TekNiKo
Loyal To The One True Caliph (Hafidahullah)
I think your father is thinking of his legacy he will be riducled
Sister might be marrying madhibaan
- Thread starter Geeljire lotus
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By who? The old men in the cafeteria?
Geeljire lotus
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It is common behavior regarding with madhibaan unfortunately but I agree I do think he’s putting an archaic culture before my sisters happiness. I think she will resent him deeply after this
Istaqfurullah worst advice eveeeeer
Bro you would think after 30 years of civil war Somalis would realise we all useless. Ain’t no different between these qabil. We are only above the gypsies as people
expand on this please
Those that came from educated middle-class families prior to the civil war are less likely to be prejudiced against the madhibaan.
Especially those in the kacaan government as the deputy leader was madhibaan.
are you calling @Geeljire lotus dad uneducated
btw I dont think I even know a madhiban in real life. But you would think people would be cool with them based on their name ma diban
are you calling @Geeljire lotus dad uneducated
No, I'm not saying his dad is.
I am saying his grandfather was probably nomadic (reer baadiye) or not come across madhibaan.
His awoowe probably passed the prejudice to his father who probably did not come across much madhibaan.
I have met a tiny amount of madhibaan back home as I am from Mudug which has a solid Madhibaan community.
Unislamic behaviour, what your father is doing is haram, no ifs or buts. He knows this too but unfortunately qabyaalad is strong with him.
Your sister lives in the west, where huge amount of kids are hooyo mataalos and don’t know shit about qabiil. Only thing he is thinking about is how other older members from his qabiil will think of him. Sad.
Tell your father that its this somali man or your sister is going to end up with an ajanabi. He gotta wake up and accept it
Your sister lives in the west, where huge amount of kids are hooyo mataalos and don’t know shit about qabiil. Only thing he is thinking about is how other older members from his qabiil will think of him. Sad.
Tell your father that its this somali man or your sister is going to end up with an ajanabi. He gotta wake up and accept it
It ain’t unislamic behaviour, the father is allowed to reject the man for his lineage. This ain’t qabyaalad. A father rejecting an isaaq man for marriage to his hawiye daughter would be wrong but not this. They are despised people back home and looked down upon. Why would a father want his grandchildren to suffer the same fate? He’s protecting his daughters interest.
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It is fitnah to refuse a suitor of good character and religiousity that is requested by the daughter.
In fact, it is argued by Muhammad al-Uthmayeen (AUN) that the father loses guardianship if he rejects the suitor and the responsibility will be passed on to the next male relative.
"“If there comes to you one with whose religious commitment and character you are pleased, then marry your daughter to him, for if you do not do that, there will be fitnah on earth and widespread corruption.”"
source: al-Tirmidhi, hadith hasan.
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I have seen with my own eyes somali fathers in the west deny somali men their daughter and have anyone but that qabil. Not about this fathers, but the ones I seen would prefer ajnabi of any kind to their rival qabil
Why are they despised back home? You are forgetting Somalia is p4p the most uneducated country on earth and to take your way of life from those people make no sense. Let me guess 300 years ago one of their guys ate raw meat?
They have more noble lineage then these so called ”noble” clans. Its pure jaahil behaviour to look down on people who practise a different lifestyle that is halal. They haven’t done nothing wrong. Go debate this with a scholar and see how you will leave ashamed.
No hate to OP, as his dad is a product of his generation and probably had this prejudice passed down to him.
But those of you in this thread trying to justify this archaic behaviour as Somalis raised in diaspora, are disgusting wallahi.
These people are really showing their lack of class, chauvinism and their lack of basic civility.
Three Cs cos they’re cansuuri KKK.
