Narcissistic psychopath Somali husband

[beenleey]

Why C section? She should have taken then pain & uuummphh the baby out, naturally! Does she not have a big bone hips like me & @NotMyL ???

 

[Basra]

@NotMyL


U r adorable tho, don't ever forget that

 

[3leven11]

I blame their socialisation if these men weren't taught from a young age that women only exist to serve them they'd act more like human beings

 

[NotMyL]

@NotMyL


U r adorable tho, don't ever forget that

You are not so bad yourself @Basra what are we having for breakfast this morning since we are both big boned women?

 

[Basra]

You are not so bad yourself @Basra what are we having for breakfast this morning since we are both big boned women?

I am having apple strudel with chocolate milk

 

[Samaalic Era]

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@Basra look at this abuse of my dp that you've started not to mention they are now going to give the @Basra treatment

 

[VixR]

Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.

 

[Younes Osman]

Ladies is what happens when you bear children for a man who sees you as a baby incubator rather than an equal partner!
What an abhorrent man, genuinely feel like he’d probably threaten her with a second marriage. Idk this made my blood boil



I was hoping it was a lone case but
Who knew there could be legal consequences to it?

That farax is FUCKING crazy I'm like " aabihiis wass " wa nin walan. He is making other farax look bad......

 

[Hodan from HR]

Makes sense but at the same time I don’t wanna sound like I’m victim blaming but HOW can moms allow themselves to be used as such? You can tell how well of a father he is after the first kid. If he ain’t shit then, what makes you think he’ll change after 10 more? Yeah they barely know their kids. Waa qaashin.

I think the annoying thing about those fathers is that, in our culture you HAVE to respect your elders, which is great but I couldn’t respect a father who left after 8 kids lol
That man who neglected his kid for 25 years and then one day start saying “Ohh my son is a doctor” as if that’s rly his son. That son will have to respect his father. I’ve seen it happen before and I wish you could tell an absent father to f*ck off lol.
As for mums yeah, they’re a victim and I don’t want to victim blame but I think it’s poor decision making. Maybe they expect him to step the second/third time? Poorer people in general have more kids in general, and we aren’t rich people.
I hope for the day we as a community realise having 2/3 kids grown up taken care of, middle class and with loving parents >>> having 10 kids raised in poverty

Some somali women believe the only way to keep a man is by popping kids every year. I've heard older habaryars advicing each other to have more kids so the man won't leave

I hope a day will come when somali women collectively realize, we are deserving of men who we don't have to jeopardize our wellbeing for, inorder for them to love us.

 

[NoSafety]

Some women are just stupid..
Ladies its time you look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself whats wrong with you.. Why would you let anyone take advantage of you or pressure you to do anything? In another thread I saw some dump girl being impregnated and getting stabbed by her ex boyfriend.. Da f*ck is wrong with women horta?

Dude...it's not that easy, how can you blame women? Some men hide their dark side from their wives until marriage and become monsters. Marrigae is complicated you can't always pull out so easily, there's many social and economic factors that affect the woman.

Some women are stronger than others, some have had a rough childhood and trash family members which molded them to have less self esteem...

We should uplift and help them rather than just judge them. Nobody chooses to suffer at the hands of another on purpose.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

I’m confused. Somali women are known to be loud, defiant and no nonsense, yet a man can convince her to have that many kids? I don’t buy it. So you’re telling me all these hooyos are walking around with 8,9, 10 kids not because they chose to, but because they were forced to? And yet Somali men still choose to walk out their lives?
And this story sounds like they’re from back home and not from the west. Anyways ladies, YOU control how many kids you want and that’s something you discuss with the guy before marriage. Two or 10 kids if a man wants to leave he will. STOP HAVING KIDS YOU CANNOT AFFORD AND TAKE CARE OF, AND TURN AROUND AND RESENT THEM BECAUSE THEIR DAD LEFT THEM ALONE WITH YOU.


Wallahi the issues of our community all make sense now, ileen hooyonkaa we’re being used as breeding incubators.

Wallahi some Somali habyars are such birds

 

[Samaalic Era]

Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.

Like you care about Somali women

Weren't you the one that was making excuses for the white man that attacked a Somali teen girl in the UK at a bus stop

 

[VixR]

Like you care about Somali women

Weren't you the one that was making excuses for the white man that attacked a Somali teen girl in the UK at a bus stop

You all love to follow me around and lie on me. I seem to remember saying she should sue, and badmouthing Islam, which was the reason she was beat up after all. Somali women have to be the most visible Muslims in the West, taking swings for a made-up religion they didn’t even make up themselves, meanwhile the Arab women aren’t nearly as much.

 

[VixR]

I don’t understand why you even bothered to quote me. The lack of self-awareness is impressive. I knew I was right, but you had to give it to me on a platter not minutes later. I’m sorry, I’m not blind and beyond over-looking the reality:

Is to increase our population and raise strong children. Somali population is small compared to our neighbours and we must counter this dangerous threat to our nation.

We need to enforce a law that makes it a state obligation in Somalia for men to have 4 wives by the age of 30. Studies have shown how women do not want to work but prefer to be mothers and wives, who want to serve her husband and children. It is the Jew who will tell you otherwise and strives to make the lives of women lose all meaning and become slaves to Multi million corporations

The Adamic Law of nature will always disprove the lies of the Jew

 

[Helios]

@Samaalic Era man you're getting emotional. You saw what appeared to be an easy shot at @VixR and you took it. Too bad she isn't that miskeen lol. All these years of being an open athiest have hardened her.

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Samaalic Era man you're getting emotional. You saw what appeared to be an easy shot at @VixR and you took it. Too bad she isn't that miskeen lol. All these years of being an open athiest have hardened her.

@VixR and I have our days sxb. She is like the Joker, what I would do without my antagonist

 

[VixR]

@Samaalic Era man you're getting emotional. You saw what appeared to be an easy shot at @VixR and you took it. Too bad she isn't that miskeen lol. All these years of being an open athiest have hardened her.

What’s hard about me? I’m just stating facts. He just argues for the sake of it, just like many on here. To say I don’t care about Somali women as one, meanwhile he made the exact baby-machine, Ethiopian population post, many times before, but also after quoting me. If I could only find that thread I’m talking I literally cried for what Somali women are in the eyes of their so-called culture. I refuse. Thank god for the West, so to speak.

 

[Helios]

What’s hard about me? I’m just stating facts. He just argues for the sake of it, just like many on here. To say I don’t care about Somali women as one, meanwhile he made the exact baby-machine, Ethiopian population post, many times before, but also after quoting me. If I could only find that thread I’m talking I literally cried for what Somali women are in the eyes of their so-called culture. I refuse. Thank god for the West, so to speak.

I said hardened. Experience dealing with being here and getting slandered from time to time. Not hard

 

[Guardafui]

I’m confused. Somali women are known to be loud, defiant and no nonsense, yet a man can convince her to have that many kids? I don’t buy it. So you’re telling me all these hooyos are walking around with 8,9, 10 kids not because they chose to, but because they were forced to? And yet Somali men still choose to walk out their lives?
And this story sounds like they’re from back home and not from the west. Anyways ladies, YOU control how many kids you want and that’s something you discuss with the guy before marriage. Two or 10 kids if a man wants to leave he will. STOP HAVING KIDS YOU CANNOT AFFORD AND TAKE CARE OF, AND TURN AROUND AND RESENT THEM BECAUSE THEIR DAD LEFT THEM ALONE WITH YOU.


Wallahi the issues of our community all make sense now, ileen hooyonkaa we’re being used as breeding incubators.

Somali women need to fight the stupid patriarchy that is killing them

 

[Mercury]

Very common among Somalis. Don’t think these users that condemn it are beyond it. I remember crying over a tragic SSpot thread of this nature but worse, and the male users were making jokes and remarks about Ethiopian population numbers needing to be caught up with. They don’t actually care about women in Somali culture, not that I wasn’t aware of that, but that drive it home.

Im not suprised since many somalis have the mentality that when the girl is above 25 shes "expired"