Muslim Man Gets Sent Intimate Photos of His New Wife And Her Ex Boyfriend After 2 Weeks Of Marriage?! (Yikes!)

[Odious Delirium]

@Angelina these types are rare to come by and it's even harder to gauge there interest.
I'm planning on talking to one soon. Hopefully it goes well. It's been almost a year since the last one.
anyways instead of prodding, probing and hating make dua edo.
stop being a hater

 

[ditto]

The guy is such a nacas. The girls mum was trying to marry her off that quickly and he thought nothing was up? Did he even bother doing background check? And the girl too… Was in a relationship with a man and lived with him for over a year, yet she broke it off that easily.

It’s an evil world out here

 

[cooli3o]

@coolio are thinking a woman that only gives a man a chance whom she likes the look of is somehow selfish

everyone is selfish, I literally said that in response to him, everyone on earth is selfish and do things for themselves, there is nothing wrong with that, I was merely agreeing with him that a women would not be with a man if he was giving her absolutely nothing and it was out of pure kindness from her (assuming they don't have kids).

 

[cooli3o]

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I keep trying to tell him this but kane will not understand, as I said, I think he is young and only interacting with younger women.
Maybe because he is interacting with women who need sex alot or value it more, so he feels that it is more valuable than it actually is. Idk why he is so obsessed with the sexual side of women, he thinks its the solution to all problems.
Now if any man here is married or ever had a girlfriend, no matter how much you please her in the bedroom, if you are doing stuff outside of that, that she dislikes or annoys her or stresses her out or having arguments, your going to have a terrible relationship filled with fighting and hatred for each other. In fact the relationship becomes a toxic one where you hate each other but use "sex" to "solve" the problem instead of actually fixing it like a mature man, then going straight back to fighting again. No man or women wants that.
If you want a women to relieve her emotions, you gotta shutup, and listen to her, and observe the situation and deal with it accordingly, instead of thinking that having sex is going to fix everything

Also another thing, a women with an extremely high sex drive, isn't necessarily a good thing, which I will not delve into now, but a women obsessed with sex or having a high sex drive, doesn't always make your marital life better.

 

[cooli3o]

Yeah, when my first cousin just casually introduced me to his 3 beautiful wives in Juba, I very briefly thought... damn, I should return home

The grass is greener on the other side
you don't know what kind of marital/family life he has or how difficult it is(I'm assuming)

 

[cooli3o]

No, they don’t. You’re just chatting. They have their guard up and many are realist. Many don’t fall hard but are logical. Many Will love you but within reason. Also, humans aren’t one dimensional. You get ones who do because they genuinely see something in someone that makes them feel they’re special.

I actually disagree with this, at a certain point with a women, if shes never been in a relationship before, after a certain amount of time with a man, if he is a great man, they can experience new emotions they never have before, and it can come like a wave and they will get caught and not know how to deal with it, so they will end up letting their guard down and be overly into you

It is also dependent on the girl, but you and I know their are women and men, who the first time they all in love or whatever, they can't control themselves, because they have never felt such a powerful feeling before

 

[cooli3o]

You sound like a terrible person. ‘Loser’? Why would she be a loser? What in the world? A loser is someone who is unsuccessful in life and people have a low opinion on them. Imagine your own partner thinking you’re a loser.

hahahaha angelina you love to pick on peoples words, can you not understand what he is saying?
nerdy loser xalimo is an archetype of women, he is not describing his ideal women as a nerdy loser according to him, hes just saying what kind of women she is in society in terms of how she is viewed, in fact she may not even be a nerd in terms of what ppl think a nerd is but she still fits the archetype.

 

[Angelina]

I keep trying to tell him this but kane will not understand, as I said, I think he is young and only interacting with younger women.
Maybe because he is interacting with women who need sex alot or value it more, so he feels that it is more valuable than it actually is. Idk why he is so obsessed with the sexual side of women, he thinks its the solution to all problems.

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Now if any man here is married or ever had a girlfriend, no matter how much you please her in the bedroom, if you are doing stuff outside of that, that she dislikes or annoys her or stresses her out or having arguments, your going to have a terrible relationship filled with fighting and hatred for each other.

Yes 100%. Any woman would agree with his. Also, men who are a bit more intimacy obsessed would also end up leaving as well. That’s human nature!

In fact the relationship becomes a toxic one where you hate each other but use "sex" to "solve" the problem instead of actually fixing it like a mature man, then going straight back to fighting again. No man or women wants that.

Exactly.

If you want a women to relieve her emotions, you gotta shutup, and listen to her, and observe the situation and deal with it accordingly, instead of thinking that having sex is going to fix everything

Exactly.

Also another thing, a women with an extremely high sex drive, isn't necessarily a good thing, which I will not delve into now, but a women obsessed with sex or having a high sex drive, doesn't always make your marital life better.

 

[Nilotic]

The grass is greener on the other side
you don't know what kind of marital/family life he has or how difficult it is(I'm assuming)

I was joking, walaal; beyond the financially draining aspect of it, I wouldn't want to grapple with the jealousies and resentments that are almost inherent to those arrangments.

I just want one wife

 

[cooli3o]

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I do think he is interacting with women but hes just so consumed with his(idek if its red pill or what) content that he is viewing everything about a women through this lens and then projects his views onto this forum.

Everyman wishes that if he can satisfy a women in the bedroom she will be an obedient and good wife, because thats a mans dream, just get his sexual pleasure, if he gives it to her, no more problems, easy. its like an illusion inside there heads, if only real life worked like that.

 

[Odious Delirium]

I actually disagree with this, at a certain point with a women, if shes never been in a relationship before, after a certain amount of time with a man, if he is a great man, they can experience new emotions they never have before, and it can come like a wave and they will get caught and not know how to deal with it, so they will end up letting their guard down and be overly into you

It is also dependent on the girl, but you and I know their are women and men, who the first time they all in love or whatever, they can't control themselves, because they have never felt such a powerful feeling before

That's the thing @Angelina a lot of these girls think there asexual so if you still got there interest after some time they act like @cooli3o stated above.
I'm talking from personal experience.

 

[Angelina]

That's the thing @Angelina a lot of these girls think there asexual so if you still got there interest after some time they act like @cooli3o stated above.
I'm talking from personal experience.

They don’t think they’re asexual. They just have Haya and don’t want to talk about it and think acting like they’re assexual is cool. Why would they open up if you’re not their husbands?!

 

[Odious Delirium]

They don’t think they’re asexual. They just have Haya and don’t want to talk about it and think acting like they’re assexual is cool. Why would they open up if you’re not their husbands?!

Same thing. Your smart Angelina you can read between the lines not everything is literal.

 

[Angelina]

I do think he is interacting with women but hes just so consumed with his(idek if its red pill or what) content that he is viewing everything about a women through this lens and then projects his views onto this forum.

Everyman wishes that if he can satisfy a women in the bedroom she will be an obedient and good wife, because thats a mans dream, just get his sexual pleasure, if he gives it to her, no more problems, easy. its like an illusion inside there heads, if only real life worked like that.

It’s straight up misogynistic. Women are telling men what the issues are with regards to divorce, so are divorce lawyers and so are studies, but they’d rather listen to a redpill guru who isn’t even married or had a failed marriage. More and more women are leaving their marriages because they feel their husbands are selfish and that they dump everything on them. More and more feel that their husbands don’t take their feelings into account ect. Women like kind, respectful and masculine men. You can’t treat them anyhow but hook them with intimacy. In fact the intimacy isn’t going to be good because anyone that knows anything about women knows that they need to feel emotionally connected.

 

[cooli3o]

It’s straight up misogynistic. Women are telling men what the issues are with regards to divorce, so are divorce lawyers and so are studies, but they’d rather listen to a redpill guru who isn’t even married or had a failed marriage. More and more women are leaving their marriages because they feel their husbands are selfish and that they dump everything on them. More and more feel that their husbands don’t take their feelings into account ect. Women like kind, respectful and masculine men. You can’t treat them anyhow but hook them with intimacy. In fact the intimacy isn’t going to be good because anyone that knows anything about women knows that they need to feel emotionally connected.

yh I already mentioned this to kane but he just ignored it

in fact women have sex for more than lust, they do it for connection and love.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Same thing. Your smart Angelina you can read between the lines not everything is literal.

@Angelina are you always genuinely misunderstanding me or is this just pick fights for the sake of having a fight? because you give my words the most bad faith interpretation every time without fail and jump into emotional rants for no reason fighting ghosts

It's entertaining tho but why

 

[cooli3o]

@Angelina are you always genuinely misunderstanding me or is this just pick fights for the sake of having a fight? because you give my words the most bad faith interpretation every time without fail and jump into emotional rants for no reason fighting ghosts

It's entertaining tho but why

Shes loves arguing that's why

 

[Angelina]

@Angelina are you always genuinely misunderstanding me or is this just pick fights for the sake of having a fight? because you give my words the most bad faith interpretation every time without fail and jump into emotional rants for no reason fighting ghosts

It's entertaining tho but why

you literally said you wanted a loser. How do you expect me to take that. I’d react the same way if a woman said she wanted a loser. I’d be like whaaat?

 

[cooli3o]

you literally said you wanted a loser. How do you expect me to take that. I’d react the same way if a woman said she wanted a loser. I’d be like whaaat?

no some women say they want an ugly handsome man.
but we all know that means, he is conventionally ugly, but the women is attracted to him for some reason

 

[Angelina]

no some women say they want an ugly handsome man.
but we all know that means, he is conventionally ugly, but the women is attracted to him for some reason

Yes and they’re insecure. That’s why they want one. They think if he’s good looking, he’d attract other women. That’s what it boils down to. Jokes on them though, unattractive men cheat just as much if not more.