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[Abdalla]

He isn't Jamaican though? You predicted that I would be with a hardened criminal revert, who possibly has multiple yardie baby mothers, hiden away in the mean streets of Brixton.

But alas, this young man is a successful professional with good manners to boot. Do not worry Abdulla for if I do marry this biracial Yemeni, rest be assured that I will not disgrace our race by accepting anything less than 10k for a Mehr.

Why would anyone insult me? How can anyone accuse me of being cheap and clean? For I might have ventured and married into a different ethnicity, but this man is a catch in every way and as a woman prone to hypergamy this is hard to resist. Hence, this is the reason for why I feel torn.

I predicted immediately that you would be with an ajnabi whether it is a jamaican or a yardie.

How is he a catch snd successful when he works in the same warehouse as you? Very low standards of what you define as a successful man.

 

[HalimaJ]

I predicted immediately that you would be with an ajnabi whether it is a jamaican or a yardie.

How is he a catch snd successful when he works in the same warehouse as you? Very low standards of what you define as a successful man.

What makes you think I work in a warehouse? Alhamdulliah, i'm in a very good position in my life.

Furthermore, Abdalla you sound rather salty. I will say though, you are the first person to say that I have low standards, usually words like 'princess syndrome' are thrown around. Congrats are in order.

 

[Muji]

HalimaJustice you need to show a little bit more respect to people like me, emily and the other halimos who desentisized these men.

If you had posted this thread a year ago, you would have been sent death threats by the likes of @Abdalla

We ran so you could fantasise about giving your malab to an Arab delinquent mutt, just remember that in future when you decide to show me attitude

 

[Abdalla]

What makes you think I work in a warehouse? Alhamdulliah, i'm in a very good position in my life.

Furthermore, Abdalla you sound rather salty. I will say though, you are the first person to say that I have low standards, usually words like 'princess syndrome' are thrown around. Congrats are in order.

You have to give me credits for predicting you marrying out at a very early stage. If I didnt choose my current career path, I would've become a successful psychologist or an anthropologist. Give me props for a successful prediction.

I can also predict how your marriage will turn out but you'd accuse me of saltiness.

 

[HalimaJ]

You have to give me credits for predicting you marrying out at a very early stage. If I didnt choose my current career path, I would've become a successful psychologist or an anthropologist. Give me props for a successful prediction.

I can also predict how your marriage will turn out but you'd accuse me of saltiness.

You predicted I would want to marry an Abu Jerome, who would have graciously presented me with an apple and a 4 wings meal deal.

This thread is about my interest in an attractive and successful man, who happens to be from a different background. The key words here is interest.

Therefore, hold your horses, I haven't married out, nor do I think I will tbh. I'm merely torn in my decision. Am I making the right choice?

Your predictions are indeed empty and fruitless. I am glad that you have come to the decision that psychology isn't your calling, for you would have failed, just as you have failed to psychoanalyse me.

 

[Apollo]

I thought you loved BBC? You were a staunch BLM SJW. Now you lusting after Arab mutts

This is an Al-Akhdam/Achdam.

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[Sophisticate]

Has very little to do with age, it's a common shared trait that differs from other Somali women, the most well rounded Somali women I met in Europe were mostly Samaroon.

But the problem with them is the same problems that generally plague most Wooqoyi women in general in comparison to other Somali's; extreme levels of materialism, high maintenance and poignant jealousy.

The materialistic aspect is one I revile the most as a minimalist, but I understand it's a give or take and a case of pick your poison depending where you are in this world.

If I was forced to get married in matriarchal Europe, no doubt they are by far the best Somali women unlike my Southern Xaalimo's who are quick to crucify you, challenge your authority until you become toothless, then subsequently throw you out.

Such women are only good when you marry them back home or in a patriarchal land were they are dissuaded from these kinds of things and you can stomp your authority on them when they transgress.

The stereotypes have always been that Wooqoyi women are far greater with their husbands in comparison to Southern Xaalimo's who tend to neglect them after the honeymoon phase.

But the Southerner Xaalimo resoundingly beats the Wooqoyi women when it comes to child-rearing and raising strong children with high self-esteem.

Everything has an up/down side, this high-self esteem we instil in our daughters is what unfortunately causes most of them to not look after themselves in terms of beauty, appearance and looks or even take it serious.

While the much less-secure Wooqoyi chick is obsessed about beauty, looks and appearance and they tend to take these aspects seriously, hence why Wooqoyi women in general look much better for these reasons.

I like to view people from a cultural and group psychology level going as far back as possible, of course there are always exceptions to the norm especially with those who are mixed, and also some regions are more extreme then others. (mudug being the worst)

But again stereotypes like these don't materialise out of thin air, they are grounded in countless experiences of many and as a result are based upon realities.

I'm actual Reer Galbeed. :siilaanyolaugh:
I must respectful disagree. As I am in the in-group I recognize more of the variability in temperament, self-image, looks and values.

My sample size is quite large, as well.

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

Hypothetically if I was to marry him, why would I expect random people to call my kids 'abti'. He or she's real abtis will call them that and acknowledge them.

I won’t give your kids free candy is what I am saying

 

[James Dahl]

Just exploit the myth of the Arab fathers and say "aren't we technically Yemeni?"

Checkmate

 

[Aziz]

I din't bother reading the past 6 pages but I have been sent to inform you all that the Somali constitution will be amended sometime in the future so that ajnabi lovers loose their citizenship. That plan is already in the works as I type this.

 

[Khayyam]

So you been preaching us for yrs not marry out and now you telling us this

 

[nine]

Suprise suprise HalimaJamaica is dating an ajnabi. Ive accussed you of being with a foreigner when you joined the site. I can smell your kind miles away.

Kulaha I am torn by this. She knows we will find the wedding pics and 20+ pages of insults will pour in.

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