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Narcissistic psychopath Somali husband

I blame their socialisation if these men weren't taught from a young age that women only exist to serve them they'd act more like human beings:zhqjlmx:
 

VixR

Veritas
Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.
 
Ladies is what happens when you bear children for a man who sees you as a baby incubator rather than an equal partner! :tacky:
What an abhorrent man, genuinely feel like he’d probably threaten her with a second marriage. Idk this made my blood boil



I was hoping it was a lone case but
Who knew there could be legal consequences to it? :ohreally:
That farax is FUCKING crazy I'm like " aabihiis wass " wa nin walan. He is making other farax look bad......
 
Makes sense but at the same time I don’t wanna sound like I’m victim blaming but HOW can moms allow themselves to be used as such? You can tell how well of a father he is after the first kid. If he ain’t shit then, what makes you think he’ll change after 10 more? Yeah they barely know their kids. Waa qaashin.
I think the annoying thing about those fathers is that, in our culture you HAVE to respect your elders, which is great but I couldn’t respect a father who left after 8 kids lol
That man who neglected his kid for 25 years and then one day start saying “Ohh my son is a doctor” as if that’s rly his son. That son will have to respect his father. I’ve seen it happen before and I wish you could tell an absent father to fuck off lol.
As for mums yeah, they’re a victim and I don’t want to victim blame but I think it’s poor decision making. Maybe they expect him to step the second/third time? Poorer people in general have more kids in general, and we aren’t rich people.
I hope for the day we as a community realise having 2/3 kids grown up taken care of, middle class and with loving parents >>> having 10 kids raised in poverty
Some somali women believe the only way to keep a man is by popping kids every year. I've heard older habaryars advicing each other to have more kids so the man won't leave :tacky:

I hope a day will come when somali women collectively realize, we are deserving of men who we don't have to jeopardize our wellbeing for, inorder for them to love us.
 
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Some women are just stupid..
Ladies its time you look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself whats wrong with you.. Why would you let anyone take advantage of you or pressure you to do anything? In another thread I saw some dump girl being impregnated and getting stabbed by her ex boyfriend.. Da fuck is wrong with women horta?
Dude...it's not that easy, how can you blame women? Some men hide their dark side from their wives until marriage and become monsters. Marrigae is complicated you can't always pull out so easily, there's many social and economic factors that affect the woman.

Some women are stronger than others, some have had a rough childhood and trash family members which molded them to have less self esteem...:frdfvsb:

We should uplift and help them rather than just judge them. Nobody chooses to suffer at the hands of another on purpose.
 

Shoto Todoroki

Staff Member
Moderator
I’m confused. Somali women are known to be loud, defiant and no nonsense, yet a man can convince her to have that many kids? I don’t buy it. So you’re telling me all these hooyos are walking around with 8,9, 10 kids not because they chose to, but because they were forced to? And yet Somali men still choose to walk out their lives? :faysalwtf:
And this story sounds like they’re from back home and not from the west. Anyways ladies, YOU control how many kids you want and that’s something you discuss with the guy before marriage. Two or 10 kids if a man wants to leave he will. STOP HAVING KIDS YOU CANNOT AFFORD AND TAKE CARE OF, AND TURN AROUND AND RESENT THEM BECAUSE THEIR DAD LEFT THEM ALONE WITH YOU.


Wallahi the issues of our community all make sense now, ileen hooyonkaa we’re being used as breeding incubators.
Wallahi some Somali habyars are such birds
 

Samaalic Era

Hiraabist
VIP
Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.
Like you care about Somali women

Weren't you the one that was making excuses for the white man that attacked a Somali teen girl in the UK at a bus stop:mahubowtf:
 

VixR

Veritas
Like you care about Somali women

Weren't you the one that was making excuses for the white man that attacked a Somali teen girl in the UK at a bus stop:mahubowtf:
You all love to follow me around and lie on me. I seem to remember saying she should sue, and badmouthing Islam, which was the reason she was beat up after all. Somali women have to be the most visible Muslims in the West, taking swings for a made-up religion they didn’t even make up themselves, meanwhile the Arab women aren’t nearly as much.
 

VixR

Veritas
I don’t understand why you even bothered to quote me. The lack of self-awareness is impressive. I knew I was right, but you had to give it to me on a platter not minutes later. I’m sorry, I’m not blind and beyond over-looking the reality:
Is to increase our population and raise strong children. Somali population is small compared to our neighbours and we must counter this dangerous threat to our nation.

We need to enforce a law that makes it a state obligation in Somalia for men to have 4 wives by the age of 30. Studies have shown how women do not want to work but prefer to be mothers and wives, who want to serve her husband and children. It is the Jew who will tell you otherwise and strives to make the lives of women lose all meaning and become slaves to Multi million corporations

The Adamic Law of nature will always disprove the lies of the Jew:whew:
 

The Good

Ontario's Finest
VIP
@Samaalic Era man you're getting emotional. You saw what appeared to be an easy shot at @VixR and you took it. Too bad she isn't that miskeen lol. All these years of being an open athiest have hardened her.
 

VixR

Veritas
@Samaalic Era man you're getting emotional. You saw what appeared to be an easy shot at @VixR and you took it. Too bad she isn't that miskeen lol. All these years of being an open athiest have hardened her.
What’s hard about me? I’m just stating facts. He just argues for the sake of it, just like many on here. To say I don’t care about Somali women as one, meanwhile he made the exact baby-machine, Ethiopian population post, many times before, but also after quoting me. If I could only find that thread I’m talking I literally cried for what Somali women are in the eyes of their so-called culture. I refuse. Thank god for the West, so to speak.
 

The Good

Ontario's Finest
VIP
What’s hard about me? I’m just stating facts. He just argues for the sake of it, just like many on here. To say I don’t care about Somali women as one, meanwhile he made the exact baby-machine, Ethiopian population post, many times before, but also after quoting me. If I could only find that thread I’m talking I literally cried for what Somali women are in the eyes of their so-called culture. I refuse. Thank god for the West, so to speak.
I said hardened. Experience dealing with being here and getting slandered from time to time. Not hard
 
I’m confused. Somali women are known to be loud, defiant and no nonsense, yet a man can convince her to have that many kids? I don’t buy it. So you’re telling me all these hooyos are walking around with 8,9, 10 kids not because they chose to, but because they were forced to? And yet Somali men still choose to walk out their lives? :faysalwtf:
And this story sounds like they’re from back home and not from the west. Anyways ladies, YOU control how many kids you want and that’s something you discuss with the guy before marriage. Two or 10 kids if a man wants to leave he will. STOP HAVING KIDS YOU CANNOT AFFORD AND TAKE CARE OF, AND TURN AROUND AND RESENT THEM BECAUSE THEIR DAD LEFT THEM ALONE WITH YOU.


Wallahi the issues of our community all make sense now, ileen hooyonkaa we’re being used as breeding incubators.
Somali women need to fight the stupid patriarchy that is killing them
 

Mercury

Staff Member
Moderator
Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.
Im not suprised since many somalis have the mentality that when the girl is above 25 shes "expired"
 
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