole reservoir of happiness.

Though I dont believe that and think peoples goals and ambitions can change and make two people incompatible later in life I wish you the best of luck.

 

[Sophisticate]

Though I dont believe that and think peoples goals and ambitions can change and make two people incompatible later in life I wish you the best of luck.

And why is that a strong enough impetus for divorce. FYI I'm in my 30s. I highly doubt there will be a seismic shift in my goals/ambitions later in life that will be great enough to create an impass that cannot be bridged.

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[Cartman]

Waryadha who even gets married legally? Most Somalis get married religiously only.

 

[Marsh]

And why is that a strong enough impetus for divorce. FYI I'm in my 30s. I highly doubt there will be a seismic shift in my goals/ambitions later in life that will be great enough to create an impass that cannot be rectified. I'm also highly emotional independent. If he wants to pursue a business opportunity or have a career change then he can go for it. I don't believe in stunting someone's growth but I'm not divorcing them for something like that. Quelling individuality or trying to mold someone is something I don't do. I myself am hard to tie down and love to be free to explore my intellectual musings so why wouldn't I allow someone else to do the same. I'm also not one to bottle up how I feel unless what I have to say is emotionally injurious to the other party.

Seems like you got everything figured out and wont ever divorce but you are the exception.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

As I working on my assignment and saw how you maggots were baited by a xalimoid baruur monster. I was thinking to myself.

Since divorces are high not only in the Somali
but also other Muslim communities.
I was wondering. What is the average amount of years Somali couples stay married.

That's not true. Divorce rates are highest in the West at 50%. They're tied to religiousness.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

As I working on my assignment and saw how you maggots were baited by a xalimoid baruur monster. I was thinking to myself.

Since divorces are high not only in the Somali
but also other Muslim communities.
I was wondering. What is the average amount of years Somali couples stay married.

And where'd you hear it was high? I think it's high everywhere tbh.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Seems like you got everything figured out and wont ever divorce but you are the exception.

Why does she sound like an attorney???

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Why does she sound like an attorney???

@Furioso what was that prayer reaction for? Aren't you an atheist? I don't think you can pray.

 

[Furioso]

@Furioso what was that prayer reaction for? Aren't you an atheist? I don't think you can pray.

Just sending good wishes your way neef. You’ve been posting nonstop today

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Just sending good wishes your way neef. You’ve been posting nonstop today

Why the insult? You can't pray either. And I'll do whatever I want neef.

 

[psyche]

Somali marriages last long enough to pop out 10 kids that's all I know

 

[Sophisticate]

Seems like you got everything figured out and wont ever divorce but you are the exception.

I don't have everything figured out. There is so much more to learn.