Sister might be marrying madhibaan

[Psychologist]

I’d prefer my sister to marry a black revert that came from prison over a doctor madhiban, that’s less shameful at least. At least with him, his past sins were wiped away and he could have changed for the better.

what happened between you and madhibaan? sounds like a personally story or some similar like that. We are here to listen.

 

[Calaf]

a lot of undercover madhibans on sspot

So?
They Somali= They Muslim = They Good

 

[Psychologist]

So I decided to ask my mom about this and I said what would you do if I married a Madhibaan guy and she said “SubhanAllah samada way furantahay” she said don’t bring no madhibaan guy home cause I’d be the outcast of the family and no one will talk to me again or include our kids in anything. I was so shocked. Also she said one lady, her son married a madhibaan woman and she refused to meet her own grandchildren for that reason only.

i never knew it was this bad. i knew eating with the madhibaan was seen as bad thing but never knew it still goes on

 

[Unicorn]

Those saying madhibaans have a bad lineage and can’t be married to ”noble somalis” I ask you what has made your clans lineage noble and theirs not?

In fact, the ”noble” clans are commicting acts against Islam, where they are oppressing fellow muslim subhanallah. The major clans will answer in Judgment day for their crimes against madhibaans.

you know my mother told me that when tribes went to war if they won they would steal the women and marry them. i think the only reason people talk shit about madhiban is because they are a small tribe

 

[Unicorn]

Well hope this stuff ends. How did this discrimination of Madhibaan even start?

they always talk about someone eating raw meat but i think its.bullshit i think the real reason is that they are a small tribe so they probably lost a lot of clan wars so they look down on them

 

[Leila]

When I hear about people discriminating against Madhibaans I think about a documentary I watched a few years ago about child witches in west Africa . The whole thing is just absurd and ridiculous.

 

[mr steal your naag]

I’d prefer my sister to marry a black revert that came from prison over a doctor madhiban, that’s less shameful at least. At least with him, his past sins were wiped away and he could have changed for the better.

Lol you must be one fat ass xalimo. Otherwise you would not talk like that even prison revert dont want you they upgraded to arab women

 

[Leila]

I’d prefer my sister to marry a black revert that came from prison over a doctor madhiban, that’s less shameful at least. At least with him, his past sins were wiped away and he could have changed for the better.

This mentality is why Somalia is a hell hole .If you don’t want to marry a Madhibaan, fine. But why do you have to denigrate a whole clan like that .

 

[Basra]

My sister might be getting married soon to a madibaan and I personally don’t have anything against and my mom knows about it but my dad will freak out when he finds out. It makes me kinda sad because it’s supposed to be a joyous time and event but I feel like it’s gonna be overshadowed by qabil. Any advice people or insight ?

Why does it have to be announced? Just tell your sister her husband needs to claim Mj. Problem fixed.

 

[Basra]

Because of an old myth. Hawiye had two sons. They ate dead meat/pig to survive a journey. Once they returned one of them threw up and never ate it again. The other didn’t and continued to.

I’ve heard this from many people from different backgrounds. They all accuse Madhibaans of having an unislamic heritage

So Madhibaan is the tuff Hawiye son who never vomited and he gets stigmatized? That scuks.


Poor Hawiye-- they are maligned whether they are madhibaan or not. Darood tribes are toxic

 

[Netflix]

So Madhibaan is the tuff Hawiye son who never vomited and he gets stigmatized? That scuks.


Poor Hawiye-- they are maligned whether they are madhibaan or not. Darood tribes are toxic

If this is true why don’t madhibaan call reer unakaleh to karbaash the isaaq who discriminate against them.

 

[Basra]

If this is true why don’t madhibaan call reer unakaleh to karbaash the isaaq who discriminate against them.

Great point

 

[Farahslayer]

The discrimination against Madhibaans isn't even racism nor classism. It is some weird ancient superstition.

Imagine English people having this mysterious underclass that has lived with them in Britain for millennia and looks exactly like them, yet they still hate them. Lmao. It would be weird af.

The only culture that has this besides Horners are the Japanese with the Burakumin.

Somali culture is literally insanity. The funny thing Somali people will swear up and down that they actually do look different (more beautiful) but can’t spot them out. Makes perfect sense. :/

Imagine the hundreds and thousands of hours poured into clan superstition and memorization. Imagine if Somalis had focused on technology, medicine, social sciences etc…. It’s honestly incredibly sad tbh

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Damn so someone brought up marrying madibaan to my dad as a joke to see he’s reaction and that man got scary angry this is not looking good for my sister.

 

[Never Broke Again]

Damn so someone brought up marrying madibaan to my dad as a joke to see he’s reaction and that man got scary angry this is not looking good for my sister.

Tell your dad to get off his high horse with all due respect since we are all equal in the eyes of Allah and this qabil bullshit is not gonna matter when you die.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Tell your dad to get off his high horse with all due respect since we are all equal in the eyes of Allah and this qabil bullshit is not gonna matter when you die.

The way I see it someone’s gonna have to make a sacrifice. My dad will have to sacrifice his pride or my sister will have to sacrifice relationship. Honestly I hope my father will sacrifice his pride for the sake of his daughters happiness

 

[Boqorada]

Just rip the bandage off and tell him. Madhibaan are beautiful, hard working, very religious, smart, kind people with a lot of honour. The guy might be a blessing to your family and might open your dads eyes on the ignorant prejudices he holds.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Just rip the bandage off and tell him. Madhibaan are beautiful, hard working, very religious, smart, kind people with a lot of honour. The guy might be a blessing to your family and might open your dads eyes on the ignorant prejudices he holds.

She wants to have her wedding next summer we’re planning on telling him in January

 

[Psychologist]

She wants to have her wedding next summer we’re planning on telling him in January

I DONT KNOW MAN, Good luck to her though. if he is really religious or believe in god i would say to use this hadith against him.

Abu Nadrah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said in the final days of the pilgimrage: "O people, your Lord is one and your father Adam is one. There is no favor of an Arab over a foreigner, nor a foreigner over an Arab, and neither white skin over black skin, nor black skin over white skin, except by righteousness. Have I not delivered the message?"
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Arna’ut
Musnad Ahmad 22978


Narrated Abu Hurairah: that the Prophet (ﷺ) said: "People should stop boasting about their fathers who have died, while they are but coals of Hell, or they will be more humiliated with Allah than the dung beetle who rolls dung with his nose. Indeed Allah removed Jahiliyyah from you, and its boasting about lineage. [Indeed a person is either] a pious believer, or a miserable sinner. And people are all the children of Adam, and Adam was [created] from dust."
Grade: Hasan (Darussalam)
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 6:46:3955


Good Luck

 

[Jaydaan]

`You guys need to have a word with your dad and not cuddle around his ignorance. This is the problem with somalis, we dont like to call out our elderly even when they are completely wrong. If he is a good man god fearing man who can take of your sister he needs to accept it