Odious Delirium
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Then I'm doing an excellent job come and suffer with us on our search for the perfect oneOk I think thats enough talking about women for today I can't talk too much or your gonna make me wanna get married
Muslim Man Gets Sent Intimate Photos of His New Wife And Her Ex Boyfriend After 2 Weeks Of Marriage?! (Yikes!)
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The thing is I am so jaded even if I get a good women I don't think I will even care or be satisfied I will just not care about being married and reminisce over being single and having so much free time to do whatever I want and seek as much knowledge as possible.Then I'm doing an excellent job come and suffer with us on our search for the perfect one
Odious Delirium
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With time that will clear out but I would say its way better getting married younger then later
You are a smart man. I have a talent, for some reason, older women love me, whether its my teachers or friends mums or whatever, its a balance of being funny cheeky but having good manners and being a respectful and good person, If you want to get a girl, you should try try make her aabo or hooyo love you/respect you first, if you can form some kind of relationship so they know you, when you go to the daughter, the mother will be encouraging the daughter and will invite you to the house always and the only challenge left is to get the girl.
its better to do a lot of things but I don't think I was created for marriage tbh I am too much of a loner.
But Allah knows whats best for me I probably will get married to have children since thats one of the reasons to get married, I remember a quote Umar ibnul khattab said he forced himself to have sex with women to have children and if not for that(children) he wouldn't care if he saw any women with his eyes.
thats next level iman
If a women leaves a great father or husband that is because of her own deficiency, not necessarily due to lust, I also believe this varies from women to women, some women are way more a-sexual than others, and values sex less, but women who are more worldly value sex more, in fact women have sex for more than lust, they do it for connection and love.
there are many different ways women do this, you are asserting sex is the only way but I disagree, there are multiple ways to relieve emotions, other than sex, people relieve emotions while they are single without a partner, a partner is not needed or sexual release is not needed to relieve emotions.
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it is stored in the brain and released through chemicals released during different activities
Madow lover + race mixer + sel hater = damaged goods. The her disgusting family should be blacklisted so other Somalis afford marrying into that shameless familyif you listen to their podcast theirs another one with a girl who married a madow, mind you while i was watching this podcast i literally spelled out the entire story before it even happened cos i understand what men do
this madow moved to her outside a bus stop and kept trying to get with her, he wasn't muslim. eventually he became muslim and said he wanted to get married
this women married in her PYJAMAS
Next thing you know shes married paying the bills and he says he is out studying all day to get a job.
now by this time i had already made conclusions, this women is very pretty, madow wanted the nyash, converted to Islam as a final trump card to get her nyash, married her, and spends his days baking off with his boys and sleeping with girls while she provides for him, its his best dreams.
unfortunately this xalimo is blind to this and thinks good of him, she eventually found out he was stealing her money, smoking weed with his boys, cheating on her with his best friend i cant remember the rest.
Anyway she eventually got married to another mixed race revert.
idk what is wrong with these xarlimos, do they not understand how easy they are manipulated by men
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Whenever a family marries their daughter in hurry & rush to the next best guy ,just know that she was for the streets 
You lot sound screwed up. So you like women who dislike you? And you’re actually admitting it? Lol, many women say that men treat women better when they feel she doesn’t like them as much. Clearly talking about the strange ones like you and @Odious Delirium.
Also, stop with the self victimhood. Women are a lot more selfless than men. A man wouldn’t entertain a woman who doesn’t benefit him. If she wasn’t attractive to him, he wouldn’t proceed, yet you and @coolio are thinking a woman that only gives a man a chance whom she likes the look of is somehow selfish? Why would a person male or female give someone they have 0% attraction to a chance and why should that be the benchmark of unselfishness. The more I read your posts the more you sound like an autistic person who is exploring human nature for the first time.
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Lool why not, what man would say no to 2 wives.. At my first entrance I'm gonna flash my western passport and casually drop my last payslips
Yeah, when my first cousin just casually introduced me to his 3 beautiful wives in Juba, I very briefly thought... damn, I should return home
i think what @Odious Delirium is tryna say is he likes women who are already avoidant of men and distrustful naturally. this means that their very picky and have high standards so when a man gets her to open up to her she’s less experienced to a emotional connection so if a man does meet her standards, she will fall in love hard
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I like women that aren't easy and have dignity/self respect and actual standards. If any guy can get even a smile out of her and she's giving every other guy choosing signals is a turn off for me. I don't actually mean women who dislike me because I don't chase at all and If she ain't reciprocating I move on.
I like women that don't centre men and avoid men in general and avoid talking to and freemixing with men. You simply don't see them ever entertaining guy. Very smart and mature and know what they want from life and are straight up about everything.
These types don't play games once you have expressed interest and she let's you in. There very open and fall hard. So it the opposite of what your talking about.
If she clearly isn't interested and doesn’t like me like that then I lose interest myself once I have shown my cards.
I already told you I like nerdy loser xalimos.
My only issue is that they generally are rather quirky which I like but are rather focused on something and finding these girls is hard enough but finding one with a focus that some what aligns with my own is rather hard so and I don't want to keep looking for a new one so I might make some exception in my standard for these types.
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A lot of contradictions here. If she’s choosy and picky, then why would she let her guard down with you if she doesn’t even know much about you in the beginning? Women like that require a bit of chasing.
Good, I agree but women like that require to be pursued. Why should she give you chance? What makes YOU stand out? How are you different from any Abdi in the beginning? She doesn’t even know you and as you mentioned she avoids men. Why wouldn’t you be avoided in the beginning?!
No, they don’t. You’re just chatting. They have their guard up and many are realist. Many don’t fall hard but are logical. Many Will love you but within reason. Also, humans aren’t one dimensional. You get ones who do because they genuinely see something in someone that makes them feel they’re special.
You sound like a terrible person. ‘Loser’? Why would she be a loser? What in the world? A loser is someone who is unsuccessful in life and people have a low opinion on them. Imagine your own partner thinking you’re a loser.
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Odious Delirium
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They require a bit of chasing if you don't know what your doing as a guy and if you ain't serious to show your seriousness and yes her guard is up but she's upfront and clear. she ain't wishy washy and playing games. You know where you stand when it comes to if you fit or not from day one and every single day after that. So once your past the pickyness and choosiness your either out or your either in and she will make it clear that your still in or out immediately or at least briefly.
I pursue aslong as I know I'm in but I won't have to waste my time because she know what she want and will end it clearly if I don't meet her specific criterions. With most other girls they waste time a lot and drag you along when there not sure about you and if your in general a respectful guy they will drag it even longer because they feel sorry or want to give it time and all that but there not necessarily interested or there juggling a bunch of guy to match them agaisnt each other. Generally with those types you got to chase constantly. Im just not that guy. They will only outright cut you off if your retarded or rude to them and you could be talking to her up until she blocks you on the day of her marriage.
With my type I don't have to force there hand to know where I stand.
I do pursue up until i get a clear answer of whether shes interested or not. Then I court them. As for why they should give me a chance well they dont have to I'm not to fussed and neither am I entitled. Its up to them. As for standing out I already have courted a few so I must stand out I guess. Its sad to say but it's not that hard to stand out amongst abdis many don't even know how to talk to women. But there hard to find and even harder to talk to and that the only type of girl I pursue.
True that's what I like
Sometimes being a terrible guy is good.
That's like a running joke. There not actually losers
It's the fact most guys avoid them because there not naive and hate/respect those types of girls but that's the type I like. When ever I say that's the type I like guys will say why the nerdy loser.
Most grow up and then try to pursue that type
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