no my point is its an archetype of person. doesn't mean the actual person views them that way
Muslim Man Gets Sent Intimate Photos of His New Wife And Her Ex Boyfriend After 2 Weeks Of Marriage?! (Yikes!)
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Na I would ask her to explain what she means
As for "nerdy loser" It's a very common know archetype for women.
when a guy says he wants a miskeen woman it doesn’t necessarily mean he want to take advantage. for example but someone can choice to be bad faith and claim he's a predator. Anyways I don't mind I just think its a hassle breaking it all down and trying to be literal so things aren't misconstrued again only for more random things to be further misconstrued in the next reply. I think that basically how most of our back and forth essays have gone on this sight. Me trying to flesh out what you misunderstood about something I have said
I explained it all in the reply to that
They require a bit of chasing if you don't know what your doing as a guy and if you ain't serious to show your seriousness and yes her guard is up but she's upfront and clear. she ain't wishy washy and playing games. You know where you stand when it comes to if you fit or not from day one and every single day after that. So once your past the pickyness and choosiness your either out or your either in and she will make it clear that your still in or out immediately or at least briefly.
I pursue aslong as I know I'm in but I won't have to waste my time because she know what she want and will end it clearly if I don't meet her specific criterions. With most other girls they waste time a lot and drag you along when there not sure about you and if your in general a respectful guy they will drag it even longer because they feel sorry or want to give it time and all that but there not necessarily interested or there juggling a bunch of guy to match them agaisnt each other. Generally with those types you got to chase constantly. Im just not that guy. They will only outright cut you off if your retarded or rude to them and you could be talking to her up until she blocks you on the day of her marriage.
With my type I don't have to force there hand to know where I stand.
I do pursue up until i get a clear answer of whether shes interested or not. Then I court them. As for why they should give me a chance well they dont have to I'm not to fussed and neither am I entitled. Its up to them. As for standing out I already have courted a few so I must stand out I guess. Its sad to say but it's not that hard to stand out amongst abdis many don't even know how to talk to women. But there hard to find and even harder to talk to and that the only type of girl I pursue.
True that's what I like
Sometimes being a terrible guy is good.
That's like a running joke. There not actually losers
It's the fact most guys avoid them because there not naive and hate/respect those types of girls but that's the type I like. When ever I say that's the type I like guys will say why the nerdy loser.
Most grow up and then try to pursue that type
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Odious Delirium
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She had no respect for him when she said that. and she didn’t care cuz she thought he wouldn’t divorce her. She should have just kept it to herself
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You’re as resourceful as you are persistent, you once told me that men of sspot disagreed with my views . Something you couldn’t really prove at the time, but once you realized I was having differences of opinion with few of the men here.
It did not take take you long to try and make an actual case and turn some of the men against me, you first attempt was with @Idrus he saw the bait and exercised his bro code.
You then tried @Nilotic he gave you a thumbs up for the mention but stayed silent.
as they say third times the charm, finally you found your man @cooli3o and he couldn’t even see the setup.
You replied to him in a message in which you quoted me, so that I would see your message and his reply to it.
He fell for the bait but unlike him I will exercise my bro code, and deny you the pleasure of watching two men fight over some bs you created.
Too bad, I know you too well.
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there was no setup, i disagreed with u from the start, I am a man of truth, I could care less whether a man or women agrees with me.
bro science,
You joined a women to gossip about your fellow man, that is the worst thing you can do in the eyes of a women.
You girlfriend zoned yourself!!!
This proves you know very little about female nature or women.
Great response, when you have absolutely nothing to say. btw bro science deals with men and not women, unlike the quote I shared with you that was written by a woman for women.
I don't gossip, I just commented on your illogical answers. Also I don't care what women think
Girlfriend zoned myself, bro do u understand women
Idc about female nature or women, its irrelevant to my life, and I definitely understand more than you, I don't learn from youtube or books I learn from real life, and people who know what they are talking about. I also have nothing to prove to Angelina as I always argue with her in every post I could care less.
the science u gave is a theory, not fact. therefore I do not take it as evidence
This is probably a fake story, but it's very possible in IRL. I know a Tiktok girly that completely re-did her image. There was stories of her getting flown out by NBA stars, she was on the Shaderoom for dancing to a viral challenge and people were drooling over her body. Plastered all over the internet as an example of a "hot Somalian woman".
I came across her on my FYP a few weeks and the girl was married to a miskeen looking Somali boy. Masha-Allah, may Allah cover all of our sins.
I came across her on my FYP a few weeks and the girl was married to a miskeen looking Somali boy. Masha-Allah, may Allah cover all of our sins.
whats her name
If I was the husband, I would set her up back with her boyfriend, they were meant to be. She was just a submissive woman and decided to obey her parents essentially. He doesn't need to stand in the way of true love 
. He needs to have a sit down with the wife and her boyfriend and try to fix the issue.
. He needs to have a sit down with the wife and her boyfriend and try to fix the issue.Odious Delirium
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It's an evil world miskeen faraxs and xalimos have been getting taken advantage of by these filthy zani beasts.
It don't matter whether they have repented or not all I can assume at this point is that these "miskeen" individuals aren't actually miskeen so they are getting there likeness or these ex degenerates are a test for them because I have heard far too many stories of guys and girls getting done over in there marriages because the husband/wife was still living that life behind there back and duped them into marrying by presenting a front or it came back to haunt them via a relapse or ex partners coming back into the mix.
I understand that women for whatever reason are more accepting of zanis because some actually prefer experienced partners so actually go into these marriages aware of there husbands pasts but these women cover it up entirely and given the knowledge 80% of muslim men would throw a zani out/not consider them entirely from the jump especially if there not a zani themselves.
This is the one thing that's off putting when it comes to marriage.
finding out your wife has been arround the block and everyone knew but didn't care to inform you before you married her. I feel sorry for miskeen guys.
Zanis should be marrying zanis
That guy clearly knew about her past and chose to marry her. She was on TikTok, easily googled and trending. I don’t feel sorry for her man. He probably accepted that she repented and feels he can live with her past. As for women going for ex whorish men who admit it, I feel the same way as well. You knew what you were getting yourself into.
At the end of the day women are less promiscuous than men in general and the girls that are able to hide it better tend to be ones that made a one off mistake with a guy that they were about to marry and the like. They had a good track record until they fell into something they shouldn’t. Same for the men who hide or able to fully hide their past and still have a very good rep. Very rarely can men and women who used to date around and hit the clubs hide their pasts. People talk and the internet is forever. Before marrying I was able to find out a lot via peoples old friends and social media if you go far back enough. Also, the Somali community is small. Everyone is one or two degrees apart.
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People who know I don't feel sorry for at all. I'm talking about those who don't know aswell as people who's spouses diminished what actually took place in there past to lessen the blow and make it more palatable. Many people who are like this target miskeen people by default because everyone who knows simply avoids taking them seriously. Until they come across a miskeen who doesn't use soical media or even if he did she has covered her tracks well and has gotten him to the point of being emotionally invested in her before letting anything slip. Basically manipulation.
Plus if they are of different walks of life there circles won't really know each other or will cover for each other to not ruin things for there mate. Neither would he find himself coming across her content because he's miskeen. Eventually it will comes out you can't hide this kind of stuff forever if it's out there.
Zani women often marry outside there local community so these guys are non the wiser and their parents help them or the masjids. Just like messed up guy go back home and marry xalimos that are completely ignorant of there past. One of my mates was going to marry a xalimo living in America but he dropped her right before the marriage date when he went to visit because he found out some stuff she hid so she could count on having him emotionally manipulated so he would just accept it by the time they were near or married.
The thing is a zani man is more likely to both tell a woman honestly about his past aswell as be accepted for it but at least she has the decision to decide for herself. I dont know why women accept it and then cry to regret it later but more often then not zani women try to hide it completely or tell half truths so us guys don't get to decide for ourselves.
It doesn't matter who is more promiscuous or not I'm not marrying a man so I'm only speaking on what I would fear getting Into and it doesn't matter if its less for women when it ain't 0%
To me a one off mistake and 100 are the same when it comes to anything zina related. A zani is a zani in my book whether its the major minor kind or major kind one off or not.
I don't dread the types that have a large track record because you will eventually find out and they can't hide it. its the one offs with "good" track records that's off putting because you can never tell unless they decide to tell you or they get exposed by the guy or a friend.
Plus once something is posted on the net you can find it no amount of deleting will hide it but not everyone is good with investigation and most guys I know don't even really know how to investigate. Women are the professionals in that department so I can understand how women who are known on soical media can get away with it until one of there freinds switch up on her or someone reaches out to the guy online out of pettiness.
It’s not likely at all. Men lie more than women when it comes to long term relationships and that’s facts. I know cases of men who’ve lied about their marriages, kids, ages and even their past relationships. Men lie a whole lot more and the only thing I can advise a woman is do a proper check. I’ve been lied many times whilst on my quest to marry and I’ve accepted its human behaviors. Simply protect yourself and say Alhamdulliah you’re man who has to deal with less crazy B.S than most women.
Let me tell you about life. Marriage is like Russian roulette. You never 100% know and there is nothing you can do about it. Do your background research, marry through family and the list goes on. Being overly suspicious will just mess with your mental health and it isn’t Islamic way of thinking. It’s really just damaging.
Hardly, if you’re marrying you’re meant to do investigation. You’re planning to make that man/woman the parent of your child. Do research, investigate, background checks ect and then leave the rest to Allah. Constant worrying will simply ruin you.
yh in reality noone actually does that though
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tbf doing a background check on someone from the same qabiil or your mom's qabiil is much easier than a different qabiil. maybe its easier if you have close friends from their qabiil.
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The reason it's a fear is because I'm in fact not overly suspicious and I'll take people's word for it when it actually comes to getting to know people and generally they are honest with me because i probably come across as open minded. Once again men lying more is kind of irrelevant to me since I'm not dealing with men and I don't even know how those kind of stats can even be verified but it doesn't matter because I'm dealing with women not men and I don't lie so other men lying has nothing to do with me and as far as I remember men just get caught more easier in there lies. Women lie and gaslight just as much if not more. Their just better at hiding it but that doesn't matter because you don't deal with women.
I know I'm just saying a lot of guys are rather trusting. I try to do my due diligence and then leave it at that personally. But most guys do nothing.
This is just a fear that is normal to have. We all have fears. I'm not saying it consumes me otherwise I wouldn't want to get married at all.
