I believe Somali girls and women can try to reverse this epic failure in our community.
Step 1. Never marry a misogynist, try your best to figure out his attitudes towards the female gender and how he was raised, the apple does not fall far from the tree.
Step 2. Raise your boys to emulate the prophet SAW, raise them to be PROTECT and PROVIDE.
Step 3. Make sure both genders carry out chores in your house but teach the boys that some chores are more masculine than others; carrying heavy things and anything "outside".
The Prophet Muhammad (PPBUH) used to do chores around his own home. I don't understand how practising muslim men can neglect this crucial aspect of the Prophets character.
As muslims we should aim to be the best. Why not follow the best man who ever lived?