But I thought the punishment was equal, I also thought that our Lord condemned both the Zani (fornicator) and the Zaniyyah (fornicatress).
It’s not about defending other’s honour that I’m talking about, but your worrying non-chalant attitude.
But hey God’s plan bro, if you don’t hurry with that repentance just know that there’s a chance you will only marry someone of your like without even you knowing. Wallahi sometimes your punished in this world.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“The adulterer — fornicator marries not but an adulteress — fornicatress or a Mushrikah; and the adulteress –fornicatress, none marries her except an adulterer — fornicater or a Mushrik [and that means that the man who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan or idolatress) or a prostitute, then surely, he is either an adulterer — fornicator, or a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater). And the woman who agrees to marry (have a sexual relation with) a Mushrik (polytheist, pagan or idolater) or an adulterer — fornicator, then she is either a prostitute or a Mushrikah (female polytheist, pagan, or idolatress)]. Such a thing is forbidden to the believers (of Islamic Monotheism)”
[al-Noor 24:3]
Good mindset though seeking forgiveness is key, and I think you’re referring to more women being in hellfire. Which is ofc true, but ya know that doesn’t give you clearance. Remember you might die tomorrow.