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If the qur’aan, hadith and scholars from all 4 madhab are salafis (including the most prominent shafi’is like nawawi and shirbiini) then so be it. Don’t inject nonsense in this thread. Make your own.
For a man to shake hands with a non-mahram woman (one to whom he is not related) is haraam and is not permitted at all. Among the evidence for this is the hadeeth of Ma’qal ibn Yassaar (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: “The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘If one of you were to be struck in the head with an iron needle, it would be better for him than if he were to touch a woman he is not allowed to.”
That is true but how old is too old? What if the old lady is a gymoholic GILF thats 60 but looks 45 what about then?
(Reported by al-Tabaraani; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 5045).
There is no doubt that for a man to touch a non-mahram woman is one of the causes of fitnah (turmoil, temptation), provocation of desire and committing haraam deeds. No one should say that their intention is sound or their heart is clean, because the one who was the purest of heart and the most chaste of all, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) never touched a non-mahram woman, even when accepting bay’ah (oath of allegiance) from women. He did not hold their hands when accepting their bay’ah, as he did with men; their bay’ah was by words only, as was reported by his wife ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). She said that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would test the believing women who emigrated to him with the aayah (interpretation of the meaning): “O Prophet! When believeing women come to you to give you the bay’ah (pledge), that they will not associate anything in worship with Allaah, that they will not steal, that they will not commit illegal sexual intercourse, that they will not kill their children, that they will not utter slander, intentionally forging falsehood (i.e., by making illegal children belong to their husbands), and that thye will not disobey you in any ma’ruf (Islamic monotheism and all that which Islam ordains), then accept their bay’ah and ask Allaah to forgive them. Verily Allaah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [al-Mumtahinah 60:12] ‘Aa’ishah said: “So whoever of the believing women agreed to these conditions, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) would say to her: ‘I have accepted your bay’ah by words.’ By Allaah, his hand never touched the hand of any woman when accepting their bay’ah; he accepted their bay’ah by saying ‘I have accepted your bay’ah on this basis.’”
My dad is sufi.
Most sufis are full blown bidca tho. They ask favors from sh jaylaani sh abdikaadir. That's shirk.
Many here criticise Al Shabab but follow their salafi wahhabist ideology imported from saudi arabia. You’re cut from the same cloth.
That’s not tawassul tho. Asking favours from dead people is an outward expression of shirk. Tawassul through the prophets and awliya is perfectly permissible. When you do tawassul your only using the status and good deeds of that person (regardless if he’s dead or alive) for example if one says “oh Allah I ask you through the status of shaykh Abdul qadir jilani...” then that’s permissible but if one say “oh Abdul qadir jilani please help” then that’s an outward expression of shirk. What I mean by outward expression of shirk is that it looks like shirk but if someone’s intention was to do tawassul then it’s a major sin but not shirk but if he did it with the he intent that the dead person can help him then that’s shirk. As for going to the grave and asking for them to make dua for you then there’s a difference of opinion based on the issue of whether the dead can hear. Most scholars believe the dead can hear (including abdullah ibn umar ra) while some didn’t (including ayshah ra) but it’s a fiqhi issue not aqeedah.Not shirk at all its called tawwasul read up on it it’s even promoted dont follow wahhabi takfiris lies and brainwashing
Ugaas my dad is straight up dhagaxbuurian. He lived in mogadisho most of his life tho.what are yuo talking about your dad is sufi? agah, when did OG becoem sufis? is your dad reer waamo from jubaland or galti from the blessed mother land?
did yuo father grow up in mudug/galgaduud/hiraan where sufis are found?
i assumed only hawiye and marehn fromc enral somali were sufi, i have never met an OG sufi, did he learn this in the west?
this is strange to our race, we do not know this, we Pratice pure islam, where did he go wrong?
is he a lifestyle suif or grave worshiping sufi? sorry ugaas, i dont mean to get you upset, does he have reer abti/awow from marehan / hawiye?
Ugaas my dad is straight up dhagaxbuurian. He lived in mogadisho most of his life tho.
My mom is reer waamo.
My dad married hawiye and marehan women before he turned 20, before he met my mom. I am guessing that's where he picked up the suufi stuff. He thinks he can marry more than 4 women, sufis believe that.
we tell him to chill all the time.
That’s a lie just because your weird folks do such a thing doesn’t mean it’s a sufi thingUgaas my dad is straight up dhagaxbuurian. He lived in mogadisho most of his life tho.
My mom is reer waamo.
My dad married hawiye and marehan women before he turned 20, before he met my mom. I am guessing that's where he picked up the suufi stuff. He thinks he can marry more than 4 women, sufis believe that.
we tell him to chill all the time.
Ugaas my dad is straight up dhagaxbuurian. He lived in mogadisho most of his life tho.
My mom is reer waamo.
My dad married hawiye and marehan women before he turned 20, before he met my mom. I am guessing that's where he picked up the suufi stuff. He thinks he can marry more than 4 women, sufis believe that.
we tell him to chill all the time.
agah i knew sufis were crazy but thinking they can marry more than 4 at same time is ataacing the quran,
he must have picked it up from there, jahuur waa very adventurous and ilbax, they explore and try things out, they are our explorers,
is your mum reer camir horta ugaas?
just advise him bro and talk to him, our people are not known for sufinimo, he must have gotten from hawiye and marehan during his younger days in xamar and hawiye ad marehan wives,
Ogaden generally aren't sufis. I like that about themI thought most Somalis were Sufi or Sufi-like historically?You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
What other areas are known for Sufism? Besides Central Somalia.Ogaden generally aren't sufis. I like that about them
I thought most Somalis were Sufi or Sufi-like historically?You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
Ogaden generally aren't sufis. I like that about them
What other areas are known for Sufism? Besides Central Somalia.