They’re not average, they’re fringe. A charismatic MGTOW leader is an oxymoron, and they could only have one if a non-MGTOW infiltrated them to have an army of dejected men, which is worst “army” to have, and what would they attack?
If they had any charisma whatsoever they wouldn’t be in their predicament. If you can’t find sex in today’s climate, where sex is everywhere and women will f*ck you, there’s really no helping you. I guess going from the comments, paying prostitutes is their best bet, but if that’s their only interaction with women, where the only luck they have is with a woman on the clock, and they’re further told they can never want actual relationships, it’ll only cripple them further.