@Angelina @Magan95 @wheel I just recently unprivated my IG and used it just a couple of times and a month in, sure enough, a Xalimo I don't know who lives in the USA started following me. Guarantee you she's signaling a follow back and DM. I love how both proactive and passive Xalimos can be. They'll find you and add you but that's it. You as the man have to send the first message and "court" them.One funny tactic I've noticed is just randomly adding Somali guys they don't know on social media as a signal to DM them. Used to have this happen from time to time before I went private on IG and actually used to use it.