My friends husband is mad at her because she used to . . .

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So my friend was in a bad mood today and I asked her what happened and apparently her and her husband were talking about their past and stuff and he talked about how he used to mess around with girls and she mentioned that she was really frustrated sometimes but didn’t want to commit Zinah so she would handle it herself and used toys and went into detail about it and this man had the AUDACITY to be pissed!!?? He mentioned how he thought she was pure and a virgin and because shes used toys shes not a virgin but she said she’s never done anything with anyone but he’s still mad wtf?!

They got into a huge arguement and she’s stayed with us for 2 days and went back home but I’m shocked walahi this man whose messed around is pissed off that his wife handled her needs herself?!!

Any guys here can explain what she did wrong here? She’s not a **** she’s never been with a guy unlike him but HES. angry with HER?! Even though she accepted his past????

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huuuno tell your friend, never confess your dirty file with him. U r supposed to remain feminine and pure. NEVER even xaar while your husband is at home. They expect u to be a pure clean sex object. U can't even fart huuno.
 
Why would a any man want to know who his (future) wife messed around with. Does it turn them on hearing the sexual escapades of his girl with other men? Thats cuck behavior. A real man doesn’t ask that shit.
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In fact, he deserves a girl like him who slept around. Like deserves like.

This is what sinning, shameless 'Muslim' men are like, they think they have the right to sleep around, but would lose their minds if they ever ended up with their female counterparts. Or even a girl like this.

That's why you will see a lot of Muslim men who sleep around and have girlfriends, often foreign girlfriends but they fully intend on marrying a miskeen virgin girl who has no clue about his sordid past.
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If she ain’t willing to lie to protect my ego she’s not the one for me. It’s a male thing you wouldn’t get it
Yet, its okay for you lot to commit zina and openly talk about it? Why are women also constantly supposed to care about men's weak and fragile emotions when they don't give a shit about women's? You men need to get a grip.
 
I would feel sorry for a woman who was married to a p0rn addicted “virgin” even if she had a past.

Unfortunately, that is the reality of a lot of women and those men are molly coddled in the Muslim community as women are a 'fitnah' and getting married is hard ect due to affordability. Basically, men are given a 101 excuses. Also, to make things worse men watching has been normalised. Look at the amount of guys on sspot who admit to it?


At the end of the day, commiting zina is 100 more more haram, and you can't compare the two, so your take is crazy. That zaani man is lucky that he got someone like her, because really, he deserves someone that has also slept around. At least she kept herself to herself. Can he say the same thing?

Muslim men and their blatant hypocrisy is too much now. I don't know why women are always expected to put up with everything. If we women behaved the way they did and judged them for everything, a lot of these men would be deemed unfit for marriage.
 
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Yet, its okay for you lot to commit zina and openly talk about it? Why are women also constantly supposed to care about men's weak and fragile emotions when they don't give a shit about women's? You men need to get a grip.

A man with a bruised ego, is like a cornered animal; very deadly.
The older I get, the more I notice that women are mentally and emotionally stronger than men, I don't know if this is natural or socialised this way. Either way, the way a lot of men react to small things is concerning.

Unfortunately, that is the reality of a lot of women and those men are molly coddled in the Muslim community as women are a 'fitnah' and getting married is hard ect due to affordability. Basically, men are given a 101 excuses. Also, to make things worse men watching **** has been normalised. Look at the amount of guys on sspot who admit to it?


At the end of the day, commiting zina is 100 more more haram, and you can't compare the two, so your take is crazy. That zaani man is lucky that he got someone like her, because really, he deserves someone that has also slept around. At least she kept herself to herself. Can he say the same thing?

Muslim men and their blatant hypocrisy is too much now. I don't know why women are always expected to put up with everything. If we women behaved the way they did and judged them for everything, a lot of these men would be deemed unfit for marriage.



Muslim women need to start treating these Zani males like lepers, too often I see Muslim girls happily marrying a man who slept around and not caring. In fact, there are those who prefer a man who has experience. The girl in this scenario is a virgin and he is a Zani and he has the audacity to act like he is the aggrieved party.

In fact, she should have asked for divorce, because he's sexist hypocrite.

She's lucky he didn't give her HIV or another STD.
 
Toys can hit certain spots most guys can't sxb. I don't care how well you f*ck, yam pussy or can finger, a $5 vibrator will make you look like a clumsy virgin by comparison. Toys are x100 times harder to compete with than the avg guy she might've slept with before you :heh:
How you know that?????????????????
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She should be the one that’s mad that her husband is potentially carrying diseases from all those white girls he smashed:yousmart::reallymaury:
 
A man with a bruised ego, is like a cornered animal; very deadly.
The older I get, the more I notice that women are mentally and emotionally stronger than men, I don't know if this is natural or socialised this way. Either way, the way a lot of men react to small things is concerning.





Muslim women need to start treating these Zani males like lepers, too often I see Muslim girls happily marrying a man who slept around and not caring. In fact, there are those who prefer a man who has experience. The girl in this scenario is a virgin and he is a Zani and he has the audacity to act like he is the aggrieved party.

In fact, she should have asked for divorce, because he's sexist hypocrite.

She's lucky he didn't give her HIV or another STD.

Sis, they're raised to be entitled and hypocritical when it concerns women. addiction is now a common issue within the Muslim community and guess how men who suffer such a nasty addiction are treated? With sympathy! You see everything is a woman's fault. Women are fitnah, men are easily tempted, women are making it hard for men to marry! The list goes on.

Also, to make things worse women aren't seen as complex beings like themselves who have struggles and may fall into haram, but can repent and seek forgiveness. The issue is that socially, men are seen as people who might have pasts, but are given a chance to repent and grow as people. Women on the other aren't afforded any grace or sympathy.
 
Sis, they're raised to be entitled and hypocritical when it concerns women. **** addiction is now a common issue within the Muslim community and guess how men who suffer such a nasty addiction are treated? With sympathy! You see everything is a woman's fault. Women are fitnah, men are easily tempted, women are making it hard for men to marry! The list goes on.

Also, to make things worse women aren't seen as complex beings like themselves who have struggles and may fall into haram, but can repent and seek forgiveness. The issue is that socially, men are seen as people who might have pasts, but are given a chance to repent and grow as people. Women on the other aren't afforded any grace or sympathy.


Isn't it funny how men are seen as the stronger gender, but they cannot control their genitals?
They cannot even control their eyes and lower them around women. And when some of these mentally deficient males become violent and rape women, they also find ways to blame women and hide the crime, I've heard of instances where girls are married off to their rapist.

I have also noticed that girls are not seen as 'children' rather as 'little women' and they are lusted after sexually and they are expected to feed and clean after adult men.

As for married women? Good luck to them, this society of ours doesn't think it's rape when a husband forces himself on her.

We come from a very defective ethnic group.
 

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It’s true though, I don’t know what the guys on this thread are smoking on saying things like they would be happy their future wife was a virgin that used masturbate to p0rn with a 10 inch vibrating dildo that rotates and changes colour. f*ck that, I would prefer a woman who was in a haram relationship over that lol.
So you’d prefer a woman who got stretched out by random jeromes over a virgin who used to masturbate every now and then? :chrisfreshhah:
 

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Muslim women need to start treating these Zani males like lepers, too often I see Muslim girls happily marrying a man who slept around and not caring. In fact, there are those who prefer a man who has experience. The girl in this scenario is a virgin and he is a Zani and he has the audacity to act like he is the aggrieved party.

In fact, she should have asked for divorce, because he's sexist hypocrite.

She's lucky he didn't give her HIV or another STD.
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Isn't it funny how men are seen as the stronger gender, but they cannot control their genitals?
They cannot even control their eyes and lower them around women. And when some of these mentally deficient males become violent and rape women, they also find ways to blame women and hide the crime, I've heard of instances where girls are married off to their rapist.

I have also noticed that girls are not seen as 'children' rather as 'little women' and they are lusted after sexually and they are expected to feed and clean after adult men.

As for married women? Good luck to them, this society of ours doesn't think it's rape when a husband forces himself on her.

We come from a very defective ethnic group.

What is sad, is that this mentality is a hill a lot of young Somali men are willing to die on. They cling on to dated ideas that cause suffering to women and children and brand it as tradition and conservative values. Its why many are resentful of Western and educated Somali women as we're not brainwashed to believe that they have the right to treat us any way they deem fit. They're angry, they can't treat women the way society 50 years ago treated women. Its obvious some have predator and abuser streaks. They're not fooling anyone.
 
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