Non-Somali guy

[HalimaJ]

don't listen to the haters.

GO SUCK THAT ARAB D*CK.

on a serious note, why would you not want to marry a arab guy?? nabi S.A.W was an arab, would you have discriminated against him just because he doesn't know the culture,customs and lanaguage of some strange already arabnized group of people called SOMALI

it's not 2018 anymore, it's 2019 i am 100% for interracial/international/interethnic marriages for somali

BRING THE WORLD CLOSER TO TOGETHER THROUGH THE GOOD OL' REPRODUCTION METHOD


go marry that arab guy/girl
go marry that white girl/guy
go marry that mixed girl/guy
go marry that asian guy/girl
go marry that black girl/guy
go get the job
go chase that dream
go do it
go be it
go
go
go
IT'S 2019 NAAYA, DON'T LET the opinion of folks hold u back from getting ur back blown

Eww isku hishood. Please stop being vulgar. Remember this in future threads of mine. Its rule number 1.

 

[Leila]

This life is short, you will not be asked on yawma al qiyaama why you didn’t get married to a Somali guy. If he is a practising Muslim and is financially stable go for it.

 

[The alchemist]

Reality of what?

It might be due to me being kinda half asleep, but I feel like you are talking in riddles.

The reality of interracial marriage.

 

[sigmund]

it's the truth lol do I care for personality or if my child looks like bin Laden children? yh I'll pass

 

[sigmund]

This life is short, you will not be asked on yawma al qiyaama why you didn’t get married to a Somali guy. If he is a practising Muslim and is financially stable go for it.

sis don't encourage interracial marriage. Don't you care for your fellow sisters?Arabs are not to be trusted even more since he's half white she will have to deal with his toxic family that probably would be racist and treat her like third class citizen her children looking arab since somali genes are recessive. Nothing is better than your own kind. dont make her feel guilty when She did the right thing @HalimaJ

 

[Dalmoor]

@HalimaJ Count me in. The wedding venue is in Sana'a, Yemen. Menú; khat biryani, egg tobaco sauce

 

[HalimaJ]

it's the truth lol do I care for personality or if my child looks like bin Laden children? yh I'll pass

Lol, forget me. I can imagine my father looking at his grandchildren like they are aliens from another planet, scratching his head, thinking life would have been easier if they were fully Somali.

Its already bad enough that I have a very ambiguous look to the extent that I have British Pakistanis thinking I am one of them.

 

[sigmund]

Lol, forget me. I can imagine my father looking at his grandchildren like they are aliens from another planet, scratching his head, thinking life would have been easier if they were fully Somali.

Its already bad enough that I have a very ambiguous look to the extent that I have British Pakistanis thinking I am one of them.

see even your are sensing the reality of interracial marriage. Ignore the likes of leila they are pushing you to regret. How many stories have we heard of Arabs abusing the lot wife and children and than eventually taking them to another country. There family are also involved. bet bad idea. There are soo many attractive somali/horn of African men who are on their deen with a stable job you can find.

 

[pablo]

Lol, forget me. I can imagine my father looking at his grandchildren like they are aliens from another planet, scratching his head, thinking life would have been easier if they were fully Somali.

Its already bad enough that I have a very ambiguous look to the extent that I have British Pakistanis thinking I am one of them.

At the end of the day you have to make the decision so if you believe this man is the best man you can find to be the farther of your kids then so be it, but you also have to remember Somali culture. Which is your children will not have a tribe and will unfortunately be alienated and since you said you look ambiguous and more like a Pakistani your kids won’t resemble you or your family so it’s definitely a big decision.

But also remember you have one life so do what’s best for you.

 

[World]

You lowkey did the right thing. If he was however someone closer to our ethnicity e.g Eritrean and North Sudani I would have said give it a go since they technically look like us and share similar culture. But since he is arab/white that is totally alienate from our culture no offence even if he was a nice guy you will never feel comfortable walking with him in the streets without every somali and even other races staring at you intensively. Not to mention your child looking nothing like you and more arab. These little things is important to focus on rather than his "good character". To further add to my point interracial marriage most of the time don't work. Don't feel guilty sis

Southern Yemenis are closer to us in culture than Sudanis/Eritreans.

We don’t have anything in common with them, whereas we have been trading partners with Yemenis for thousands of years and lived there/they lived in Somalia. Even 100 years ago, there were more Somalis in Aden(capital of Yemen) than there were Arabs.

 

[sigmund]

Southern Yemenis are closer to us in culture than Sudanis/Eritreans.

We don’t have anything in common with them, whereas we have been trading partners with Yemenis for thousands of years and lived there/they lived in Somalia. Even 100 years ago, there were more Somalis in Aden(capital of Yemen) than there were Arabs.

But the guy is Half white that's even worse. And Eritreans do be specific with tribes afar and saho are cushitic just like us and share similar culture not to mention we look very similar. You mean to tell me a dhegcas who rape and treat my people as second class citizen is closer to us than a fellow Horner????

 

[World]

But the guy is Half white that's even worse. And Eritreans do be specific with tribes afar and say are cushitic just like us and share similar culture not to mention we look very similar. You mean to tell me a dhegcas who rape and treat my people as second class citizen is closer to us than a fellow Horner????

Afar are a small minority in Eritrea that make up like 2 %. I’m talking about the two largest ethnicities that make up 85 % of the population, who are Habesha. We’re closer to Southern Yemenis than to them.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Afar are a small minority in Eritrea that make up like 2 %. I’m talking about the two largest ethnicities that make up 85 % of the population, who are Habesha. We’re closer to Southern Yemenis than to them.

Lol aren't those Habeshas genetically related to Southern Yemenis?

 

[sigmund]

Afar are a small minority in Eritrea that make up like 2 %. I’m talking about the two largest ethnicities that make up 85 % of the population, who are Habesha. We’re closer to Southern Yemenis than to them.

I don't have a problem with Yemenis and yeah I admit we share a lot of things with them when it comes to culture. But if she was to pic a yemeni or Eritrean than she should obviously pick Eritrean.

 

[World]

As for OP @HalimaJ, since you’re older and reaching menopause age, I don’t think it would be wise to restrict your pool of men into one ethnicity who prefer younger women.

 

[CaliSomali]

Afar are a small minority in Eritrea that make up like 2 %. I’m talking about the two largest ethnicities that make up 85 % of the population, who are Habesha. We’re closer to Southern Yemenis than to them.

Have you met Habesha Muslims? They are more like us than those midget Arabs.

 

[notyouraveragesomaligirl]

Yes, you are making the right decision. Marrying a non-somali is definitely something you shouldn't go for. I understand he's everything you may have ever wanted, but look at all the things he doesn't have. You both don't share the same culture, and your kids will not even be considered Somali when they go back home. I think before you get into something serious, think of all these factors. May Allah make your decision an easy and firm decision inshaa'Allah.

 

[World]

I don't have a problem with Yemenis and yeah I admit we share a lot of things with them when it comes to culture. But if she was to pic a yemeni or Eritrean than she should obviously pick Eritrean.

I’m just saying that we’re closer to Yemenis in culture, and that it’s far more common for Somalis to marry Yemenis because we’ve had a relationship with them for thousands of years. The only thing we’re closer to Eritreans than Yemenis is pseudo looks, but even then we don’t look that similar.

 

[sigmund]

@Halima dear how old are you if you don't mind me asking?

 

[World]

Have you met Habesha Muslims? They are more like us than those midget Arabs.

Habeshas are not taller than Yemenis, so you should call them both midgets.