Our fathers' generation

[Inquisitive_]

It's starting to seem more of a reality with each passing day. The ratio of successful Somali men/Somali women is immensely in the favour of Somali women. The scarcity of Somali men of equal footing in terms of status to these women is well known and will have to be dealt with sooner rather than later because a lot of these females desire to raise a somali family but are obviously held back because of the inadequacies of the men.

This is complete utter BS, you have been hoodwinked into believing that these indoctrinated camps (western education) somehow churn out golden gooses.

If you define a women's quality through her financial or educational status you have bought into their poisoned education system and you have been equally brainwashed by them to determine these things as "success" rather then what our own deen teaches us.

What determines a good quality male/female is their level of piety first and foremost, ask yourself the question whether these institutions produce such people? we can see all over sspot how they produced a ridiculous amount of infidels, secularists, capitalists, modernists, socialists and every other poisoned 'ism etc because they never had any religious inculcation nor foundation to protect them.

Does this amount as success to you ? are these the kinds of women you would actually wife? the same types that have bought into all these satanic concepts and unislamic belief's that you see so often?

Are you arguing that these women are superior to our mothers because they received a supposed superior education and thus have a higher perceived status in your eyes? could these diaspora so called 'educated women' even bare 1/40 of the burdens our mothers bore?

It doesn't matter what kinds of statistical analysis we use or what metrics we employ, there is absolutely no competition whatsoever in any domain. These so called "educated xaalimo'" whom I had the misfortune of meeting countless of times are the worst of the worst you will ever come across from every other group that is out their.

The reason why they will always remain in this pitiful state is because no male with any modicum of intelligence would go anywhere near them, we are not even programmed to care about her financial status.

 

[Inquisitive_]

I know monogamy is best if one wants a stable family with well-adjusted children. But what do we do about the fact that we have a lot of doqons who aren't marriage material? What's going to happen to the surplus famales? They're either gonna marry these sorry excuses for men and end up single mothers or they're gonna marry ajanabis. So honestly, what's the solution to this problem?

The ratio is bad on both sides, but ultimately the problem lies with the males, there is nothing you can do in a western style society like this to fix those problems, everything is against you.

You don't see this happen in Somalia because it's a patriarchal religious tribal culture with clear orders and hierarchies enforced by all.

I don't why men are fixating on giving excuses to women for marrying bad men, who you marry is a reflection of the kind of person you are, if your corrupt, you will end up with such a person and if your filth, you will end up with filth

They are not coerced into making any of these choices, they themselves fetched these men of the streets, they marry them out of a desire & devotion that surpasses the desire the male has for her since that poor fella is about to enter into financial ruins.

If these women had any modicum of quality or brains they wouldn't fight tooth & nail to force their husbands to spend 10's of thousands of "their" money and deposit this to an already extremely wealthy Asian/Arab/White businesses for a 2 hour useless wedding which benefits no one while putting her entire household into deep debt in day 1

These are bakhti qashin types of women far worse then the male's who they marry who at least are against this.

 

[Bahal]

On a related topic, i found this article interesting. Supposedly researchers found that people are subconsciously disgusted by interracial couples, despite vocally supporting it when polled. Worst is they scanned the brains of liberal white students.

I think this only proves the obvious, that our tribal instincts as humans are too strong to overcome. What do you think of this finding @jugjugwacwac

Very interesting.

Have you ever wondered what happened to all those hippies with their peace and one love bullshit?

They all became hardcore Trump supporters

A few decades of liberalism cannot change 100,000 years of evolution.

 

[Abkaal]

I know your trolling but Somali
Men, especially the younger
Generation think Somali girls
Are property

They dismiss the strong ones
As qumayo's especially if it
Threatens their masculinity

Or lack of shall
I say

My husband will be my property,
He will be tagged like a dog

He will know his place
is to serve me always Insha'Allah

By Allah, girls like this want to submit more than anyone else.

 

[MrKnowles]

I always tell females in my family not to marry a Somali man. Most of them are immature with a very horrible past. Why settle?

 

[Haji]

These are the types of people I would love to give citizenship in a futuristic cosmopolitan mogadishu or Hargeisa. People that know the customs and language, and bring their own foreign ideas to make the city better.