Honestly my brother, if you want to become a better man, just go and spend time with real men in male orientated careers, like construction, plumbing, electricians and so on. Hell going to your local dojo, boxing club or juijuitsu club will expose you to men of a far higher quality than the likes of Tate. This will teach you about realistic masculinity and not cartoonish online representations.
Most importantly, the Sunnah of the Prophet SAW, but they'd rather listen to some 'former' gaal who was allegedly a pimp.
Who in their right mind, would listen to that man.