What's some basic low level bdsm that doesn't require equipments. Spanking is universal, finger in mouth is a common one too. like before transitioning into the chokeslamFirst, slap her ass and if she gets receptive u know the jigs up and u shud spanking. then slowly nove to the whole bdsm thing. hand cuffin her, gaggin, slappin her face, bruising, all this should stimulate both of u. you derivjng pleasure from dominating and inflicting pain on her. and her deriving painful pleasure from pain and submittin to u. thats the secret for both of u to enjoy it.