All you mentioned could be true, but the fact remains that everything you said do not benefit the men financially hence Why it doesnt qualify for financial exploitation1
Women get less than the men in heritage to compensate for the increased cost
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Men basically control women's lives
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Women have few rights that the man can't supercede and even they are broken.
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A woman's testimony is 1/10
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Women are expected to do all the home work and even work outside the home if poor, which most muslims are.
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And lastly a divorced man does not have the same stigma as a divorce and spoiled woman.
I think it is your lack of empathy that makes it so you can't see the obvious result