Sister might be marrying madhibaan

[FabulousNYC]

When is the wedding

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?

What the hell is wrong with you boy!

You should care

although me and you have something in common, in the fact that we ain’t qabiilist. We don’t look down upon Madhibans but the fact of the matter rwmains, Somalis will give your sister and her future kids a living hell. She’ll live a miserable life. People will talk behind her back. Why take upon that burden. She is out of her cotdham mind. Do something waryaa

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

`You guys need to have a word with your dad and not cuddle around his ignorance. This is the problem with somalis, we dont like to call out our elderly even when they are completely wrong. If he is a good man god fearing man who can take of your sister he needs to accept it

look, someone can be open minded parent but might want to shield their child from a certain life of regret and misery.

I’m a dad, for the love I have for my child I don’t want them to suffer. Our people won’t change in the next 80 years. I know what’s in store for that child if they marry a Madhiban. Not gonna happen under my watch.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

What the hell is wrong with you boy!

You should care

although me and you have something in common, in the fact that we ain’t qabiilist. We don’t look down upon Madhibans but the fact of the matter rwmains, Somalis will give your sister and her future kids a living hell. She’ll live a miserable life. People will talk behind her back. Why take upon that burden. She is out of her cotdham mind. Do something waryaa

She lives in the west her friends and her siblings and mother don’t care who else matters except her father ? The guy she wants to marry is extremely well known and liked here in the Somali community so her life will be fine in America

 

[Grigori Rasputin]

She lives in the west her friends and her siblings and mother don’t care who else matters except her father ? The guy she wants to marry is extremely well known and liked here in the Somali community so her life will be fine in America

That’s the look of it from the surface. Best believe that it don’t matter that she lives in the West. We are very much interconnected. The pain starts from one’s own relatives. Your sister will hear the gossip. That will get to her psych. Then when the kids are growing up she’ll experience painful things. Then when they come of age they will be restricted and hurt badly. There will be rejections. There will be over talking. There will be cuqdad.

 

[GoldmanSachs]

Sounds made up. Good troll. Maybe in 07 on a certain website this would be a scandal, but now?

 

[Dima&Damo]

Madhiban Are Good Peoples Certain People Still Have The Same Mindset As Their Great Grandparents SAD

 

[Macalin dheerow]

That’s the look of it from the surface. Best believe that it don’t matter that she lives in the West. We are very much interconnected. The pain starts from one’s own relatives. Your sister will hear the gossip. That will get to her psych. Then when the kids are growing up she’ll experience painful things. Then when they come of age they will be restricted and hurt badly. There will be rejections. There will be over talking. There will be cuqdad.

The harm will be minimal, you are over exaggerating. The father must change his mind for the sake of Allah. I recommend talking how wrong discrimination is in Islam. As a god fearing man, he must stop. Extended family will come to terms with the marriage.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Sounds made up. Good troll. Maybe in 07 on a certain website this would be a scandal, but now?

Idk bro I don’t think this a troll thread abit tad dramatic. I mean they said they gonna wait to tell till January and gonna have the wedding in the summer? It’s best they tell their abo about the whole thing so the sister has more time to get over this man

 

[diana amna]

Madhibaan are hawiyee so i don't get the problems

 

[Sheikh Google]

i never knew it was this bad. i knew eating with the madhibaan was seen as bad thing but never knew it still goes on

Wait are you madhibaan? I'm sorry son I'm gonna have to disown you.

 

[Jaydaan]

look, someone can be open minded parent but might want to shield their child from a certain life of regret and misery.

I’m a dad, for the love I have for my child I don’t want them to suffer. Our people won’t change in the next 80 years. I know what’s in store for that child if they marry a Madhiban. Not gonna happen under my watch.

regret and misery? fvck that nonsense.....you wont even know my wifes qabil and Somalis understand the power of the fist/gun. You talk about my wife I bring violence to you. Its funny how invested you are in qabil, it takes over whats right or wrong. Like how you defended your cousin who was spreading sextape of that eedo.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Idk bro I don’t think this a troll thread abit tad dramatic. I mean they said they gonna wait to tell till January and gonna have the wedding in the summer? It’s best they tell their abo about the whole thing so the sister has more time to get over this man

You think she should dead it ?

 

[Bernie Madoff]

You think she should dead it ?

It’s either she respects ur dad’s decision or not and that’s if he says no of course y’all just gotta ask him and be honest bro

 

[akaA2]

Man we need to stop this primitive discrimination on madhiban. @Geeljire lotus they have more sharaaf than the so called noble clans. Really stupid.

Do they have more sharaf than harti?

 

[exposedmeat]

Do they have more sharaf than harti?

they're more landheere than some qabil do u know their history plus why involve qabil into this just respect them simple

 

[Maxaa kaa galay]

They are pure Somalis, we share everything with eachother. If your sisters isnt allowed to marry one of our brothers, tell her to tell dad, that if she isnt allowed to marry him then she will bring Babatunde or Derek.

 

[akaA2]

You think she should dead it ?

Bruh, if ur parents are cool with it then aight.
If they arent she should dead it. Seriously.

 

[akaA2]

they're more landheere than some qabil do u know their history plus why involve qabil into this just respect them simple

Tell me the qabils theyre more landheere than?
Im waiting.

 

[akaA2]

regret and misery? fvck that nonsense.....you wont even know my wifes qabil and Somalis understand the power of the fist/gun. You talk about my wife I bring violence to you. Its funny how invested you are in qabil, it takes over whats right or wrong. Like how you defended your cousin who was spreading sextape of that eedo.

U gonna take a gun coz somebody talked shit abt ur wife? ii wad sheekada.